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deliciously_ridiculous

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why do u think it didn't work out???
« on: August 22, 2010, 05:37:50 AM »
hi mga sisses, this topic is good for 'us' single ladies, and for those who just got out of a relationship.

Make a list of reasons why it didn't work out with your ex or past relationships. Include reasons (your side and his side)or the situation itself.

here goes my list:

1. His parents didn't  approved of me
2 LDR kami
3. I didn't put too much effort in the relationship,
4. hindi na ko inlove sa kaniya matagal na, but im just trying to stick with him kasi comfortable na ko sa relationship
5. He's just not the one....


what about u mga sisses, make your own list too.. and post it here..
xxxx
« Last Edit: July 09, 2012, 07:59:46 PM by deliciously_ridiculous »
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Re: why do u think it didn't work out???
« Reply #1 on: August 25, 2010, 03:51:35 AM »
> mahal nya pa rin ex nya at right after nakipagbreak ako, after a week boom.. sila na din ulit eventhough 4 years na sila break noon. ok lang, makakarma din sila.hahaha
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Re: why do u think it didn't work out???
« Reply #2 on: August 26, 2010, 09:06:53 PM »
Hi sis, deliciously_ridiculous
Siguro di talaga kayo compatible sa isat isa, wala yun sa agwat ng inyong pamumuhay, like my kapitbahay rich [textspeak!] guy tas [textspeak!] girl mahirap [textspeak!] din, ayaw din nong malditang nanay nong guy sa kanya, kesyo daw may lahi daw [textspeak!] girl na epilyptic, bka daw malahian sila, pero pinaglaban nong guy [textspeak!] girl, kahit sinabi nong nanay ng guy na wala makukuha mana sa kanila. kaatwiran nong guy di nman daw sya aasa sa mamanahin nya magsisikap daw sya, tas un nagsama sila tas nabuntis [textspeak!] girl di nakatiis yung nanay pinakasal din at bonggang bongga. ;D

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Re: why do u think it didn't work out???
« Reply #3 on: August 27, 2010, 01:13:35 AM »
We weren't right for each other. Yun lang naman talaga yun eh. I could come up with a whole bunch of reasons but breakups boil down to that one simple fact.

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Re: why do u think it didn't work out???
« Reply #4 on: August 28, 2010, 05:23:33 PM »
Hi sis, deliciously_ridiculous
Siguro di talaga kayo compatible sa isat isa, wala yun sa agwat ng inyong pamumuhay, like my kapitbahay rich [textspeak!] guy tas [textspeak!] girl mahirap [textspeak!] din, ayaw din nong malditang nanay nong guy sa kanya, kesyo daw may lahi daw [textspeak!] girl na epilyptic, bka daw malahian sila, pero pinaglaban nong guy [textspeak!] girl, kahit sinabi nong nanay ng guy na wala makukuha mana sa kanila. kaatwiran nong guy di nman daw sya aasa sa mamanahin nya magsisikap daw sya, tas un nagsama sila tas nabuntis [textspeak!] girl di nakatiis yung nanay pinakasal din at bonggang bongga. ;D

thanks sis, i agree.. out of bitterness lang yung mga reasons ko kaya ganon, 3 mos ago lang kasi kami ngbreak... you're right, hindi lang [textspeak!] kami meant to be and we don't deserve each other kaya ganon.. :)
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Re: why do u think it didn't work out???
« Reply #5 on: August 30, 2010, 10:08:38 AM »
People change, that's it. 

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Re: why do u think it didn't work out???
« Reply #6 on: August 30, 2010, 10:51:11 AM »
We drifted apart.
I was/AM too independent.
He said I am too strong for him.

I am not submissive.

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Re: why do u think it didn't work out???
« Reply #7 on: August 31, 2010, 03:54:16 PM »
he has commitment issues.

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Re: why do u think it didn't work out???
« Reply #8 on: August 31, 2010, 06:15:48 PM »
People change, that's it. 

i agree..
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Re: why do u think it didn't work out???
« Reply #9 on: September 12, 2010, 06:28:05 PM »
third party
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Re: why do u think it didn't work out???
« Reply #10 on: October 10, 2010, 06:18:27 AM »
one and only ex-- masyado siyang mabait!

