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Author Topic: bakit kaya may mga taong ayaw sayo kahit wala ka naman ginagawang masama?  (Read 32691 times)

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Ganon talaga. I dislike some people din kahit walang ginagawang masama sa ken, or more like mabigat loob ko  sa kanila. Minsan naman, once I get to know them, nababago naman impressions ko. BUt based on my experience, this is like the universe telling me that this person is bad news. Yung mga kakilala ko kaseng ganto naging feeling ko, hinde nagtatagal may mga ginagawang hinde maganda sa ken or to people close to me.
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may ganon talaga sis, kahit ako may tao ring mabigat ang loob ko at wala ko tiwala agad sa unang kita pa lang, at ako din kinaiinisan din ako ng iba dahil sa dating ko daw. di ko naman sadyang ganto ang hitsura ko at dating ko so i dont care na lang. i can't change for anybody just to please them. excuse me! kung ayaw nila sakin problema na nila yun diba?
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sis, just ignore them na lang. may ganito din ako experience nung nag-aaral pa ako. wala din naman ako ginagawa sa kanila, pero grabe sila mang brainwash up to the point na buong class namin galit na sa akin eh wala naman ako ginagawa masama. ginawa ko hindi ko na lang sila pinansin tapos lumipat akong section.

last thing i heard from them hindi na sila magkakaibigan, sila sila nagkagalit galit na.
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Yeah right. Super deadma na lang talaga ako. Kung tutuusin, mga duwag sila kasi di nila ako nagagawa i-confront. Hanggang backstab lang sila. Mga pathetic.
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We can't please everybody  di ba. Kung ayaw nila  sa yo ano namang magagawa mo. Di ka naman pwedeng magpaka plastic para suyuin sila dahil you know naman to yourself na wala kang ginagawang kasalanan.

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gandahan mo sis grades mo ;)

i guess may nagpasimuno diyan, insecure sa iyo.
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inggit lang sila sayo! hahaha. insecure b*tches.
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@ young maiden

Siguro nga sobrang bata ka pa.  Nung highschool ako, I try to please people who don't like me.  When I reach my mid 20s, I don't care anymore.  Dahil siguro madami na akong friends ngayon and hindi na kaagnon ka insecure.  I just think of the people who like me and they are better than the people who don't.  YOu can't make anyone like you.  If they do, then great and if they don't, then to hell with them. ;)
 
WAg masydong magpa apekto.  Hindi naman sila importanteng parte ng buhay mo, diba.
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i had a prof na super hate ako. nagtataka ko ano nagawa ko sakanya. una pa lang di na kame close talaga. tapos nagkasagutan kame when she was asking why i didnt join my classmates for an exercise.i told her i cant kasi i had my period.then nagsisigaw siya ang arte arte ko daw.ginawa ko sumigaw rin ako and told her 'ah okay!' ayun lalo nagalit.edi nagaway na kami.when i went home i told my mom na i had an argument with my prof. so pinuntahan nya sa house. ayun.
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@ young maiden

Siguro nga sobrang bata ka pa.  Nung highschool ako, I try to please people who don't like me.  When I reach my mid 20s, I don't care anymore.  Dahil siguro madami na akong friends ngayon and hindi na kaagnon ka insecure.  I just think of the people who like me and they are better than the people who don't.  YOu can't make anyone like you.  If they do, then great and if they don't, then to hell with them. ;)
 
WAg masydong magpa apekto.  Hindi naman sila importanteng parte ng buhay mo, diba.


I'm just 20, sis. hehe. Thanks sa advice. Ang malas ko nga kasi nalagay ako sa isang block na puro immature mga isip. :)
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malamang kakaiba ka sa kanila ....parang ako lol  :D
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hehe. oo iba ako sa kanila kasi ako may sariling buhay. sila wala kaya heto nangingialam sa buhay ng iba.
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Ganon talaga. I dislike some people din kahit walang ginagawang masama sa ken, or more like mabigat loob ko  sa kanila. Minsan naman, once I get to know them, nababago naman impressions ko. BUt based on my experience, this is like the universe telling me that this person is bad news. Yung mga kakilala ko kaseng ganto naging feeling ko, hinde nagtatagal may mga ginagawang hinde maganda sa ken or to people close to me.

