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Author Topic: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?  (Read 45622 times)

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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #40 on: September 16, 2010, 05:24:43 pm »
After everything that has happened to me, siguro eto yung isang pinaka-pinagsisisihan ko. To take back someone who cheated on me. I've wasted the "prime years" of my life, only to end up alone again.

Now im almost wayyyyy past marrying age, and single. Urgh.

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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #41 on: September 16, 2010, 05:43:33 pm »
a big NO!!! ;D

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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #42 on: October 17, 2010, 03:39:26 pm »
I found out he had a one night stand and I forgave him. In fairness to him, pinakita nya naman na nagbago na siya pero minsan may paranoid attacks pa din ako. Like pupunta ko sa condo nya ng madaling araw para takutin yung sarili ko na baka may ibang girls dun. So far wala naman. Pero andun yung need ko na gumanti at saktan din sya. I think you should find out what drove him to cheat. Meron kasing iba na willing naman magbago. In our case, bago pa lang kami nung ginawa nya and he said he wasn't sure with me. Parang nasa adjustment level pa kasi kami. Also, guys look at sex differently compared to women. Like they can have sex without getting their emotions mixed up at iligo lang nila wala na. I really made it clear that if I catch him again, I'll walk out the door.

Actually pag nalalaman ko nga na nakikipagkita sya sa ibang girls, talagang nagagalit ako at walk out. In a way, you have to train your man na maging faithful because if they can have their way, i dont think they will because they're naturally polygamous.
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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #43 on: October 27, 2010, 10:57:19 am »
my answer is a big NO! i've been cheated before not just once pero four times at take note with the same guy.. :-[ lagi nyang sinasabing magbabago na sya pero hindi din naman ngyari, hanggang sa umabot ako sa point na hindi na love yung nararamdaman ko para sa kanya kundi hatred n  :(.. dun ko narealize na tama pla yung madalas sabihin ng mother ng friend ko, once a cheater, always a cheater.. at ang trust mahirap ng ibalik..

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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #44 on: October 29, 2010, 09:12:18 pm »
never :( because once a cheater always a cheater, yun ang turo sakin. uulitin lang and then at the end of the day, ikaw din nahuhurt. sounds unfair diba? teach the man a lesson! no messing!  :)

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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #45 on: October 30, 2010, 04:56:29 pm »
Cheater's don't get second chances. Never. They can be forgiven, but never taken back.

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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #46 on: November 03, 2010, 04:03:29 pm »
Not again. Parang congenital disorder sa case ng ex ko eh. We dated for about 6years, it was a horrible cycle. I realized mukhang hereditary din. From the parents down to his sisters ganun din to think mga professionals and mga Doctorate holders yan ha. 

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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #47 on: November 14, 2010, 07:03:40 am »
once the trust has been broken, it is difficult to regain ... unless the reasons for cheating are figured out and changed, it is really hard to trust again for fear, anger and jealousy will always be there
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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #48 on: November 18, 2010, 03:09:24 am »
Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?

im a guy and i would advice you sissies the way i would advice my single and my married sisters.

YES and NO (we're talking of one-time cheating here ha?)

pag married kayo, YES!
pagbigyan/intindihin/patawarin nyo naman. baka naging mahina/nakalimot lang sya. sayang the marriage.
but hey, mag umpisa ka nang gawin ang Plans A-Z mo sakaling gawin nya uli.

pag singGOL kayo; NO, NO and NOOOOOOOO!
sisantihinhin nyo agad.
wag maghinayang dispatsahin sya kahit naisuko nyo na ang Bataan o napartihan mo na sya nga kayamanan ni Yamashita.
i tell you, you'll be planting the Kamagong tree na gagawing krus mo kung saan kayo ipapako.

and i swear, bago magunaw ang mundo by 2012, maghihiwalay rin kayo.

lecheng HBO yan, more than 20x ata pinalabas ang 2012 last week. >:(

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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #49 on: November 18, 2010, 05:17:29 pm »
sa non-marriage set up

I believe that once a cheater always a cheater. Cheating is a RED SIGNAL to single people. Run away once this happens.

They only can change when they fall in love with God.
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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #50 on: November 18, 2010, 05:34:24 pm »
My guy cheated on me at I can feel na sobrang pinagsisisihan niya. humahabol siya saakin ngayon at naawa ako, i can't deny it, i still love him pero naguguluhan ako kasi nga "once a cheater, always a cheater." hay  :(

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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #51 on: November 18, 2010, 06:31:38 pm »
^ang hirap kasi magtrust again sa cheater...

kung ikaw matinong tao emotionally, bakit ka magchicheat? makipagbreak ka na lang kung di mo na mahal, o kung may mahal ka nang iba. Bat kailangang dalawahin?