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Re: why do u think it didn't work out???
« Reply #11 on: October 11, 2010, 05:18:58 PM »
It just dawned on me that all of the things his ex told me about him and about their relationship where the same things i want to tell his present gf and him. Parehong pareho. It seems that, after all these years, he is still his old self. He didnt learn anything. He doesnt know how to appreciate real love...unconditional love. He does not know how to stick to a relationship be it in good times or in bad times.


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Re: why do u think it didn't work out???
« Reply #12 on: October 11, 2010, 08:44:58 PM »

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Re: why do u think it didn't work out???
« Reply #13 on: October 14, 2010, 01:20:29 PM »
hi mga sisses, this topic is good for 'us' single ladies, and for those who just got out of a relationship.

Make a list of reasons why it didn't work out with your ex or past relationships. Include reasons (your side and his side)or the situation itself.

here goes my list:

1. his parents doesn't like me
2. mahirap lang kami at mayaman siya and breadwinner ako ng family
3. LDR kami
4. wala kong masyadong effort sa relationship (laissez faire) whatever attitude
5. he's a flirt and a player, masyadong mataas tingin sa sarili niya grrrr
6. hindi mgwowork ang LDR, kung ma-L ang lalaki, pag may lumanding babae, kahit ano p man itsura nun, ppatulan niya (mukang ewan kaya yung pinalit niya saken.. )
7. hindi na ko inlove sa kaniya matagal na, but im just trying to stick with him kasi comfortable na ko sa relationship


i go with nos. 3 to 6.. thick face nga e pinaaalam p nya sken mga name nung other gf nya.
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Re: why do u think it didn't work out???
« Reply #14 on: October 16, 2010, 05:29:17 PM »
Dahil sa mataasa ang tingin nya sa sarili nya.

Ayaw ng both sides namin

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Re: why do u think it didn't work out???
« Reply #15 on: November 08, 2010, 09:44:52 PM »
BF 1.
1. He doesn't like my mom. And he doesn't make any move for her toi like him.
2. Is very needy possessive and aggressive.
3. Rude and egoistic.
4. Wala siyang breeding.
5. Narealize kong need ko na siya i-break kasi di ko maimagine na ipakilala ko siya sa family ko.

BF 2.
1. Sa 2years na kami di man lang niya naisip na iimprove sarili niya. 1 sem na lang siya sa college di pa niyamatapos-tapos.
2. His family depends on him too much di siya marunong humindi. Considering na his parents still are alive.
3.Feeling ng little sister niya na may baby dahil nabuntisan, resposibilidad ng bf ko na palakihin ang baby niya. THE HELL?!
4. Gusto ako ng family niya. Sila ang di ko gusto.
5. Kakakilala pa lang sa akin ng mom niya inutangan ako agad!
6. Di ako binayaran ng mom niya. How shameless.
7. Walang kafinesse finesse ang family niya and mabisyo parehas ng parents.

As for BF no2. I plan on breaking up with him this week. Di ka maimagine buhay ko pag siya maging asawa ko. It would be hell. Para akong magkakaanak ng lima dahil sa pamilya niyang sa kanya nakasandal. Hay

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Re: why do u think it didn't work out???
« Reply #16 on: November 13, 2010, 07:12:06 PM »
With the recent guy i dated; im 5 years older than him, hes such a baby and he would rather watch football than be with me tapos mabarkada pa. Naku goodluck na lang sa future gf niya :  s
« Last Edit: July 09, 2012, 08:08:09 PM by deliciously_ridiculous »
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Re: why do u think it didn't work out???
« Reply #17 on: November 15, 2010, 06:43:27 PM »
1. We fought a lot. And we didn't talk about it.
2. Kapag gusto pa, magagawan ng paraan. Pag ayaw na talaga, maghahanap ka at maghahanap ng butas. I guess for us, naghanap talaga siya ng butas.

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Re: why do u think it didn't work out???
« Reply #18 on: November 23, 2010, 09:42:31 AM »
he left us (me and my kid) for another girl...i don't know..feeling ko nagsawa sa pag papamilya..humanap ng kasama na no commitment ang drama

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Re: why do u think it didn't work out???
« Reply #19 on: November 23, 2010, 03:08:43 PM »
With my last bf, we would fight about the same things. Paulit ulit, nakakasawa. Until finally we realized, he's not going to change, I'm not going to change, let's just both find other people who can accept the things we can't change about ourselves. So that's what we did.
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