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Author Topic: Dating BooBoos:Turn On, Turn Offs  (Read 24689 times)

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Re: Dating BooBoos:Turn On, Turn Offs
« Reply #40 on: June 28, 2011, 02:01:21 AM »
On:
Maganda kahit walang make up
Masarap kausap
Independent

Off:
High Maintenance
Too emotional


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Re: Dating BooBoos:Turn On, Turn Offs
« Reply #41 on: June 28, 2011, 03:22:26 AM »
I had a date before when I was still in college, I ask if he can carry my bag for a while (may dala kasi ako laptop) ang sagot ba naman sakin "nye, di nga ako nagdadala ng bag ko tapos pag bibitbitin mo  ko ng bag mo! grrrr the nerve!! I walked out talaga! sus!

the nerve talaga sis! masyado siya ha!

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Re: Dating BooBoos:Turn On, Turn Offs
« Reply #42 on: September 07, 2011, 08:38:10 AM »
turn on : if he's a gentleman
turn off : if he's bastos..
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Re: Dating BooBoos:Turn On, Turn Offs
« Reply #43 on: September 15, 2011, 09:37:36 PM »
TURN-OFFS: proud sabihin mga kalokohan ... malamang. naka-experience na ako ng ganito, masyadong nagpapaimpress

TURN-ONS: syempre kapag gentleman siya
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Re: Dating BooBoos:Turn On, Turn Offs
« Reply #44 on: September 16, 2011, 01:52:50 PM »
TURN ON: He must be a man of God.
Otherwise, major turn off.

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Re: Dating BooBoos:Turn On, Turn Offs
« Reply #45 on: September 16, 2011, 11:03:31 PM »
Turn on: respectful, humor, kindness, may sense kausap, smart,understanding,comes from a good family,educated,magaling makisama,patient, decent.

Turn off: know it all, foul mouth, know-it-all, bastos, hygiene,insensitive,playboy,feeling gwapo  ;D
manyak,mayabang,bad teeth,walang humor sa katawan,walang trabaho, walang plano sa buhay. tambay, walang effort.
Logic and feelings are two different things. What you feel deep down in your gut is very different from what you can reason in your head.

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Re: Dating BooBoos:Turn On, Turn Offs
« Reply #46 on: February 13, 2012, 09:06:15 PM »
Turn on:
1. Matalino
2. Humble
3. Malinis at mabangong tingnan kahit la naman pabango
4. May takot sa Dios
5. Walang bisyo
6. tahimik lang sa isang silok si kuya


Turn off:
1. Wala ang focus sa akin pag nagsasalita ako.parang wala interes sa sinasabi ko ( First and foremost na turn off )
2. Hindi consistent
3. mayabang and rude
4. masyadong malandi.parang lahat nalang ng babae nilalandi.

There was this one guy. we went out to eat.dinala ako sa isang super cheap na kainan.To think that that was my first date ever.ahaha.. Ayoko tuloy sinasabi kahit kanino about my first date experience ahaha.

To think na he has a high paying job.But i never counted that against him. Never akong nag-isip na kakulangan yon sa kanya. Dapat red flag na pala yon. Dahil a guy who really likes you should want to give you the moon and the stars if it is in his capacity to do so. Or at least try his best to please you sa abot ng kangyang makakaya.Just my POV.

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Re: Dating BooBoos:Turn On, Turn Offs
« Reply #47 on: February 27, 2012, 02:21:35 PM »
my friend set me up on a blind date before..limited info lang about the guy meaning name and work lang ang binigay ni friend...so nung actual date na, aba si guy ask ba naman ako kung di ko ba daw sya kilala..hello kaya nga blind date eh saka di ko naman niresearch pa yung name nya kung ano ba sya...sabi ipagtanong ko daw sa _____ name nya at kilala daw sya dun (yabang)...turned out sya pala head ng isang department in one of the prestigious hospitals in the country and he belongs to a very rich and famous clan ...2nd date sinundo ako sa work, aba feeling masyadong kumportable at mega inspect pa nya mga books, gamit etc sa workplace ko to think na nandun din mga friends ko, so pati sila nayabangan....nung bayaran na ng bill after namin kumain, mega check sya sa receipt parang hirap na hirap maglabas ng wallet, to think na latest model ng volvo and dala nyang car ha...after nun ayoko na LOL...unfortunately after a year nagkita uli kami because i had to undergo training sa same hospital and need ko magrotate sa department nya for a month....ang awkward ng feeling LOL

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Re: Dating BooBoos:Turn On, Turn Offs
« Reply #48 on: March 09, 2012, 02:48:17 PM »
T.ONs:
-> tall (mga tipong 5'8 pataas kase i'm tall myself) and lean (yung sakto lang sa height nya; auko sa macho or sa super lapad)
-> member ng banda (ndi naman sa required) - big turn on kase sa ken pag bandista e. :)
-> may tattoo (ndi din required, astig lang dating for me)
-> malinis sa katawan
-> responsible and hardworker (auko naman ng workaholic ha?)
-> mahaba ang pasensya kase MEJO hard-headed aku :P
-> makulit in a playful manner (para compatible kame :P)
-> sweet!!!

