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Author Topic: bakit kaya may mga taong ayaw sayo kahit wala ka naman ginagawang masama?  (Read 33031 times)

young_maiden

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mga sis, bakit kaya may mga ganitong tao? yung kahit mabait ka, ayaw pa rin sayo. sinisiraan ka pa o nilalait. nakakainis. ano ginagawa nyo pag nakakaencounter kayo ng ganitong tao?
Some mistakes are too much fun to make only once.

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  -- naku marami talagang ganyan sis. kahit anong gawin mo, ayaw parin nila sayo. no one can please everybody. tsaka, kung mabait ka naman talaga, possible, INSECURE  lang yang mga yan.
Learn to wait for the perfect time so that you may discover that all pain found in waiting has a magnificent and awesome purpose ϋ

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korek! classic example Tricia Santos of PBB Teen Edition

young_maiden

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kasi naman i have some haters in class. sabi nung iba they find me boastful. Diyos ko. ang tahi-tahimik ko so panu naman ako naging mayabang? saka kung may prob sila sa akin, bakit kailangan pa nila ako siraan sa ibang tao? pwede naman nila ako i-confront at kausapin eh. ang galing nila mangbrainwash. yung mga taong pinagsusumbungan nila against me naiinis na din sa akin kahit wala akong ginagawang masama.
Some mistakes are too much fun to make only once.

michipoo

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korek insecure lang sila sayo. kasi meron something sayo na wala sa kanila. Sadyang may ganyang klase na tao talaga. Just ignore them sis, wag ka papadown. Kung mainis sila sayo lahat, hayaan mo lang as long as alam mo na walang mali sayo. In the end lalabas din naman ang totoo na hindi totoo lahat ng sinasabi nila.

young_maiden

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sobra na nga pagtitiis ko. grabe. dami plastik sa block. sana nga matapos na ang school yr na to para maka-graduate na ako. sana makarma sila.
Some mistakes are too much fun to make only once.

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ang maisip ko lang na reasons are:
Insecure sila or di ka lang talaga nila gusto kaya kahit pinakamaliit na kapintasan mo ay big deal na sa kanila

young_maiden

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ano kaya dapat kong gawin no? araw-araw na nga ako nagdadasal na sana makayanan ko pa at sana makarma sila. karma is a b**** anyway.
Some mistakes are too much fun to make only once.

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siguro mas maganda kung huwag mo na lang sila pansinin. gawin mo yung mga normal na ginagawa mo. kasi alam mo ang mga ganyang klase, the more mong hindi pinapansin, the more silang nanggagalaiti..

sa ngayon hindi mo pa makita ang resulta pero darating ang oras, lalabas din kung sino talaga yung may problema. try to extend more patience. saka ipagdasal mo na lang sila at iwasan. be positive in everything you do. huwag mo na sila isipin masyado at makakadagdag stress pa yan. cheer up!
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trizh

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ano kaya dapat kong gawin no? araw-araw na nga ako nagdadasal na sana makayanan ko pa at sana makarma sila. karma is a b**** anyway.

  -- waa sis ganyan din ako ! haha. super same experience. may ginawa pa nga akong thread dito, nag ask ako ng advice sa mga sisters natin dito. 1 year ago yun. hindi na kasi dapat ako papasok sa school dahil hindi ko na kaya yung ginagawa nila saken. alam mo, naencourage nila ako na magenroll. at hindi ako nagsisi, kasi nakahanap ako ng true friends na talagang naappreciate ako. ngayon, tae (so sorry for the term hehe) na lang yung mga classmates ko na sinisiraan ako before. mas mataas ang grades ko sa kanila, hehe. karma lang talaga sis. promise.  :)
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Stellar27

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madami kasi yata talaga ang mga taong mapanghusga.

madami din may ayaw sa akin, kahit di nila ako ka close / kakilala. Mukha daw ako B*tch at nakakainis mukha ko, may aura daw na mukhang super sungit accdg to my friend dito sa office. Im the typical morena girl na kinaainisan kasi gwapo asawa ko at ex bf ko. hehe.

