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who is pressured here on getting married?
« on: October 03, 2010, 07:52:43 PM »
just wanna share if anyone there has the same situation with me.
im single for almost 3 yrs and i go out on dates before until i got tired.
most of my friends are already married with kids.they want me to get married and would always make fun of me like im getting older.sometimes it pisses me off but i tried to hide it.pressured again?
ang sarap pag sabihin that this is the life that i choose kaya mag hintay ka kung kelan ako ma inlove.

share naman kayo dyan mga sisters...
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Re: who is pressured here on getting married?
« Reply #1 on: October 07, 2010, 06:20:39 PM »
i'm the eldest in my family.my parents don't pressure me to get married.my aunts and godmother does.so far,it doesn't get to me.una,enjoy ako.pangalawa,I love my freedom.
I just realized I am not meant to be somebody's "someone" nor anyone's "The One";I am "The Only One" and I am meant for no one but "me,myself,and I".

I am the Black Swan.

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Re: who is pressured here on getting married?
« Reply #2 on: October 07, 2010, 07:36:41 PM »
me! kase lahat ng pinsan ko even my brother who are younger than me have years of relationship with their partners already. pressure lang dahil ako ang pinakamatanda samen yet ako na lang walang partner. kase at my age of 24 dapat nagpeprepare nako by this time para maikasal pag 27 nako. pero sa nangyayare wala pa talaga, as in wala! hay!!
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Re: who is pressured here on getting married?
« Reply #3 on: October 07, 2010, 11:31:11 PM »
^buti ka nga sis young ka pa.ako eh I'm turning 27 na in a few days,wala pa akong bf.katakot-takot na tanong na naman ito sa family reunion
I just realized I am not meant to be somebody's "someone" nor anyone's "The One";I am "The Only One" and I am meant for no one but "me,myself,and I".

I am the Black Swan.

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Re: who is pressured here on getting married?
« Reply #4 on: October 08, 2010, 08:43:29 AM »
^katakot takot na pressure nga yan sis! hahaha. mag advertise ka na kase. hehe. minsan talaga ang hirap makilala yung taong para sayo kaya naiinis din ako gaya mo sa kasabihang wag hanapin dahil kusang dumarating yon at andyan lang sa tabi tabi. hay nako. gasgas na nga yon, pakunswelo lang talaga. yaan mo sis, andyan lang sya. hehe. :p
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Re: who is pressured here on getting married?
« Reply #5 on: October 08, 2010, 10:57:02 AM »
^ yun nga sis eh. buti may option ako not to attend the family reunion. hahaha. advertise talaga eh no? parang yung sa movie na "must love dogs". kairita din yung linyang dadating na lang siya kapag hindi mo hinahanap. well, ang takot ko lang eh kapag dumating siya baka ako naman yung ayaw.
I just realized I am not meant to be somebody's "someone" nor anyone's "The One";I am "The Only One" and I am meant for no one but "me,myself,and I".

I am the Black Swan.

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Re: who is pressured here on getting married?
« Reply #6 on: October 08, 2010, 11:27:30 PM »
i'm almost always pressured by my mom to get married. never had a bf, and now, it's not going so good with my gf. les ako and i'm not out.

i understand naman my mom's concern na baka walang mag-alaga saken, or wala nakong makuhang guy pag hindi pa ako nagmadali ngayon, but the thing is, i don't care if i get married or not. if it's gonna happen, it will happen. i don't wanna force myself to look for someone.
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Re: who is pressured here on getting married?
« Reply #7 on: October 08, 2010, 11:50:26 PM »
hahah. pressured na ba? ;D
kain saan may pressure.. kahit kaming mga guys may pressure din pag dating sa pag aasawa. ;D

but don't worry. things will work out in time..
magugulat ka na lang. ang bilis ng pangyayari. ;D


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Re: who is pressured here on getting married?
« Reply #8 on: October 08, 2010, 11:55:38 PM »
ang sabi kasi ng isang priest samin, ang ratio ng lalake sa babae ngayon eh
1 is to 42. dunno kung kasama ba jan sa stats na yan yung mga gays and les.
kaya i kinda find it difficult to believe na may mga guys pang hindi makapag-asawa. as in yung hindi nila choice ha? la lang.
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Re: who is pressured here on getting married?
« Reply #9 on: October 09, 2010, 12:33:32 AM »
^korek.sa dami ng girls eh marami rin palang guys na wala pang asawa. mga lalake kasi ma-physical.yung mga hindi pa nag-aasawa,hindi pa sila nakakahanap ng aesthetically pleasing na partner.it's bulls**t if a guy says ,"hindi kailangan ang physical.mas mahalaga ang personality".
I just realized I am not meant to be somebody's "someone" nor anyone's "The One";I am "The Only One" and I am meant for no one but "me,myself,and I".