T.OFFs:
-> walang trabaho (ndi issue yung kaperahan kaso shempre sino ba namang may gusto sa tambay lang?)
-> not paying attention pag nagkkwento aku (madaldal pa naman aku and mahilig magkwento)
-> selfish
-> tamad (sa lahat ng bagay; walang ka-effort2)
-> mapang-mata or mapamintas (ampanget naman d ba? kalalake nyang tao, mas marami pa siyang napupuna kesa sa ken)
-> mapilit and hindi marunong rumespeto sa mood and desisyon ku

both lists can go on..eto pa lang naiisip ku e. :P
basta lahat ng ugali ng ex-hubby ku, kabaliktaran nun turn-on sa ken!!! hahahaha!
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Re: Dating BooBoos:Turn On, Turn Offs
« Reply #49 on: March 12, 2012, 06:08:31 AM »
so.. when you're out on a date? O_o

TURN ON:

- listens/is focused on the other person (not to say hindi na siya nagsasalita, someone who has enough comm skills and enough common sense to keep the conversation going)
- mas mukhang lalaki kesa sakin (haha)

TURN OFF:

- tamad (utos mo sakin na ihingi ka ng tubig sa waiter, SIR??)
- bastos (bastos din ako, pero lumulugar, hindi tipong habang ngumgangasab ako ng dahon e puro sexual exploits mo yung kinukwento mo diba?)
- talks about exes
- incessantly talks about self
- (on blind dates) if you're disappointed, wag mo naman pahalata mashado, diba? After all, it's a two-way street.
Anlakas daw makapangit ng katamaran... Backread naman jan! XD

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Re: Dating BooBoos:Turn On, Turn Offs
« Reply #50 on: April 13, 2012, 07:36:24 AM »
For ME,

Turn-Off kapag:
* di neat sa hygiene at sa pagdadamit, di marunong magdala ng damit, walang fashion sense at hindi mabango (or di man lang nagpapabango). :| (biggest T.OFF talaga sakin to!)
* di nakikinig sa mga kwento ko, gusto sya parate nagsasalita.
* di focused sakin, it's either di sya tumitingin sakin while i'm making kwento; keeps on checking on his phone. call/text while we're together (dapat magpaalam naman sya saken if he will answer a text message or a phone call as a courtesy man lang. )
* masyadong pabida/pabibo.
* mayabang/maangas (sobrang i-build up ang sarili)
* nagpipilit mag-English kahit wrong grammar (call center agent kasi ako so dapat maayos English nya para di ko sya i-correct. :D)
* ako ang pagbabayarin ng bills.
* walang initiative.
* di nagsasalita kung hindi tatanungin saka yung tipong isang tanong, isang sagot lang sya.
* di mag-aask ng questions or magka-crack ng jokes na below the belt.
* touchy at mas malala e manyak! (pero kung type ko sya, ok lang. hahaha') ;p
* tingin nang tingin sa ibang babae.
* yung walang naka-ready na plan about sa date (but he should ask me first kung agree ba ako sa plan nya, hehe')
* hindi consistent sa gestures (halatang pilit ang mga ginagawa).

Turn ON kapag:
* MAY FASHION SENSE at MABANGO. ^_^
* gentleman (mag-ooffer na bitbitin ang bag ko, + pogi points yun! or pag binigyan ako ng flowers sa 1st date namin. )
* sweet, may mga naka-ready na surprises na matutuwa ako. ;)
* masarap kausap/kasama at may sense of humor.
* hinihingi ang opinion ko sa mga gagawin namin sa date at open sa mga suggestions ko if ever (lalo na sa resto).

