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Re: 4 year relationship ended because of another girl..
« Reply #40 on: May 02, 2011, 09:05:01 PM »
i know how you feel... BEEN THERE...

akin nga mas masaklap kasi he was my first... and i loved him with all my heart. gave him everything and i mean all of me... but then ang ending... pinagpalit din ako sa iba... as in. nung una sinisisi ko sarili ko kasi ang t****-t**** ko talaga... but then narealize ko na ano bang masama sa mga nagawa kong sacrifices? i shouldn't regret loving kasi yun ako eh... ganun ako magmahal... kung pano niya susuklian yung love na yun, ndi ko na kontrolado yun kasi sa totoo lang nasa sakanya na yun. kung ndi ka niya ma-appreciate then hayaan mo siya kung gusto niya ng iba... sa huli ang parating kwento diyan... ikaw at ikaw padin ang hahanap-hanapin. lalo na kung nagsimula sa pagkakamali yung relationship nila. marerealize din ng ex mo kung gaano siya kaswerte na nagkaroon sya ng GF na tulad mo. hopefully the time na maisip niya yan... nakapag-move on ka na.

good luck girl! i'm telling you... the only thing that'll help you through this is dating another guy. date lang ng date... doesn't matter if type mo or ndi... you have to build up on the self-esteem na tuluyang nawasak ng ex mo. it'll do you good. :)


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Re: 4 year relationship ended because of another girl..
« Reply #41 on: October 01, 2012, 07:06:46 AM »
I never confirmed anything kung may other womAn siya. Puro hearsay. LDR kami and siya un nakipagbreak. But i have this strong feeling na meron na siyang iba. His cousin even told me but he kept on denying and now sinasabi parin niya na ako ang mahal niya at hindi niya ako kayang mawala. Di ko talaga alam ang meaning behind his text: 'hindi kita pinagpalit,hindi mo alam kung bakit tinuloy ko to dahil ayokong madamay ka pa. Magsaya ka na diyan dahil wala ka ng poproblemahin pa dahil niligtas lang kita. '

Tinatanong ko sya di niya na ko nireplyan. Haaay

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Re: 4 year relationship ended because of another girl..
« Reply #42 on: October 05, 2012, 07:03:52 AM »
Grabe, 2 years ago pa pala to nangyari. I'm sure ok na si TS. =)

I undestand how you feel. And I hope that you;ve completely moved on and happy with your life now. I'd been into this situation 3 years ago.

It was 2 months before our 4th year anniversarry. I admit na masyado akong nagger and selosa that time. I don't let him go out with his friends and co worker. Kung um-ok man ako e keep on calling him and inaaway ko siya. So, hindi din niya na e enjoy yung trip nila. Most of the time, kapag lumalabas kasi lagi kami nag aaway. Masyado akong suplada and gusto ko sinusuyo ako after our fight.

A friend of mine even told me na nakakasakal na ako and dadating ang time na iiwan ako dahil sa ugali ko. Until one day, he broke up with me. I asked the reason why and he said nahihirapan na daw siya. Napapagod na daw siya and hindi na siya masaya sakin. I know na ang lalaki, hindi basta basta mag give up unless may malaking reason. Nalaman ko na parang nahuhulog na siya sa isang kasama niya sa work. Sabi niya, nakikita daw niya ako dun sa kasama niya sa work. Na ganun daw ako before. And that I've changed.

That was the time na para akong t**** sa kakahabol sa kanya. Until one day, I pretended that I'm pregnant para lang bumalik siya sakin. Pero parang wala siya sa sarili nung time na yun. Sabi niya, he has no plans of courting the other girl dahil crush lang naman ang naramdaman niya. He just wants to enjoy yung time na hindi ko siya inaaway. Pero nagkikita parin kami that time kasi gusto parin niya yung company ko.

One day, naisip ko din na lalayo nalang ako sa kanya. Pero yun naman ang time na gusto na niya bumalik sakin. He asked for another chance and we went to an OB-Gyne to check If pregnant nga ako. Of course alam ko na hindi naman. hehe Pero weird kasi sabi ng doctor, magpa transvi daw ako for possible pregnancy. I saw in his eyes na masaya siya. Ako naman, wala sa sarili kasi gusto ko na sana mag move on.

To make the story short, I got pregnant. Pinanindigan ko na yung sinabi ko sa kanya na pregnant ako kahit hindi naman. And before we got married I told him na nagsinungaling lang ako sa kanya nun. Tinanggap naman niya.

Now, we are married for 3 years. I can say na pareho na kaming nag mature and now we are both happy together. =)

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Re: 4 year relationship ended because of another girl..
« Reply #43 on: October 10, 2012, 09:24:57 AM »
less than two months feom our 5th anniversary he broke up with me.. gusto nya raw ng time and space, gusto nya raw maging single ulit.. gusto nya malaman kung kaya nyang wala ako.. tinanong ko sya kung may iba. wala raw.  then yesterday i got confirmation that there was indeed another girl. yun yung girl na pinagseselosan ko talaga.. alam nyo yun parang kinukutuban na ko the last few months before our relationship ended. whats worse is dinala nya sa bahay nila and sinama nya sa outing, so alam ng pamilya nya.. di nya lang ako pinagmukhang t****, buong pamilya nya. wala naman aking pinakitang hindi maganda sa kanila or sa kanya to deserve this.. i thiught i was ok na until i found out yesterday.. iba talaga kapag naconfirm mo yung dating kutob mo... alam din naman ng girl na msy gf eh bakit ganun.. ang sakit grabe

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Re: 4 year relationship ended because of another girl..
« Reply #44 on: October 10, 2012, 09:59:05 AM »
Ang walang kamatayang pampalubag loob na "Everything happens for a reason" :)

Let yourself meet other guys sis :) Makakamove on ka rin :)
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Re: 4 year relationship ended because of another girl..
« Reply #45 on: November 30, 2012, 12:37:01 AM »
Aww, i hope you're feeling better now...
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Re: 4 year relationship ended because of another girl..
« Reply #46 on: December 10, 2012, 01:25:12 PM »
omigosh! natakot ako. sana hindi mangyari sa amin ng boyfriend ko yan. mag pa 5 years na din kasi kmi eh. lately nagbago ang treatment nya sa akin. ang mga dating ginagawa nya hindi nya na ginagawa ngayon=( im really really afraid. long distance pa naman kami, miles away from each other.


Ano ba pwedeng gawin to save this relationship?to make it last?
help naman mga sis..
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