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Author Topic: bakit kaya may mga taong ayaw sayo kahit wala ka naman ginagawang masama?  (Read 29660 times)

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Re: bakit kaya may mga taong ayaw sayo kahit wala ka naman ginagawang masama?
« Reply #40 on: February 21, 2011, 07:59:05 pm »
yung kawork ko, tinatarayan ako.. ewan ko ba, di ko naman siya kilala.. ewan ko ba dun..

one time, nasa labas ako ng office namin, nasa tapat ako ng elevator, e may kausap ako sa cp.. galing sila ng cr ng friends nya tapos nakita ko sa glass mirror nung kabilang office na tinuturo nya ako at may di magandang facial expression.. di nya ata alam na nakikita ko sya.. epal talaga.. pinagbigyan ko nalang, pag inulit pa nya.. lagot sya saken.
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Re: bakit kaya may mga taong ayaw sayo kahit wala ka naman ginagawang masama?
« Reply #41 on: February 21, 2011, 08:15:48 pm »
Sis me ganun talagang mga tao, yung first time nyo pa lang magkita, hostile na sayo. Though it's normal na me mga taong di magaan loob mo, pero at least we try to be civil and give the person a chance. For some people, they're very transparent with their dislike of a person, mahirap din i-judge. Maybe, iba yung environment na kinalakihan nila, they grew up not properly guided by their parents, or they had difficult childhood.

If you're at the receiving end of unexplained resentment, best thing to do is IGNORE! Try your best to appear unaffected, and all the more expand your circle of friends. Pag me verbal slurs na or "parinig" kung di naman diretsahan, ignore pa din. Pag talagang nag name-drop na, saka mo sya i=confront, but in a civil way pa din, and have someone beside you na nakakaintindi, as a witness.
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^Amen sis! :-)
Best thing nga is to ignore. If you don't need to interact with them naman, then just avoid them. If they get to the point na they do something as a result of their dislike of you, tsaka na mag-react. That means your mere existence irritates them. You must have something or are something na hindi sila ganun kaya naiinis sila. :-)

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ewan. ako rin, may mga taong may ayaw sa akin kase mukha daw akong masungit. yung parang they never gave me a chance na makipag friends kase mukha nga ako sungit. pinagtanggol naman ako ng ka-close ko dito na once nga daw na they get to know me mabait ako & maasikaso.
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that happens.  Kahit ikaw naman siguro may inaayawan kang tao.  Ako madami akong ayaw--yung mga taong halatang nagsisinungaling!  At magtataka sila kung bakit daw hindi ako malapit sa kanila hahahha

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oo, nga feeling ko nga ang init ng dugo sa akin  ;D
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hay ayoko ng alamin. kung ayaw nila sa akin, eh di fine.  ;D  Mapili din kasi ako sa mga kaibigan, hindi ko talaga gusto ang mga taong mahilig manlait at masyadong superficial.
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ignore na lang...
mas ok na yun na open secret na you don't like each other...
kesa naman plastikan kayo.. kaibiganin ka..tapos behind your back kung ano ano pala sinasabi sa iyo..
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meron akong kakilalang ganito. it actually started nung nalaman nya na ikakasal ako. tinanong nya ko ng details ng kasal ko like yung church, venue, gown, etc. kase ikakasal din pala sya. di naman ako palakwento about ng wedding tapos nalaman ko nalang na may mga sinasabi na pala sya about saken. na kesyo ang luho daw ng kasal ko, di daw practical, etc. sabi ko naman sa ibang tao eh years ko naman pinagipunan to kaya may karapatan akong magpabongga ng wedding. sila kase wala pala masyado budget since less than 1 year palang sila ng bf nya, minadali ata. "friends" naman kame sa fb, tapos napansin ko nalang na wala na sya sa "friends list" ko.

