Author Topic: who is pressured here on getting married? (Read 12729 times)

jamien · « **Reply #120 on:** November 22, 2012, 10:08:42 pm »

Ako naman may partner na. Pressured ako in a way na gusto ng parents ng bf ko pakasal na kami kasi mag2 years na kami live in. Eh ayoko pa sana kasi ang gastos din.

iloveshoes88 · « **Reply #121 on:** November 23, 2012, 03:27:03 pm »

I'm only 24, but lately in the span of a month, yung mga status ng friends ko sa FB either engaged, married or biglang may picture ng mga babies and announcement of pregnancies, all normal but in a span of a month puro ganito ang nakikita ko, I'm like what is happening to the world?! Haha. :-P

hisana · « **Reply #122 on:** November 26, 2012, 08:52:20 am »

I decided some time ago na I do not want to get married, ever. Kung makapag-react yung iba, akala mo I got cancer or had an abortion or something. Kaya hindi ko na lang sinasabi sa iba; I just make up some lame excuse to get them off my case.

@JLO · « **Reply #123 on:** November 26, 2012, 11:51:05 am »

Quote from: iloveshoes88 on November 23, 2012, 03:27:03 pm

I'm only 24, but lately in the span of a month, yung mga status ng friends ko sa FB either engaged, married or biglang may picture ng mga babies and announcement of pregnancies, all normal but in a span of a month puro ganito ang nakikita ko, I'm like what is happening to the world?! Haha. :-P

super same,, scenario.. whats worst on my end,, nanaginip ako na nag ka baby na daw ako.. and the moment daw na nanganak ako I want to get back to office for my work.. haha.. workaholic much >.<

jtansanco · « **Reply #124 on:** December 02, 2012, 10:37:11 pm »

Quote from: iloveshoes88 on November 23, 2012, 03:27:03 pm

I'm only 24, but lately in the span of a month, yung mga status ng friends ko sa FB either engaged, married or biglang may picture ng mga babies and announcement of pregnancies, all normal but in a span of a month puro ganito ang nakikita ko, I'm like what is happening to the world?! Haha. :-P

HAHA! Same experience! Just last month, 4 got married and 1 got engaged. I'm like, "Is this the trend at this age?"

Even my dad told me, "When you get married, I'll give you (X amount of cash)!" Oh dear me... Bribing to get married kaso wala pa ngang prospect eh..

yabbikins · « **Reply #125 on:** December 16, 2012, 01:53:01 am »

me! hahaha. im 26 and has been dating my bf for 5 years. pero mukhang wala pang proposal eh

jamberryknots · « **Reply #126 on:** December 16, 2012, 08:14:46 am »

me too, kaya i'm dreading family reunions eh madami na naman ngayon dahil holiday season (konting dread lang naman haha syempre super happy to be with family) mostly yung lolas from both sides tapos mga titas at titos
i'm 26 na the thing is i'm in a 2 year relationship with a butch partner so ayun
minsan nga ang comment eh mag-anak na nga ako eh hello ang alam nila wala [a kong bf haha

spitfire · « **Reply #127 on:** December 17, 2012, 04:00:30 pm »

Will be turning 28th this weekend, my Lola is pressuring me kahit daw wlang asawa basta mag anak lang haha! my younger 23y/o brother itroduced his girlfriend for four years..

hayy as of the moment kahit prospect wala

klengmorales · « **Reply #128 on:** December 17, 2012, 04:02:34 pm »

Being the eldest... hinihingan nako ng apo... hayz buhay talaga... eh kagaaling ko lang sa hindi magandang break up (days ago lang. kamustasa naman diba?

PrincessC · « **Reply #129 on:** December 17, 2012, 05:08:14 pm »

Quote from: jamien on November 22, 2012, 10:08:42 pm

Ako naman may partner na. Pressured ako in a way na gusto ng parents ng bf ko pakasal na kami kasi mag2 years na kami live in. Eh ayoko pa sana kasi ang gastos din.

me too!