I am the Black Swan.

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Re: who is pressured here on getting married?
« Reply #10 on: October 11, 2010, 09:54:37 AM »
^onga sis! they don't really look daw sa physical but mostly they easily get attracted to the physical alone and choose them just because of that. ewan nga ba sa mga guys. hehe. grabe na pala ang ration ngayon! pressure talaga!
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« Reply #11 on: October 11, 2010, 01:03:24 PM »
 ;) my mom doesn't pressure me pero mga cousins and other relatives, my friends pati kapitbahay namin pine-pressure ako  >:(

i can't blame them kase naman i'm 28. NBSB. haysss!  :-\
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« Reply #12 on: October 11, 2010, 02:11:16 PM »
^baka mataas standards mo sis kaya di ka pa nagka-bf. but i don't say na settle for less or settle just to say na magka-bf ka. be realistic, not idealistic.
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Re: who is pressured here on getting married?
« Reply #13 on: October 11, 2010, 04:46:51 PM »
 ;) heheh! ^ baka nga sis. ewan ko ba. may mga nagparamadam, i dated men...salamat sa mga cousins ko pero wala eh. i like someone, pero he's one of my barkada.  :-[

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Re: who is pressured here on getting married?
« Reply #14 on: October 11, 2010, 05:43:18 PM »
;) my mom doesn't pressure me pero mga cousins and other relatives, my friends pati kapitbahay namin pine-pressure ako  >:(

i can't blame them kase naman i'm 28. NBSB. haysss!  :-\
can relate sis.. though I'm thankful my parents and friends doesn't pressure me.my aunts and godmothers are the ones pressuring me..
I just realized I am not meant to be somebody's "someone" nor anyone's "The One";I am "The Only One" and I am meant for no one but "me,myself,and I".

I am the Black Swan.

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Re: who is pressured here on getting married?
« Reply #15 on: October 14, 2010, 11:00:39 AM »
i can sympathize gurl coz like you nasa ganyan din akong situation, imagine your whole clan e tinatanung ka why di pa ako mag-asawa tapos to make matter worse pati dito sa office kinukulit din ako... grrr!!! kesyo baka mahirapan na daw akong mabuntis, mawawala n ako sa calendar, etc. :)
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Re: who is pressured here on getting married?
« Reply #16 on: October 15, 2010, 08:06:43 PM »
^korek sis.ewan pero mas happy ako being single
I just realized I am not meant to be somebody's "someone" nor anyone's "The One";I am "The Only One" and I am meant for no one but "me,myself,and I".

I am the Black Swan.

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Re: who is pressured here on getting married?
« Reply #17 on: October 16, 2010, 04:56:54 AM »
same here...ako pressured na kasi bukod sa lagpas na sa calendar at inip na, yung mga officemates ko na 30+ na nagpakasal, hirap na talaga sila sa pagbubuntis...masyado na maselan yun pagbubuntis kasi pag nasa 30's na...

korek. kaya ako pag by 30, ala pa din akong baby, parang ayoko na umasa. hehe. kahit nga gf ko, gusto din magka-baby kami. AI sana, ala lang budget. katakot naman kasi pag one night stand. ang weird naman pag sa friend. lol.
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Re: who is pressured here on getting married?
« Reply #18 on: October 18, 2010, 09:05:14 AM »
korek mga sister kapag 30's n daw e hirap n magbuntis, lalo n kapag irregular p daw s mens...
hayysss yung mga kasabayan ko n dalaga p dito s office nag-asawa na! wahhh!!! ako na lang dalaga dito!!!!
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« Reply #19 on: October 18, 2010, 02:23:52 PM »
^ o nga yan nga sabi nila.

in my case sis, yung una kung work, puro kame fresh grad. most of them gt married na last year tapos yung iba manganganak na this year. me mga single din pero may bf...ako nalang single sa batch. kaloka!
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