Minsan kahit anong sikap ko na mag smile sa ibang tao na naiinis sa akin, masama pa din ang dating. Good thing may mga nakapag sabi sa akin na once they get to know me, ok naman daw pala ako. Kaya deadma na lang sa mga may ayaw sa akin just because ayaw nila hitsura / aura ko.
All the waters in the ocean could never sink a ship unless it gets inside.. Likewise, all the pressures of life can never hurt you, unless you let them in.

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sis pabayaan mo nalang, ignore mo lang sila. ang importante wala kang ginagawang bad sa kanila.  focus ka nalang sa mas makabuluhang bagay like sa pag aaral mo.  :)
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naku sis, same tayo dami ko din haters kahit di naman ako masyado lumalabas ng bahay, wala ako ginagawa sa kanila pero still dami naninira sa akin na hindi ko alam kung paano nila nagagawa to think na wala din sila alam or idea sa akin, nakikita lang nila ako pag lumalabas at siguro physically dun ako najujudge maybe because madaming bagay na nakikita nila sa akin na wala sila in short bitter sila sa buhay kaya masaya sila pag n=iniinis or nilalait ka nila hay naku sis wag mo na silang pansinin the more na papaapekto ka sa kanila the more na matutuwa sila kasi naiinis ka

kaya DEADMA, SMILE and face them with a happy face haha ewan ko na lang kung di sila mainis lalo yaan mo sila basta ikaw masaya at wala iba tinapakan na tao hmmmp manigas sila sa inggit!!! lol!! ;D

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why are there people like this?
Envy, or you remind them of someone who caused them grief or still causing them grief...

What to do?
Ignore.. Drop them
Sa dami nang tao sa mundo, why tolerate people who cannot bring you joy or enrich your life, or make you a better person?
Even if you are married to one such person... move on, move on.  Life is short.

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mga sis, bakit kaya may mga ganitong tao? yung kahit mabait ka, ayaw pa rin sayo. sinisiraan ka pa o nilalait. nakakainis. ano ginagawa nyo pag nakakaencounter kayo ng ganitong tao?

i shoot mo nalang  sila sa  "kebs file"  sister. ;)
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trizh

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  -- haha love ko 'tong thread na 'to. show them na happy ka.. ganun lang.  :)
Learn to wait for the perfect time so that you may discover that all pain found in waiting has a magnificent and awesome purpose ϋ

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Inggit sila, hay naku, deadmahin mo sila.
Remember my name, you'll realize how you let go of the one that has done nothing but just to love you.

young_maiden

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Iniisip ko na nga lang kung ano meron sa akin na wala sila. hehe. Saka lagi ko sinasagi sa isip ko, "hating me won't make them pretty."
Some mistakes are too much fun to make only once.

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^ganito na lang sis" if hating me makes you beautiful then hate me forever" diba natulungan mo pa sila gumanda baka that time di na sila maiinis sayo" lol!!

basta sis deadma, wag ka paaapekto sa kanila, Life is too short to be unhappy. You have to take the good out of the bad. IGNORE them later on magsasawa din yang mga yan.  :)
Jeremiah 29:11 says, " 'For I know the plans I have for you,' declares the LORD, 'plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.' "

LIVE A LIFE that pleases GOD... not People.

die_hard112003

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gaya ng sabi ng iba, do not mind lang. although that is kind of hard especially if we interact with that kind of people everyday..

may ibang tao kasi na automatic response na kung ano yung treatment nya sayo.. like if insecure sya or you remind him/her of somebody else, my conception na sya sayo before you talk kaya wala tayong magagawa dyan.

ang magagawa lang siguro natin is to bring that issue to that person. although i am not likely to do this.. but have to para malaman nya yung behavior nya. and let her think bout it.
"..but everything great is just as difficult to realize, as it is rare to find.." -Spinoza

 

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