oh well, sabi nga ng hubby ko tsaka ng ibang friends ko, baka nainggit lang daw yun. di ko na lang sya pinapansin. kase sya naman talaga yung affected eh. nainis lang ako nung nalaman ko yung mga pinagsasabi nya kaya naisip ko sya. 
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na experience ko din yan ganyan sis a_y_e_n classmate ko sya from elementary to high school... nagkakwentuhan kami sa fb, sya naman yung tanong ng tanong about sa life ko, work ni hubby, yung house na nabili namin, yung way of living ko ngaun, even nga kita ni hubby gusto alamin... kung di naman sya magtanong eh di ko sya sasagutin, tas bawat may isagot ako may ipantatapat sya... tas after few weeks, nalaman ko pinagkakalat nya na mayabang daw ako... pinagyayabang ko daw kung ano yung meron ako now, tas minamaliit nya pa ako, na sya kesyo pinalaki na may silver spoon sa mouth, na di nya need mag work at may business sya, ang asawa ko daw kelangan pa umalis at magpakahirap sa ibang bansa... basta puro panglalait ang ginawa at pinagkakalat nya.... eh sya naman yung tanong ng tanong...oo aminado naman ako eh, di naman kami mayaman, pero ngaun siguro may kaya na kami ni hubby dahil na din sa pagtutulungan namin... sya kasi yung mga pinagyayabang nya eh mga pamana lang sa kanya...


natatawa na nga lang ako nung kwento sa akin yun ng friend ko na pinagsabihan nya... kasi kahit noon pa ayaw nyang malalampasan yung stado ng buhay nya... ngaun kasi naghihirap na sya... kaya siguro ganun sya... masyado inggit... hay buhay! may mga tao nga naman talaga na di makontento sa kung ano meron sila...mas gusto pa manira ng tao na wala naman ginagawa sa kanila... deadma ko na lang sya... block sya sa fb ko since then...
« Last Edit: March 31, 2011, 10:58:29 pm by jhenrheign »
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meron talagang mga taong ganyan gaya ng may mga tao ring kinaaayawan mo kahit walang ginagawang masama.

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Ask ko lang anong ma-feel nyo,kasi medyo bothered ako.
meron akong dating co-worker10 years ago pa, tapos inadd ko sya sa fb ngayon. kinumusta ko sa wall,sumagot naman pero wala dun yung parang tipong nasabik din sya na makita ako,sinagot lang nya ng simple yung tanong kong kumusta na, diba pag medyo matagal kayong di nagkita kahit di naman kayo super bestfriend ngayon,at least me pinagsamahan kayo. Kasi wala akong natatandaang ginawang atraso sa kanya before, malinis ang konsensya ko. nagkahiwalay na lang kami kasi contractual lang sya after nun wala na kaming communication eh,10 yrs ago di naman lahat pa ng tao merong cellphone. di ko maapproach eh kasi we go to the same church na magkaibang oras lang ang inaatenan namin kaya di kami nagkikita. Tapos that day na sumagot sya sa wall ko, nag post din sya sa wall nya na as if you are a good friend,etc. diko alam kung ako ba talaga pinariringgan nya? kasi yung cold treatment eh na-feel ko. sana pala kung ayaw nya kong maging kaibigan uli or to get in touch with me,di na sana nya inaacept friend request ko.
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meron akong kakilalang ganito. it actually started nung nalaman nya na ikakasal ako. tinanong nya ko ng details ng kasal ko like yung church, venue, gown, etc. kase ikakasal din pala sya. di naman ako palakwento about ng wedding tapos nalaman ko nalang na may mga sinasabi na pala sya about saken. na kesyo ang luho daw ng kasal ko, di daw practical, etc. sabi ko naman sa ibang tao eh years ko naman pinagipunan to kaya may karapatan akong magpabongga ng wedding. sila kase wala pala masyado budget since less than 1 year palang sila ng bf nya, minadali ata. "friends" naman kame sa fb, tapos napansin ko nalang na wala na sya sa "friends list" ko.

oh well, sabi nga ng hubby ko tsaka ng ibang friends ko, baka nainggit lang daw yun. di ko na lang sya pinapansin. kase sya naman talaga yung affected eh. nainis lang ako nung nalaman ko yung mga pinagsasabi nya kaya naisip ko sya. 

