Reasons for breakup

[carla27]

i ended my 6yrs 3 mos relationship because i caught my bf added this girl again na naging cause ng break up namin 2 yrs ago. For him mababaw daw because he added lang naman daw, but what I cannot accept is the fact na he add her kahit alam niyang pagaawayin namin. Actually its his last chance na but he doesnt change. I also felt that our relationship is stagnant , nakaasa lang sya sa business parents niya and what he prioritize are his friends basketball barkada. Sometimes feeling ko na outgrow ko na sya esp when I work here abroad, nag iba priorities ko , siya the same padin. Now its the 3rd day since I broke up with him Im so hurt I have no one to cry on since Im living independently whenever  naiiyak ako super bigat nararamdaman ko I just pray and talk to God to give me strenght. I know I can surpass this trials. I dint want to be tied forever to someone na puro lies and lagi ako sinasaktan. I felt nasayang ang 6years ko with him. I hope God will make my scars heal faster

Another thing now I dont feel any anger . Even pag trashtalk sakanya wala. Ewan ko ba maybe dumating na sa point of acceptance na kahit ano gawin ko di ko sya mababago and ayoko nadin magaalita anything against him since may pinagsamahan din naman kami. I just want to move on with my life and kayanin tangapin na tapos na. i just hope and pray to God na he has better man for me. I want a God fearing man.

[petlovah]

- walang direction sa buhay, walang future plans about life
- may future plans nga to succeed, hindi ka naman kasama sa plans
- hindi gusto ng parents
- wala nang gana

[Shiecg]

ayaw ng baby, ayaw ng kasal...kaya ba bye nalang sa kanya!

[brandi]

^reminded me of my ex. gusto ako anakan pero never ako inalok ng kasal. ano ako palahian?hahaha!siguro kung hindi ako nagiisip baka walang kura kurap pumayag ako. kaso hindi. im wiser than him. yung relationship nga namin hindi niya maisayos naghahanap pa siya ng poproblemahin. selfish, immature, irresponsible.

[xyeZZZ]

ginayuma :|

natawa naman ako dito sis. Totoo pa pala talaga ang gayuma? hahaha 

[frozen_gurl]

Number one reason for break up - 3rd party 

[FOURever]

Infidelity

[sakinah]

ewan ko?haha 5 years na kami nang mag decide siya na mag cool off kami madalas din kasi kami magka samaan ng loob even small things nagiging issue and he told me na kung kami kami daw may gusto lang daw sya alamin so sinabi ko sa kanya na hihintayin ko sya at mahal ko siya dumaan ang christmas, new year pero wala ako nadinig sa kanya as days goes by hindi na ako nakatiis nahirapan ako at another thing is hindi na ako sanay na mag isa,,so nakipag break na talaga ako by returning all the things that he gave to me pumunta ako sa kanila birthday ko pero di na ako nagpakita sa pamangkin nya ko na lang inabot mga gamit. .at wala ako nadinig after nun so i think that would be the end of our relationship hanggang ngaun di ko nalaman bat nag kaganun pero wala na ako balak alamin fall out of love siguro ang nangyari sa amin isama pa na baka nagkasawaan na dn. .

[oyetken]

for me malapit-lapit  na , kung  pede pang i-save  i try ..
-insensitive
-workaholic
-lack communication .. may anak na kami
-paasa

[imabeliever]

8 years relationship Ldr for 1 and a half year,bgla ngbago.sabi nya mgfocus muna km s knya knyang buhay namin.dko maintndhan.. Almost 3 months n ngaun.still moving on..

[bibibuy]

1st bf(2yrs) - no communication
2nd bf(6months) - not compatible in so many ways
3rd bf(7yrs) - 3rd party sa part ko
4th bf (3yrs) - nambubugbog and obsessed si kuya
5th bf (3 months) - babaero
6th bf (3yrs) - saw him having sex with another woman (sex video)
 

[sakinah]

1st bf(2yrs) - no communication
2nd bf(6months) - not compatible in so many ways
3rd bf(7yrs) - 3rd party sa part ko
4th bf (3yrs) - nambubugbog and obsessed si kuya
5th bf (3 months) - babaero
6th bf (3yrs) - saw him having sex with another woman (sex video)
 

grabe bibibuy mga pinagdaanan mo sa mga ex mo siguro strong woman ka na ngayon 

[bibibuy]

^ yes sis sakinah, strong and happy

[ragnar_danneskjold]

wala nang gana. everything tanked for plenty of reasons, such as:

sobrang dalas mag-away, traumatic na
magkaiba ang gustong gawin sa present
magkaiba ang pangarap sa future
walang sex, bawal kahit nakita mo na syang nakahubad. frustrating, hanggang sa nawala na ako ng ganang hawakan sya.

ayun, bye bye.

[mitchal18]

^ Same about the traumatic fights.
Walang direksyon sa buhay..
I'm older than him, he's a slacker, parang he's relying on me for everything.
Nagiging ma-pride na sya.