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Author Topic: sweet pa din ba si hubby syo kahit matagal na kayong magkasama or hindi na???  (Read 52325 times)

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hello sisses!

I wanna know if your husbands or partners is still as sweet like before when you weren't married yet and after so many years of being together...

Like does he still holds your hand while walking in the mall or wherever you are?

Does he still embrace you and kiss you in public kahit smack lang and a short hug...

Or minsan parang ayaw na niya na hawakan ka or akbayan man lang in public?

share your experience here and what do you think we should do to bring back the sweetness in our relationship...

thanks!
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my husband still do sweet gestures, like kissing me in public and holding my hand while walking (HHWW lol),  pero on my part wala na yung kilig feeling, parang normal na lang. Minsan nga parang ako pa yung nahihiya kapag kinikiss nya ko in public. 4 years pa lang kaming kasal, and feeling ko mas lumalim pa yung pagmamahal ko sa kanya and ganon din naman sya sakin. Shempre nag-aaway din kami like any other husand and wife pero hanggat maaari inaayos namin agad dahil may baby na kami. Dati nagkaron kami ng problema, kala ko nga yun na ang end namin. Then a friend of him gave an advice, magbakasyon daw kami dahil that time halos wala na kaming oras sa isat isa dahil sa work, and nakatulong yung bakasyon na yon para maayos namin ang lahat, para ma recall namin yung magagndang moments namin together. Sabi nga nila dapat daw ginagawang habit yon, yung lumalabas ang mag-asawa once a week, yung silang dalawa lang, date night :) para magkaron sila ng time magbonding na silang dalawa lang and para na din makapag communicate ng maayos sa isa't-isa. And once a year mag out of town kayo kahit  mga 1 week makakatulong din yon to keep the fire burning
« Last Edit: September 11, 2010, 08:10:54 PM by prettybarbie »

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Sa awa ng Diyos, sweet pa rin naman si husband kahit 9 years na kami :)
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so nice to hear stories of happy marriage here.

kami din ni hubby, very sweet pa rin kami. :)

i think being sweet is a decision. dapat hinde ka napapagod na ipakita yung pagmamahal mo sa asawa mo.

most couples lose the sweetness kasi super occupied na sa mga household issues, lalo na kung may mga anak na. dapat conscious effort talaga on both parties para mabago. and then prayers. its really true that a family that prays together, stays together.

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@ 8yrs..Yes, sweet pa rin the usual thing na ginagawa nya before ganon pa rin,mas comfortable na nga lang,dati nahihiya ako pag kinikiss nya ako in public,ngayon naman parang normal na yon samin (baliktad ata ako,hehe) until now sinusubuan nya pa rin ako kahit we dine out  ;D awww kilig lang.
« Last Edit: September 12, 2010, 03:22:03 AM by maria_fides »
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chikka ko lang mga sis, kahapon umuwi si hubby tapos sabi ko sa kanya kwentuhan naman kami kwentuhan nya ko ng mga nangyari sa work nya or kahit ano pa basta gusto ko lang maglambing, pero instead na makipag kwentuhan e todo nood lang sya ng movie sa HBO na ilang beses naman na nya napanood yon and after non todo computer pa at may ka chat na old friend. So nainis lang ako kasi may time sya makipag chat sa iba pero wala sya time makipag kwentuhan sakin....so humiga na ko sa kama para matulog, sabi nya bakit parang nagtatampo ka...LOL itanong pa daw ba! so sinabi ko sa kanya why, then sabi nya lang "Okay" sabay tulog... OMG lalo tuloy ako nainis. tapos kanina ginising nya ko may dala syang donut yung favorite donut ko, sorry daw intindihin ko na lang daw sya minsan.... so natuwa naman ako kasi feelin ko kahit papano umeffect yung pagpapapansin ko... wala lang simple thing lang yung pagbili nya ng donut pero natuwa talaga ko... little act of kindness can make a big difference

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weve been together for 19 years already, prang nwla n sweetness nya. I think this happens when a couple has been together for a long time already, they consider each other more as friends than being lovers

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Mas sweet kami ngayon kesa nung una. Kasi maloko talaga si hubby nung una pero nakapagpabago sa kanya yung mga difficult times namin together na sobrang bigat na problema. Yun yung nagbond samin ng husto,hindi yung happy times together. Mas nakita namin yung purpose kung bakit kami pinagtagpo.
Dati he doesnt even bother kung galit ako,di nagbibigay ng card/gifts or flowers pag me occasion, di ako sasamahan kung san ako pupunta, iba na ngayon, sobrang bait na nya sakin..:)pwera usog..
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By God's grace, super sweet pa rin kami ni hubby... kahit in front of the kids nag say "I love you" kami palagi sabay smack :D
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naku mag 3 years palang kami ng bf ko, wala ng kalambing lambing. maglalambing lang yan pag may kailangan. nakaka-inis. tapos minsan maglalambing yan mangangat. eh ayoko ng ganun kasi madali ako magka bruise (baka akalain ng daddy ko sinasaktan na niya 'ko).

pero pag lumalabas naman kami may HHWW parin then kiss sa forehead.

yung pag ILOVEYOU niya i don't find it sweet na kasi parang nakakasanayan nalang niya sabihin parang wala ng dating.

kung hindi pa ako maglalambing parang wala lang, walang dating. kainis.