Grabe yan girl! I guess na-insecure lang sayo. Well, minsan kasi they're asking for it. I mean, literal--they're fishing for information and then they call you mayabang when you're just simply answering their questions. It wasn't your fault, it's her who has the problem. Okay lang na she's not on your list na, better nga na you make sure so she won't be sneaking up on you.


natatawa na nga lang ako nung kwento sa akin yun ng friend ko na pinagsabihan nya... kasi kahit noon pa ayaw nyang malalampasan yung stado ng buhay nya... ngaun kasi naghihirap na sya... kaya siguro ganun sya... masyado inggit... hay buhay! may mga tao nga naman talaga na di makontento sa kung ano meron sila...mas gusto pa manira ng tao na wala naman ginagawa sa kanila... deadma ko na lang sya... block sya sa fb ko since then...

Yikes! Good move! I'm pretty particular about certain people from my past who are like that. You know you're not close pero super tanong sila ng personal questions diba? I mean, yeah let's say you know them from school or something, but I get kind of suspicious when they ask personal questions eh you know they weren't your best friends from way back.

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na-experience ko na rin 'to though mas often yung times na ako yung somehow annoyed for unknown reason sa mga ibang tao. talagang, i really don't know why i feel that way pero basta! haha. i guess, depende rin. pero kasi ako, pag di ko naman kasi feel ang mga tao, i don't befriend them. i don't even mind them para naman di ako maannoy. pero pag mapagbiro ang tadhana at talagang no choice but to face them, i face them politely naman. pinaplastic ko na lang  in a way na di sila sisiraan or something. syempre, alam ko naman na ako yung may mali since wala nga silang ginagawa diba? syempre, pinapairal ko naman ang RESPETO.  ;)
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here in my new dept., there are two sups that are not friendly to me. the other one would raise her eyebrows while we're in a meeting, the other one would say hi and somewhat nice but per my manager he is saying something that is against me like "swapang" et. al. so hypocrite, right?

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sobra na nga pagtitiis ko. grabe. dami plastik sa block. sana nga matapos na ang school yr na to para maka-graduate na ako. sana makarma sila.

dedma lang :) achaka yung mga ganun insecure lang. hehe

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yes sis... next month mukhang magkikita na naman kami nitong tao na to... well, dedeadmahin ko lang sya uli... lalu na preggy ako ngaun, ayaw kong ma stress sa kanya... i thought nagbago na sya... pero wala pa din pala base na rin sa mga ginawa nya... for sure gagawa na naman sya ng issue pag nagkita kami next month bahala sya sa buhay nya, kaya minsan wala maganda nangyayare sa buhay nila kasi masyado sila nakikialam sa ibang tao...
« Last Edit: May 01, 2011, 07:14:50 am by jhenrheign »
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simple, you never can't please everyone. sad lang diba?

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^Tama! Kaya I'd rather do things to make me happy than spend time isipin ang mga haters. 

Sometimes kasi people are scared of those they don't understand. Like di nila alam ang personality, so it's easier for them to take comfort sa pag-gawa ng imagined personality mo na usually eh not good.  Masungit akong tignan and di ako palabati talaga (minsan kasi mahiyain din ako) so may nagsabi dati na akala ko masungit ka?! Tawa lang ako.  Subject talaga ang lahat ng bagay at tao sa mundo sa misjudgements, pero so what? haha! Ang important eh masaya ka sa buhay mo.

Ako nga workmate ko pa ang nakabangga ko, under ko pa. Antaray nginsecurity ng bruha, ayun lumipat sya ng company haha.

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mga sis, bakit kaya may mga ganitong tao? yung kahit mabait ka, ayaw pa rin sayo. sinisiraan ka pa o nilalait. nakakainis. ano ginagawa nyo pag nakakaencounter kayo ng ganitong tao?

wala deadma... (but then again, I was never "mabait' naman e) pero kapag may mga ganitong tao, as long as I don't have to live with him/her and I don't have to work with him/her, I don't care. And besides kung puproblemahin ko pa sila, kumusta naman ang wrinkles diba? ayoko nga :P
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