Pretty Gorgeous · « **Reply #130 on:** December 17, 2012, 11:37:56 pm »

me as in super pressured

tifay · « **Reply #131 on:** December 20, 2012, 12:06:26 pm »

Ako pressured as in kase im turning 30 next year mashonda na ako! I want a baby Na. Pero si bf not financially ready or not ready at all yet and he's turning 31. Not really sure what to do

yengyeng · « **Reply #132 on:** December 20, 2012, 06:39:31 pm »

Ako pressured na..

im 27yo turning 28yo in 2 months time. sabi ko kasi dapat may anak na ko pag 30yo na ako. gusto ko muna makasal bago magkababy. tapos syempre may mga risks ang pagbubuntis so dapat well prepared ang katawan ko, irregular pa ko so hindi ko masyadong sure kung magkakababy nga ako agad. gusto maayos ang baby ko at gusto ko maalagaan at masubaybayan ko pa sya sa paglaki. si mommy lagi ako tinatanong kung kailan ako mag aasawa. Hindi ko alam kung nirereverse psychology lang ako o gusto na ba nya talaga ako mag asawa. may "special friend" naman ako, we're dating pero medyo complicated ata yung status namin, kung ano ba kami at anong patutunguhan namin (kaya gusto ko rin magkaroon ng sariling topic to ask your opinions girls).

mixxy16 · « **Reply #133 on:** December 20, 2012, 08:53:29 pm »

Count me in. Hindi pa ako tapos magaral pero mom ko na mismo nagsasabi sakin na magpakasal na daw agad ako. Isama mo pa yung mga cousins and relatives na magsasabing "Oh, kelan mo ipapakilala boyfriend mo samin?". Utang na loob ho, wala nga akong maipapakilala sa inyo e at saka 20y.o. pa lang ako inaatat niyo na ako. At may 4x na siguro 'tong sinasabi sakin. Haaay. Weird, right?

Naisip ko na lang na kaya ganun mom ko kasi all my 3 sibs are married and with kids na, tapos yung gap pa ng sinundan ko eh 13 years. Siguro naiisip nila na pag hindi pa agad ako magaasawa e maiiwan ako na magaalaga sa kanila (which is not a problem for me ;p). And siguro din kasi gusto na ulit nila magkaroon ng apo, lol jk.

missreese · « **Reply #134 on:** December 20, 2012, 09:19:32 pm »

Quote from: tifay on December 20, 2012, 12:06:26 pm

Ako pressured as in kase im turning 30 next year mashonda na ako! I want a baby Na. Pero si bf not financially ready or not ready at all yet and he's turning 31. Not really sure what to do

same here.. though mas bata si bf saken ng 4 years, im going 29 this jan 30 and siya naman going 25 sa june.. di pa talaga siya ready. nagaaral pa siya. =(

tifay · « **Reply #135 on:** December 21, 2012, 07:53:50 pm »

nakakainis noh pag yung lalake di pa ready, question ko lang is do we wait till they are or do we go for someone who is ready na? kase im so confused sa totoo lang sa situation namin i don't know if worth the wait ba si bf since he's not in any way ready at all.

yengyeng · « **Reply #136 on:** December 21, 2012, 11:22:30 pm »

^ang hirap talaga noh? Iniisip ko nga rin kung paano yun, wait or not to wait.

markyy · « **Reply #137 on:** January 31, 2013, 06:03:35 pm »

pag sa guy ba na 39+ may chance di magkaanak? kasi sa ngayon gusto ko na mag-asawa the thing is nagbreak kami ng kalive-in ko last year. ayaw ko naman magrush kung sino na lang yayain. the thing is seaman ako at assign sa makina where the temp is averaging 37deg.

another factor, syempre pag matanda na late mo na makita malaki anak mo hehe.

izzza · « **Reply #138 on:** February 11, 2013, 01:42:15 pm »

Not me, pero yung mga taong nakapaligid sakin yun ang worried baka tumandang dalaga ako. aysus!

babychellee · « **Reply #139 on:** February 14, 2013, 01:27:17 pm »

Quote from: iloveshoes88 on November 23, 2012, 03:27:03 pm

I'm only 24, but lately in the span of a month, yung mga status ng friends ko sa FB either engaged, married or biglang may picture ng mga babies and announcement of pregnancies, all normal but in a span of a month puro ganito ang nakikita ko, I'm like what is happening to the world?! Haha. :-P

haha naexperience ko rin to before sis. halos majority ng batchmates ko siguro nung mga 25-28 yrs old kami, sunod sunod talaga wedding announcements and pregnancy announcements sa FB. grabe yung feeling ko nun, super napag iiwanan na. nung time kasi na yun puro palpak pa relationships ko. i'm already 31 now and just about to get married. at least nung inannounce ko na ikakasal nako, nakahighlight talaga haha kasi super konti nalang kami sa batch yung medyo late na or humahabol na sa kasal

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