both of us came from a long term relationship. mine was 6yrs and his was 4yrs. we're dating for 8months now and we always argue for one reason only. and it's because of his ex gf.
i know jealousy kills bigtime especially in relationhips. but if you feel or when you know that someone is hurting because of you, you should back off, right? babae din sya eh..
on our first month, i was ok with it because i didn't know that they communicate that much. text, call, chat and they even eat out together last april w/out my bf informing me. he only told me 2 months after.. AND they always update each other.
the girl knew before that we always fight because of her but right now, whenever she asks, my bf always tell her that it's ok. one time, she offered that she'll back off na but my bf said no since they're not doing anything wrong naman daw.
my bf knows even before na nasasaktan ako ng sobra everytime nalalaman ko na they texted, talked or chatted with each other. of all the ex gf's of my bf, i don't know why i'm really jealous w/ this girl. maybe because she's a dean's lister when she was still in college & i'm not. because she's rich & i'm not. because she has a good job & i don't. etc.. pero IMO: if my bf really loves me, he'll stop communicating w/ his ex right? because he knows that i'm really hurting & it's always the cause why we argue.
FYI: the girl has a bf na also.
sometimes i want to end na lang our relationship but i love him so much. i never loved anyone the way i love him. i don't know what to do..