just want to sharer this.
before me and my husband become bf/gf, he had a short term relationship with this girl and they had a child. K***** (my husband now) did not marry her instead he offer financial support for her gf's (now ex's) pregnancy. kasi nga hindi naman sadya yung nangyari sa kanila and siguro way of pikot na din ito ng girl.
during her pregnancy alam ko na merong sinusuntentuhan yung bf ko kasi inilihim ng bf ko yung bagay na ito until our 4th month together so aware ako. and nung sabi ng girl na nanganak sya hindi nya pinapakita yung bata and in the end ang sabi nya nakunan daw sya on her 7th month. to make the story short, nung nalaman ito ni bf e nagalit at halos isumpa nya yung babae kasi nga expected nya me anak siay dito un pala wala naman. and nawalan na sila ng communication na dalawa.
after 8 long years, nauso na ang facebook. lahat ng mga tao na ibinaon mo na sa limot e bigla na lang nabuhay bigla. Kasal na kami with 1 child. we're doin good. one day, naisip kong iopen yung account nya sa fb. inosente sa mga nangyayari. main purpose ko lang e mag send sa account ko ng gift na kailangan ko sa cityville. hehe. I saw on my husbands friends na isa na dun si ex. copied this status on the girls account "b4 2010 gets over,im glad that we had a chance to get in touch again,now comes 2011,i would like to welcome you again...in my life..tnx 4 forgiveness!!!!". tao lang ako at asawa ako kaya nagalit ako kasi 2 weeks na hindi sinabi sakin na me communication na pala sila.

confront to the max ang lola nyo, sabi ng aking magaling na husband e busy daw ako kaya daw hindi nya nasabi. Im angry talaga. I told him, you can text me and tell me that "uy, si ano nagparamdam sa fb. ganito ganyan" since alam nya na iba yung mararamdaman ko hindi nya muna sinabi sakin. sh1t na paliwanag diba. nwei, nakatapos na moving on.
We talked about that over chat on wednesday. since weekly lang kami nagkikita (he work in manila while i am managing our business in our province). come week end walang say ang lalaki. deadma. one time i get his cp without him knowing it. then, BINGO! they met friday a week after na nagkabalitaan sila. clear things between them and their son (since he exists pala talaga after all those lies)
Hindi na nakapigil ang lola nyo kaya i talked to him heart to heart. I asked him why he didn't tell me all about this. nawalan daw sya ng chance kasi nga nauna kong malaman about this. Me mga old issues na hindi kami na settle na lagi na lang nauungkat and i told him na what ever his desicion is i'll respect it kasi nagkakasakitan na kami ng damdamin. Sabi nya hindi naman daw naghahabol ng kahit ano si babae. basta ipinaalam nya lang yung totoo at parehong may sariling pamilya na sila. yung lahat daw ng ibibigay ng asawa ko sa naging anak nila e ibuhos na lang sa anak namin. which is good kasi alam nya kung san sya lulugar.
and the sweetest line i ever heard from him regarding this is that "kung mambababae ako maraming iba bakit sa isang ex pa. at hindi ako maghihirap ng ganito para lang magloko" SANA NGA totoo.
pero every time na makikita ko na may communication pa rin sila deep inside im hurting pero hindi ko na lang pinapakita. nagsasawalang kibo na lang ako para hindi na lumaki ang gulo. saka sa simula palang hindi ako nagger wife kaya pinipilit kong intindihin lahat.

sisses, if kau nasa lugar ko anong gagawin nyo?