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Re: sweet pa din ba si hubby syo kahit matagal na kayong magkasama or hindi na???
« Reply #10 on: September 13, 2010, 09:44:06 AM »
mas lalong nagiging sweet in words and actions :) everyday i love you's so many times a day....so many texts and calls a day kahit on the way home na from work...walang nagbago after 8 years, lumala lang ;D

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Re: sweet pa din ba si hubby syo kahit matagal na kayong magkasama or hindi na???
« Reply #11 on: September 13, 2010, 09:54:17 AM »
Mas sweet kami ngayon kesa nung una. Kasi maloko talaga si hubby nung una pero nakapagpabago sa kanya yung mga difficult times namin together na sobrang bigat na problema. Yun yung nagbond samin ng husto,hindi yung happy times together. Mas nakita namin yung purpose kung bakit kami pinagtagpo.
Dati he doesnt even bother kung galit ako,di nagbibigay ng card/gifts or flowers pag me occasion, di ako sasamahan kung san ako pupunta, iba na ngayon, sobrang bait na nya sakin..:)pwera usog..

Sa awa ng Diyos, we did not encounter financial problems to add to his philandering.    But yes,  like KWINCHESTERS  after sh1t hit the fan... our commitment  and love for each other deepened.  God's will and grace.  He got into True Remorse and Reform, ako I had to learn Forgiveness.

And like KWINCHESTERS, more verbal and material expressions of love has been the norm since July 2006.  Puera usog nga.
He has always spoiled me, now more than ever...  spoiled beyond Redemption.  hehe  (BUT take note, I am a financially empowered woman ha... nothing better than enjoying the world not just through a husband's generosity/tolerance but because you make your own way in this world.)
« Last Edit: September 15, 2010, 07:11:09 AM by aquacharly »

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Re: sweet pa din ba si hubby syo kahit matagal na kayong magkasama or hindi na???
« Reply #12 on: September 13, 2010, 01:26:57 PM »
yes, habang tumatagal lalong nagiging sweet si hubby... so im thankful... magtutwo years na kaming married this november.
our sisses are right, dapat talaga lagi kwentuhan, communication, tawanan, lagi kami ganun so lagi masaya. at the same time, i know we're falling in love with each other more each day.

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Re: sweet pa din ba si hubby syo kahit matagal na kayong magkasama or hindi na???
« Reply #13 on: September 13, 2010, 03:30:02 PM »
Si hubby din habang tumatagal mas nagiging sweet. Minsan parang addict na sa akin...lol!  :o

So happy to have him as my husband. Ako din naman super sweet kay hubby. everyday laging may I love you, I miss you..  ;D
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Re: sweet pa din ba si hubby syo kahit matagal na kayong magkasama or hindi na??
« Reply #14 on: September 13, 2010, 03:52:30 PM »
minsan sweet... minsan hindi... pero mabait naman sya hindi lang siguro showy.... sa sobrang bait nya nga minsan muntikan na syang magka-affair sa iba e. ;D... tapos madaming nagkaka-crush sa kanya...

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Re: sweet pa din ba si hubby syo kahit matagal na kayong magkasama or hindi na???
« Reply #15 on: September 15, 2010, 07:29:07 PM »
^^natawa ko dun naaddict na sayo si hubby, but that's nice diba

in our case ever since we became a couple natural na kay hubby ang pagiging sweet.  kahit nine years na kami (5years as bf/gf and 4 years married) everyday hindi nakakalimut mag i love you and i miss you (eh kaninang umaga lang nagkita haha), tapos we still celebrate our monthsary and during special occassion lalo na pag anniversary namin, may pakulo yan like bigla nalang susulpot sa office door ko with a bouquet of flowers, kinuntyaba pala [textspeak!] officemate ko to pick him up sa reception para makapasok sya haha.   
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Re: sweet pa din ba si hubby syo kahit matagal na kayong magkasama or hindi na???
« Reply #16 on: September 15, 2010, 11:37:41 PM »
wow! nakakatuwa naman at madami pa din couples na kahit married sweet pa din ang pagsasama...

Sige share pa tayo ng mga sweet stories natin or kahit hindi sweet ok na din..

Ako, there are times na feeling ko he doesn't wanna hold my hand kapag nasa public kami ang reason niya is because madami tao kung 3 kami magkakahawak ng kamay with our son masikip na daw ang lalakaran..

 E hello, ang luwag kaya ng mall dito sa jersey... madami lang tao namimili kasi that time at saka sa pinas magkakahawak kami lagi eh mas masikip pa ang daanan dun.. Wala siya care kahit masikip at madami tao... then dito ganun... hay!

Pero nung kami lang dalawa ang magkasama when we watched resident evil after life, ok naman... sweet na din..  hehe!

kaysa hindi di ba... pero namimiss ko yung times na bf-gf pa lang kami.. mas sweet at intense ang bawat galaw ng isat isa... hihi!
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Re: sweet pa din ba si hubby syo kahit matagal na kayong magkasama or hindi na???
« Reply #17 on: September 29, 2010, 02:43:58 AM »
so far so sweet pa naman... pero depende sa mood din eh.but most of the time oo naman

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Re: sweet pa din ba si hubby syo kahit matagal na kayong magkasama or hindi na???
« Reply #18 on: September 29, 2010, 04:08:42 AM »
getting sweeter as we get older  ;D
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Re: sweet pa din ba si hubby syo kahit matagal na kayong magkasama or hindi na???
« Reply #19 on: September 29, 2010, 05:19:44 AM »
11 years na kami ni hubby. super sweet pa rin siya sa akin. anniversary na namin ngayong monday.. kumuha siya ng 2 nights reservation sa imperial palace resort parang shangrila din dito sa cebu. ganyan talaga siya ka sweet. last anniversary namin sa states naman kami at binigyan niya ako ng bulaklak. sana hindi  kukupas.^__^


wow sis! super sweet naman si hubby mo.. that's great!

happy anniv sa inyo!
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