Author Topic: who is pressured here on getting married? (Read 12721 times)

vanz20 · « **Reply #20 on:** October 18, 2010, 04:03:39 pm »

ako din sis may bf e, kaso pinepressure nila ako and take note ha, everyday yun, minsan 3x a day basta makita nilang d ako busy e sinasabihan ako... di ko [textspeak!] matarayan kasi mga oldies na eh hehe

pepurpink · « **Reply #21 on:** October 20, 2010, 05:41:19 pm »

^ hehe! kulit nila 'no?

vanz20 · « **Reply #22 on:** October 21, 2010, 12:25:23 pm »

makulit talaga!!! hehe

young_maiden · « **Reply #23 on:** October 21, 2010, 07:40:24 pm »

i'm not pressured to get married but pressured to have a bf. i've been single for a year and 3 months and most of my friends are already in long-term relationships.

chinita_morena · « **Reply #24 on:** October 30, 2010, 07:44:45 pm »

syempre ako...i'm on my late 30's na...lahat pagnagtatanong if ilang taon na ko at [textspeak!] ko na 28, ask agad nila "bkit di ka pa nag-aasawa?" and i put all the blame sa BF ko....feeling ko walang balak arghh

bubuli · « **Reply #25 on:** October 31, 2010, 12:21:28 pm »

im not..every time there's a family gathering they ask me, "o wala ka bang balak mag asawa"? ilan taon ka na ba? di ka pa ba nag sasawa sa single? these are the question that always come in their mouth lol, i guess im not. "love has its own time, its own season for coming and going..."

kokobebe · « **Reply #26 on:** November 03, 2010, 02:43:27 am »

Hindi naman masyado pressured pero yung Ama ko kasi, siya lang yung pressured na wala parin akong BF hanggang ngayon. After graduation kasi, pinayagan niya na ko magpakasal. I was 22 then. Every year nalang, tinatanong niya ko kung may BF na ba ako at tuwing sinasabi ko na wala, isa lang sagot niya: "Patay tayo dyan!" LOL!

vanz20 · « **Reply #27 on:** November 03, 2010, 09:46:52 am »

@kokobebe at least your dad is cool about you getting married someday. yung ibang dad e ayaw pa e hehe

health.gal · « **Reply #28 on:** November 03, 2010, 09:57:44 am »

Quote from: kokobebe on November 03, 2010, 02:43:27 am

Hindi naman masyado pressured pero yung Ama ko kasi, siya lang yung pressured na wala parin akong BF hanggang ngayon. After graduation kasi, pinayagan niya na ko magpakasal. I was 22 then. Every year nalang, tinatanong niya ko kung may BF na ba ako at tuwing sinasabi ko na wala, isa lang sagot niya: "Patay tayo dyan!" LOL!

Ama - as in your grandmother or your dad? Either way, ang cool naman niya!

green-aholic · « **Reply #29 on:** November 03, 2010, 12:16:48 pm »

sis kokobebe nakaktuwa naman dad mo, so cool huh! parang barkada mu lang eh noh? haha. kainggit ka naman for having such dad. ako kase di namin napag uusapan yan dito. 24 nako ha. hehe.

kokobebe · « **Reply #30 on:** November 04, 2010, 05:28:11 pm »

@vanz20, @health.gal & @health.gal - thanks sisses! Dad ko yung Ama. Ewan ko nga bat ganun yung thinking niya eh. Pero yung mga older brothers ko naman, hindi niya kinakausap ng ganun. LOL!

mooncake and leaves · « **Reply #31 on:** November 04, 2010, 09:37:08 pm »

No pressure at all. Alam kasi nila na pag prinessure nila ako, sila ipi-pressure ko managot ng lahat ng expenses ng marriage ko nyaha. Aba, sila may gusto eh di sila magbayad.

vanz20 · « **Reply #32 on:** November 08, 2010, 08:26:07 am »

@kokobebe i wish my dad is like that heheh, [textspeak!] only girl ka sa family nyo noh?

peaceinsolitude · « **Reply #33 on:** November 09, 2010, 04:57:12 am »

^nice one sis.

Only girl din ako. Ako pinakamatandang girl sa magpipinsan on both sides and Dad told me not to hurry getting married. Basta before 30 need ko na magkaanak or I might suffer from it. Since maselan magbuntis ang girls sa side ng mom ko . Im just 23.. Though my grandma tells my brother and I too look for a person to be with habang young pa kami.

Feeling ko gusto ko na din maghanap pero wala akong makitang hinahanap ko. It makes me feel sad.

scruffy_mongrel · « **Reply #34 on:** November 15, 2010, 05:00:35 pm »

im in my early thirties at minsan naiirita na ko sa mga comments...as in. uy ok ka na naman ah baket di ka pa mag asawa...ayos na trabaho mo ano pa ba hinahanap mo? mapili ka siguro...mataray ka siguro masyado...ay baket k nakipag break sa bf mo (na alam naman nila nanloko) pano ka pa makakahanap nyan??? susme talaga... i think i sometimes get afraid of marrying late kasi delikado daw magbuntis mga late thirties na babae...if only i can preserve my egg cell tapos 50 na ko mag asawa...hahahaha

lovemyself · « **Reply #35 on:** December 01, 2010, 01:17:04 pm »

im one the late 20s na pressured na. comforting na marami pala tayo. hehe

helpfulgoddess · « **Reply #36 on:** December 14, 2010, 12:29:28 am »

Just found this interesting thread!

Well, one thing I dread about Christmas is that when I go to these reunions, they will ask the same question: Why aren't you married yet?

I've tried to look for good answers until I got tired and just said the truth: "Because no one likes me po." Wala talagang nanliligaw. Nobody is asking.

And yet, they still don't believe me!

Wala nang kawala ito!! Kahit katotohanan, ayaw tanggapin!

pomegranate · « **Reply #37 on:** December 14, 2010, 12:45:03 am »

Siempre, may pressure sa atin kung hindi sa family e sa society.

I don't let them pressure me, actually, I don't see myself settling down until I reach 35. Right now, I'm keen about my goals which is all about career and self-enhancement. I see it as a race, kaya lang . . .

yung mga kasabayan ko, some are even younger more ambitious than I am, ayun get or will get married na, or get pregnant, planned or unplanned . . . so it sometimes have this reality check effect if there is something that I've been missing. I will not be surprised that at the end, I'll finish the race, but it will not feel like it is so . . . because I am the only one left.

carmilina · « **Reply #38 on:** December 14, 2010, 02:16:25 am »

kagagling ko lang din reunion yan, din ask nila sa akin , bkit kht BF wala ako..ako pa namn laging gumaganap na SNOW white nun elemetnary kami..hahahaha..

snowhite_12 · « **Reply #39 on:** December 15, 2010, 06:51:59 pm »

akala ko ako lang mag isa ... kayu din hehe

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