I agree. Hindi naman sa insecure, pero meron talagang ganun, yung mabigat ang dugo. Baka kaaway in past life. hahaha! Ako may mga tao na ganyan sa akin. Pero wala akong ginagawa sa kanila. Dedma lang. But, alam nya/nila na ayaw ko sila.Hindi kasi ako plastic na nakiki-interact sa ibang tao kung ayaw ko naman talaga.

So sa threadstarter, dedmahin mo na lang din kung meron mang tao  na may ayaw sayo. Don't try to please them. Just be yourself.
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@ young maiden

Siguro nga sobrang bata ka pa.  Nung highschool ako, I try to please people who don't like me.  When I reach my mid 20s, I don't care anymore.  Dahil siguro madami na akong friends ngayon and hindi na kaagnon ka insecure.  I just think of the people who like me and they are better than the people who don't.  YOu can't make anyone like you.  If they do, then great and if they don't, then to hell with them. ;)
 
WAg masydong magpa apekto.  Hindi naman sila importanteng parte ng buhay mo, diba.

  -- ay like ko 'to.  :) kapag medyo nasa mga high school age pa, naku ganun talaga. parang super affected kapag may isang tao may ayaw sayo. ganyan din ako before, pero now, dedma na lang.
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Sometimes, it is not envy but REGRET.

They regret that if they had played their cards well, they would have the life you have now, or even better.

So there, it is nothing personal really. 
So ignore it, and do not let their behavior color your days.

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Re: bakit kaya may mga taong ayaw sayo kahit wala ka naman ginagawang masama?
« Reply #35 on: January 18, 2011, 08:23:38 PM »
insecurity lang yan sis..

nangyari din yan saken. bago lang ako sa office.. di na nga ako nagsasalita, nasasabihan pa akong mataray... wala na nga akong imik ee..

hindi ko naman sila masisisi.. may mga tao talaga na di ka magugustuhan kahit na anong gusto mO. ganun din naman sayo, may mga tao ka ding hindi magustuhan kahit wala naman silang magagawa

"LiFe is shOrT" even if "pAtiEncE iS a virTuE", "timE is stiLL gOlD"

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Re: bakit kaya may mga taong ayaw sayo kahit wala ka naman ginagawang masama?
« Reply #36 on: February 20, 2011, 04:49:25 PM »
some people are just very judgmental. Sometimes din I think di nila kaya ang aura mo parang natatabunan mo sila. Before I used to think about this too much pero ngayon di na kasi I know in life you cannot please everybody.

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Re: bakit kaya may mga taong ayaw sayo kahit wala ka naman ginagawang masama?
« Reply #37 on: February 20, 2011, 04:53:26 PM »
insecured ganda mo siguro  ;D

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Re: bakit kaya may mga taong ayaw sayo kahit wala ka naman ginagawang masama?
« Reply #38 on: February 21, 2011, 01:53:16 PM »
people just like to hate,  it's a number one hobby of  some, but it doesn't really mean their envious or insecure. i'm sure they have other things to brag about just like the person they dislike.  yun lang nga their level of focus is different  and being in a different class altogether happens to rub off on them in a wrong way.  sometimes its what you really emit or your way of being even if you think you're not doing anything wrong one can send out a not too warm fuzzy feeling.
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Re: bakit kaya may mga taong ayaw sayo kahit wala ka naman ginagawang masama?
« Reply #39 on: February 21, 2011, 07:29:29 PM »
ako naman kung ayaw nila sa akin ayaw ko din sa kanila. just be cordial pag kinausap ka kausapin mo. In my case mother in law ko kahit anong gawin ko wala pati yung anak ko mas favorite niya yung isa niyang manugang miski ano ano na ginawa na panloloko sa kanila kahit na nag pretend na preggy at nag addict pa. sabi nga ng mama ko babalik din sa kanila yung ginagawa nila just stay in the right path sis. 

 

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