Kung may pagkukulang yung partner mo, bat di mo sabihin, bat di ka magalit? bakit cheating agad? Something that I don't understand. Maybe they're really not emotionally healthy. Something they will carry on hangga't di nila naaaddress...

of course different ang case sa mag asawa.
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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #52 on: November 19, 2010, 03:31:40 pm »
i think it would depend kasi there's always an exception to every rule. but for my experience, parang totoo nga na once a cheater always a cheater talaga.

...i really can't tell but i guess i won't unless he shows sincerity to my family.. ::)
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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #53 on: November 19, 2010, 05:00:13 pm »
yes I know nakakapagbago pa yung mga yun. Pero base on my observations, si Lord lang nakakapagpabago. Changing on their own effort, that I'm not sure...
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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #54 on: November 25, 2010, 07:19:55 pm »
No. I couldn't take someone back when I now he loves the other woman. NO NO NO.:) I haven't done that yet, iyon ngang lokohin nya ako, sagad sagaran na eh. Wala ba syang respeto sa akin? Ganun na lang ba iyon? Iyan ang mga naiisip ko. I'm better off single.
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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #55 on: November 26, 2010, 07:10:53 am »
siguro depende sa panlolokong ginawa nya, pero kung alam ko na may feeling's involve na, no question ask kahit gano pa kita kamahal kaya ko isakripisyo pagmamahal ko sa yo.

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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #56 on: November 26, 2010, 05:40:53 pm »
Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?

im a guy and i would advice you sissies the way i would advice my single and my married sisters.

YES and NO (we're talking of one-time cheating here ha?)

pag married kayo, YES!
pagbigyan/intindihin/patawarin nyo naman. baka naging mahina/nakalimot lang sya. sayang the marriage.
but hey, mag umpisa ka nang gawin ang Plans A-Z mo sakaling gawin nya uli.

pag singGOL kayo; NO, NO and NOOOOOOOO!
sisantihinhin nyo agad.
wag maghinayang dispatsahin sya kahit naisuko nyo na ang Bataan o napartihan mo na sya nga kayamanan ni Yamashita.
i tell you, you'll be planting the Kamagong tree na gagawing krus mo kung saan kayo ipapako.

super naaliw naman ako dito! hahah

THE STORY:  di pa kame ni bf nalaman ko may ina-i love you na babae sa text. pero m.u mode na kame at pinakilala na ako sa parents nya and all.

so ako naman naloka kasi 1st time nangyari yun. explain explain siya na nauna daw talga yun and 1 and 2 mos na silang ganon. nasa cebu si girl and nagkikita sila bihira pag punta lang manila si girl

THE MOVE: I took him back only because i didn't feel na masama siyang tao and sabi niya di niya lang alam paano ihandle nung time na hindi pa kame kasi nga di niya rin alam kung papasok ba siya sa relationship na super serious with me na 12 years younger sa kanya.

WHAT NOW? we're okay naman together. took me months and months to move on but now parang wala nalang. i dont trust him completely but i it heals and in time nakakalimot din naman. pero twing nagaaway kame lagi na nauungkat yun so sorry siya lagi siyang talo. haha

pero over all satisfied naman ako sa kanya. he's nice, nice family, stable, smart, cute, kasing height kame. and i feel happy lang pag magkasama. light lang no drama actually kahit nung magkabukingan kame parang napaka light lang kasi there's this friendship that surfaces that disregards the lies.

sometimes people change. acceptance is key. and dapat alam mo kung kelan ka na dapat bumitaw at hindi.

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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #57 on: December 06, 2010, 06:59:55 pm »
I've been cheated before (akala ko orig na gf ako, yun pala pangalawa lang) so what i did is dispatsahin siya agad! i don't have time for cheaters! sa ganda kong ito, lol. agree ako sa nagpost, kung hindi rin lang naman kayo married, it's better to say bye bye. ;)
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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #58 on: December 15, 2010, 05:27:32 am »
HELL NO! yun lang! bow!
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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #59 on: January 11, 2011, 10:52:21 am »
My answer to this before was no. But when it happened to me, I did take him back. It's true, things will never be the same - but that's just it. Change is inevitable. We're happy now and getting married this year (if the budget permits. haha!). :)
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