~ Sorry, mejo madami. Pero pag may ganyang guy akong naka-date, aynaku! Pasok sa banga si Kuya!!! ;D ~
« Last Edit: June 01, 2012, 05:28:55 AM by dumpee.o13 »
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Re: Dating BooBoos:Turn On, Turn Offs
« Reply #51 on: April 29, 2012, 02:39:20 AM »
ON:
Unang una sa lahat, hindi kaylangang gwapo basta mukang tao. ;D (presentable)
Humorous
Protective
Sweet
Masculine voice


OFF:
Bad breath
Mabaho or may BO
Maitim
Walang pangarap sa buhay
BUMMER!
Puro yabang
Liar
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Re: Dating BooBoos:Turn On, Turn Offs
« Reply #52 on: April 29, 2012, 07:50:15 AM »
Turn Off:
-B.O
-Know it all
-Ako pagbabayarin lalo na kung sya naman nag aya!
-tumitingin sa ibang babae
-text ng text/tingin ng tingin sa oras

Turn on:
-mabango
-sakin lang attention nya
-may sense of humor :)
-gentleman
I like games well played :)

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Re: Dating BooBoos:Turn On, Turn Offs
« Reply #53 on: May 01, 2012, 07:06:05 PM »
On a date.....

Offs muna:  >:(
-LATE! #1 turn off, I don't care kung traffic, I don't care kung nag LBM ka, I don't give a damn
-Bad Breath, Generally poor hygiene
-Presko, masyadong mayabang magsalita
-narcissistic - puro tungkol sa kanya ang sinasabi, blah blah blah nag monolouge daw ba
-Mukang sinungaling - pag tinignan mo sa mata alam mong puro kasinungalingan ang sinasabi...
-lack of eye contact, short attention span - ano ba, parang bata san tingin ng tingin, di mapakali
-Kuripot - Ano bey mag aaya ka nang date tas di mo man lang mabayaran 'tong kinain ko..

Ons naman:  8)
- Nice hygiene, nice smell hmmm sarap tabihan ng bongga! hehe!
-Speaks with fervor (naks haha!) - yun bang tipong paniniwalaan ko lahat ng sasabihin, hindi bola ah. ahaha!
-gentleman - guides me thru the way... aaawwww.. pwe! may ganyan paba? haha!
-good eye contact - to have an idea on what's runnnig thru his mind
-good sense of humor - gets the conversation going
whatever.... ;)

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Re: Dating BooBoos:Turn On, Turn Offs
« Reply #54 on: May 19, 2012, 05:05:39 AM »
T/Ons:

Focused
Engaging
Looks eye-to-eye
Knows what she's saying

T/Offs:

Eats like a guy
Off-tangent
Weird Mannerisms
So whoever think them words affect me is too stupid. And if you could do it better than me, then you do it.

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Re: Dating BooBoos:Turn On, Turn Offs
« Reply #55 on: May 23, 2012, 09:17:58 PM »
turn ons: smells good, good sense of humor, nakikinig (yung tipong interesado sayo), eye contact, clean finger and toe nails  ;D

turn offs: feeling gwapo, something smelly (hahaha), mayabang, fat (yung tipong ms malaking pa sa tatay ko) no offense pero super turn off talaga sakin to, dugyot tingnan, and napapanot or panot.


I met this guy from somewhere kasi mukang okay naman siya nung nag uusap kami. tapos na shock ako nung lumapit and nakita ko na siya, I wanna disappear naaaa :( Ayun he kept on texting and calling me, I don't wanna be rude pero he's not my type talaga. ;_; So nagpalit na lang ako ng number. And inaaway away niya pa ako sa text dahil bakit hindi ko daw sinasagot mga text and tawag niya. Nakakainis sobra. Lesson ulit to para sakin  :o Hahaha =))))

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Re: Dating BooBoos:Turn On, Turn Offs
« Reply #56 on: May 27, 2012, 06:26:34 AM »
eto ang biggest turn-off of my life: date with my ex, valentines non, sya ang nag-aya pero ako ang hinayaang magbayad. Siraulo sya, gusto lang pala kumain ng libre pag valentines ako pa napagtripan. Isinumpa ko sya non  :P
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Re: Dating BooBoos:Turn On, Turn Offs
« Reply #57 on: May 27, 2012, 03:31:30 PM »
I had a date last night. Uwian nga diba, nadrain pa nga yung battery ng car niya. But he said sorry afterwards. At sa basement ng Rockwell parking yun, eh di ba mainit pa ang panahonnnn =)

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Re: Dating BooBoos:Turn On, Turn Offs
« Reply #58 on: May 27, 2012, 03:34:42 PM »
^that's sad sis but wala naman may gusto nyan.. are you still giving him a chance?
I like games well played :)

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Re: Dating BooBoos:Turn On, Turn Offs
« Reply #59 on: May 30, 2012, 02:06:17 AM »
eto ang biggest turn-off of my life: date with my ex, valentines non, sya ang nag-aya pero ako ang hinayaang magbayad. Siraulo sya, gusto lang pala kumain ng libre pag valentines ako pa napagtripan. Isinumpa ko sya non  :P

^^ natawa ako dito, sis! :))
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