Hi mga sis. Haha. I'm glad I found this thread.
I have some friends who always give me insulting remarks regarding this issue. Naiinis na natatawa na lang ako. Sasabihan kang, 'maganda ka, matalino, pero wala kang boyfriend
' with matching tawa tapos gagatungan pa na 'okay naman kasi si ganito at si ganyan, ayaw mo pa, i-feel mo lang kasi, take risks din minsan
' ending it with this 'ang hirap kasi sayo sobrang taas ng standards mo, babaan mo kasi
' AND BOOOOOOOOOM. Pero syempre deep inside lang yung galit ko. Ang nakakatawa pa, eh kung makapagsalita, akala mo nasa happy relationship. I don't dare tell them what I really think kasi I don't wanna end up insulting them back in a much painful way. Yun kasi ang hirap sa kanila, sobrang baba ng standard nila (idk if tama pa nga bang sabihin na standard, parang di naman) at go lang ng go na peg, that's why they end up with lousy jerks in town. At kung ganun lang, I'd rather enjoy myself being single. Why should I settle for less when I can have the best?
I'd gladly eat my words kung na-prove or I can at least see that they are happy with their relationships pero to no avail. I'm aware na walang perfect na tao na super magcocomplete ng list ko, and when the time happens na I realize that because I found someone worthy enough to give my love to despite his lacks in my list, then he must be The One for me.
Until then, I'll stick to my standards!