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Author Topic: 19 things you should NEVER say to a single person  (Read 23257 times)

lovely_chic

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Re: 19 things you should NEVER say to a single person
« Reply #140 on: November 11, 2012, 09:55:41 PM »
lage na rin akong nasasabihang babaan ko raw standards ko, ang choosy ko. matanda ka na hanap ka na ng bf.etc. etc.. esus ginoo, alangan namang iBF m kung cnu man nanligaw para lang masabing my bf k?? minsan nakakainis paulit ulit mga tanong nila hahaha

So agree! Nakakaiinis yung mga tao pakialamera. I'd rather be single kesa pumatol ng kung sino sino lang. Hindi pa naman ako desperada at mas okay sa akin na single and wait for someone better than my ex kesa maghanap ng someone who is worse than my ex.

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Re: 19 things you should NEVER say to a single person
« Reply #141 on: November 16, 2012, 07:38:38 PM »
^ hate na hate ko rin pag sinasabihan ako to lower my standards just because i'm not getting any younger!!  >:(

nakaka insulto especially if it comes from people who are close to me. alam naman nila ang kwento why my past relationships didn't work out, at alam din nila na hindi naman dugyutin ang ex bfs ko so why would they expect me to downgrade now?! ang dating kasi ng advice nila is kahit sinong lalaki na lang, puede na basta makapag asawa lang!  how pathetic.   ::)

lovely_chic

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Re: 19 things you should NEVER say to a single person
« Reply #142 on: November 16, 2012, 07:59:04 PM »
^ Yeah right sis and it's really annoying.

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Re: 19 things you should NEVER say to a single person
« Reply #143 on: January 05, 2013, 04:14:34 PM »
ito add ko lang... just meet up with old frineds... ang comment nila...ang pretty mo but you don't have a bf...sabay tawa ng malakas.

nakakainis ha... gusto ko ng patulan.
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Re: 19 things you should NEVER say to a single person
« Reply #144 on: January 05, 2013, 08:04:17 PM »
Hi mga sis. Haha. I'm glad I found this thread.

I have some friends who always give me insulting remarks regarding this issue. Naiinis na natatawa na lang ako. Sasabihan kang, 'maganda ka, matalino, pero wala kang boyfriend' with matching tawa tapos gagatungan pa na 'okay naman kasi si ganito at si ganyan, ayaw mo pa, i-feel mo lang kasi, take risks din minsan' ending it with this 'ang hirap kasi sayo sobrang taas ng standards mo, babaan mo kasi' AND BOOOOOOOOOM. Pero syempre deep inside lang yung galit ko. Ang nakakatawa pa, eh kung makapagsalita, akala mo nasa happy relationship. I don't dare tell them what I really think kasi I don't wanna end up insulting them back in a much painful way. Yun kasi ang hirap sa kanila, sobrang baba ng standard nila (idk if tama pa nga bang sabihin na standard, parang di naman) at go lang ng go na peg, that's why they end up with lousy jerks in town. At kung ganun lang, I'd rather enjoy myself being single. Why should I settle for less when I can have the best?

I'd gladly eat my words kung na-prove or I can at least see that they are happy with their relationships pero to no avail. I'm aware na walang perfect na tao na super magcocomplete ng list ko, and when the time happens na I realize that because I found someone worthy enough to give my love to despite his lacks in my list, then he must be The One for me. :) Until then, I'll stick to my standards!
« Last Edit: January 05, 2013, 08:06:28 PM by douxmadchen »
Because I believe that one day, I will meet a man from the future. :)

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Re: 19 things you should NEVER say to a single person
« Reply #145 on: January 14, 2013, 11:45:48 PM »
i have this one friend who says na he constantly worries about me kasi i'm still single and he's afraid that i would end up in a retirement home because i would grow old and alone with no one to take care of me.
helloooo, anong akala niya sa akin, hopeless na talaga?
naiinis ako na ewan.
i know he's saying those things because he loves me pero sobra naman!  >:(

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Re: 19 things you should NEVER say to a single person
« Reply #146 on: January 16, 2013, 04:28:07 PM »
hindi na ako single pero natawa ako dito kasi halos lahat ata ng asa listahan e nasabi sa kin nung single pa ako. pero mas madalas yang "babaan ang standards" na yan.

may isang beses, sa sobrang inis ko sa isang SINGLE din na pakialamerang paulit-ulit akong hinihiritan ng ganun, eto nasabi ko:

"bakit ko bababaan ang standards ko? ikaw ba ang makikisama dun sa pipiliin ko? you have your (pause for effect) standards, i have mine. i do not thank you for your unsolicited advice."

sabay super "sweet" smile.

at hanggang ngayon, dinig ko, single pa rin sya habang ako ay super happy in an almost 4-year relationship.  ;)
« Last Edit: January 16, 2013, 04:31:14 PM by PrincessC »

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Re: 19 things you should NEVER say to a single person
« Reply #147 on: January 17, 2013, 12:10:45 AM »
^ happy for you sis.  i'm in a relationship now and surprisingly, nasa kanya lahat ng gusto ko sa guy.  sooo happy i didn't settle for anything less than i deserve!  ;)

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Re: 19 things you should NEVER say to a single person
« Reply #148 on: January 17, 2013, 02:36:36 PM »
^ apir sis! :)

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Re: 19 things you should NEVER say to a single person
« Reply #149 on: January 22, 2013, 01:04:24 PM »
haay nakakainis single na ako 28 me may problem pa ako myoma at pcos  :(

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Re: 19 things you should NEVER say to a single person
« Reply #150 on: January 23, 2013, 10:37:51 PM »
I was jus told by an acquaintance " may bf ka?" Wala " asawa?" Wala " anak?" wala. " ang LUNGKOT NAMAN NG BUHAY MO" my answer: AT BAKIT MO NAMAN KASI PINOPROBLEMA? I have a lot of activities right now and I also have an upcoming activity after my boxing.. I am so busy, I dont have anymore time to think about me being single and no time being sad.:)
Dont even bother explaining! I cant believe you.

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Re: 19 things you should NEVER say to a single person
« Reply #151 on: May 26, 2013, 11:20:51 PM »
my relative just messaged me on FB, she said " mag asawa ka na" i told her , when the right time comes but for now I really enjoy traveling and who knows, i might bump into him along the way

 

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