Author Topic: "sa larangan ng relasyon, dominante kaba or sunudsunuran" (Read 6700 times)

twix01 · « **Reply #80 on:** August 22, 2012, 12:18:09 am »

i must say samin ng bf ko balance lang.

pareho kaming dominant & sunud sunuran sa isat isa.
like me, sunud sunuran ako sa kanya kapag iprepare ko food nya, kuha ko sya water, imassage ko sya, sort of pag aalaga..

sya naman sunud sunuran in a way na hatid sundo nya ko sa work. dadalan nya ko food. haha so pantay lang kami..
ganun talaga siguro dapat pag nagmamahal gagawin lahat pero mas ok pag balance.
though controller talaga ako and i cant help it & sumusunod naman din cya sakin haha, ako din naman sumusunod sakanya minsan

TheMDVL · « **Reply #81 on:** August 24, 2012, 03:25:04 pm »

I'd have to say that it depends on the situation. Most of the time, I let her lead me around to where she wants to go because I'm happy with what makes her happy. But when I see that the situation requires for my competencies, I'm not hesitant to let her know that I'm willing to take the lead and she acknowledges that as well, which is a good thing because we recognize each other's strengths and weaknesses.

sensi · « **Reply #82 on:** October 11, 2012, 05:21:13 am »

dominant ako by nature rin...although im trying na balance kami..pero its his fault rin kasi pumapayag rin naman siya sa mga gusto ko..lol

cheekywraps · « **Reply #83 on:** October 11, 2012, 08:42:11 pm »

In the middle. Dapat give and take lang para patas.

romanticure · « **Reply #84 on:** October 14, 2012, 04:23:08 am »

Quote from: ezrha on September 30, 2010, 01:23:58 pm

..guys let us know sino tayo sa relasyon natin...

naweweirduhan ako minsan sa kanya, she calls me master sometimes, kapag tinanong ko anong master? sasabihin nya "ay! wala hon."

dca201 · « **Reply #85 on:** October 16, 2012, 02:05:44 am »

Quote from: sensi on October 11, 2012, 05:21:13 am

dominant ako by nature rin...although im trying na balance kami..pero its his fault rin kasi pumapayag rin naman siya sa mga gusto ko..lol

Salbahe ka :-)

JakeTheDog · « **Reply #86 on:** October 16, 2012, 10:36:19 am »

Dominant. We're in the philippines and not in the UK. We're not ruled by a queen.

IamDzeybi · « **Reply #87 on:** November 23, 2012, 10:16:20 am »

From what I have seen, there is no such thing as "equal partnership". I like knowing that I am the one in control of my life and I am the one my family comes to when they need anything. I am not a tyrant. We have discussions about many important decisions, it is not a "do what I say" thing. This also does not make my partner weak-minded. We are both strong, I'm just stronger. So yes, I enjoy being dominant.

eilegna · « **Reply #88 on:** January 19, 2013, 11:48:54 am »

depende sa sitwasyon...

basta give and take lang..

swit_squiggle · « **Reply #89 on:** January 19, 2013, 12:23:56 pm »

dominant. Wala sa direksiyon ang buhay if I come out weak.

nessy · « **Reply #90 on:** January 19, 2013, 01:31:22 pm »

ako i must say, im dominant. i know what i want. pero depende ri naman yan sa sitwasyon. ako kasi, pag ayaw ko ayaw ko talaga. or pag mali, i'll say it right away na mali. but not to the point na "under" ko na si hubby ha. i make sure din naman na may "say" din siya sa house. pero pag ang opinion niya ay against mine, we talk then meet half way. i dont consider it weak pero ganon sa relationship eh. hindi pwedeng ikaw lang ng ikaw. and also, strong kasi talaga ang personality ko. tipong walang pwedeng mag-down sa akin. ganon ako eh.