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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #300 on: March 18, 2013, 03:05:33 PM »
Never...My ex did it to me...result: he's now an ex..though I forgave him na naman..thanks to him I found my current...wag lang tong magloloko...haha :)
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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #301 on: March 18, 2013, 04:42:23 PM »
^ No way! Period! ;D
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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #302 on: March 18, 2013, 04:54:57 PM »
i did. pero mahirap pala talaga pag sirang sira na yung trust.

True, ako honestly wala ng trust sa bf ko now

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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #303 on: March 18, 2013, 10:20:38 PM »
True, ako honestly wala ng trust sa bf ko now

i tried. after 8mos, i broke up with him na. and he's still coming back now pero ayoko na. gusto ko muna ng time and space esp for myself. :)

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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #304 on: March 19, 2013, 06:54:43 AM »
lol.. sapul ako dito sa topic na to.. hehe..

ako, believe it or not, pinatawad ko cya -- for more than 7 yrs -- i tried to be strong and forgiving. to make the story short, [textspeak!] mga 3rd party ang gumagawa ng way para makilala or malaman kong cla ng bf ko habang kmi din.. oh dba lufet?  :o nways, at this time, we're on a rough road, and I am in the process of weighing things kung bibitiw na ako o hindi pa.. you can call me t@nga or sadista sa sarili ko, pro all i know is mahal ko cya eh.. let's see san ako dadalhin ng feelings ko.. :)

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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #305 on: March 19, 2013, 01:46:48 PM »
i tried. after 8mos, i broke up with him na. and he's still coming back now pero ayoko na. gusto ko muna ng time and space esp for myself. :)

I tried to watch infidelity movies and iba talaga mahirap ng ibalik yung trust, Gaya ng a secret affair. hahaha. Grabe. Well di naman ako panget, di rin naman ako mataba yun nga lang may times na nagllie talaga ang guys ewan ko ba kung bakit. Kasi ibang putahe naman ganon? :(

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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #306 on: March 19, 2013, 02:05:35 PM »
maybe not.

and i hope people would stop making kabit movies already. regardless if the kabit wins or not, it still glorifies them.
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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #307 on: March 19, 2013, 03:48:10 PM »
^ yes, sobra sobra na kabit movies e haha.

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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #308 on: March 19, 2013, 05:24:25 PM »
I tried to watch infidelity movies and iba talaga mahirap ng ibalik yung trust, Gaya ng a secret affair. hahaha. Grabe. Well di naman ako panget, di rin naman ako mataba yun nga lang may times na nagllie talaga ang guys ewan ko ba kung bakit. Kasi ibang putahe naman ganon? :(

alam mo sis pag may nagsasabi o nagsshare sakin na guy friends ko at eto ang dahilan, sinasagot ko [textspeak!] sila na ang tigas naman ng mukha mo?kayo pa mga lalaki nagmamalaki na para maiba naman?paano pag sa inyo sabihin yan ng abbae ano mararamdaman nyo?hirap kasi ang kakapal ng mga mukha niyo as if kayo na pinaka gwapo sa mundo. kaya wag mo ko bibigyan ng b******t na sagot. enjoy ka lang.kakarmahin ka din.

Natatameme lang sila. napaka nonsense kasi talaga ng dahilan na ganun. reason ng puro yabang lang sa sarili ang alam.  ::)

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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #309 on: March 20, 2013, 04:28:06 AM »
^ kaya mga sis if ever maka basa or makarinig ako ng mga wife or gf na nanlalaki natatawa ako eh haha at least naiganti man lang nila tayo. LOL haha



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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #310 on: March 20, 2013, 03:56:54 PM »
alam mo sis pag may nagsasabi o nagsshare sakin na guy friends ko at eto ang dahilan, sinasagot ko [textspeak!] sila na ang tigas naman ng mukha mo?kayo pa mga lalaki nagmamalaki na para maiba naman?paano pag sa inyo sabihin yan ng abbae ano mararamdaman nyo?hirap kasi ang kakapal ng mga mukha niyo as if kayo na pinaka gwapo sa mundo. kaya wag mo ko bibigyan ng b******t na sagot. enjoy ka lang.kakarmahin ka din.

Natatameme lang sila. napaka nonsense kasi talaga ng dahilan na ganun. reason ng puro yabang lang sa sarili ang alam.  ::)

It really hurts no. Nakakainis lang pag ganon, tapos pag kunwari may nakatext or naka usap or nakameet somewhere for coffee na guy. Todo alert naman sila ewan ko ba. Another thing is wearing something sexy, other guys dont want their gf to wear sexy clothes pero kun maka tingin sila sa ibang girls hahaha i dont know pero may jelousy problem lang ata ako. Gusto ko yung akin akin lang. :))

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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #311 on: March 20, 2013, 10:06:20 PM »
my wife used to cheat me when we was bf-gf but after years, we were back together..

and now she's my wife..  ;)

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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #312 on: March 21, 2013, 03:19:31 PM »
buti she have the guts to be honest. nowadays honestly is rare.

the thing is, even if he/she admits or not for as long as nagbago ok na. paminsan kase masarap din maging t****, bulag, pipi at bingi for having peace.. :)

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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #313 on: March 21, 2013, 04:18:38 PM »
i did and now we're engaged.17yrs old pa lang bf ko na sya.naghiwalay.nagkabalikan ulit after 7yrs at sa 7yrs na yun nagkaroon sya ng 2 gf sabay pa so bale 3 kameng pinagsabay-sabay.nung nalaman ko automatic break pero ako ang pinili nya.sa ngaun 2years ng as in walang bakas na nagloloko sya ulit! thanks God! sabe nya magbabago na sya at nakikita ko naman yun pero sa part ko mahirap na kahit matagal ng nangyare andun yung takot na baka ulitin nya ulit pero syempre pray lang ng pray na maging ok ang lahat lalo na't magbubuo na kame ng sariling pamilya :)IMO darating at darating yung time na dadaanan nyo talaga ang ganitong stage at dun masusubok ang tatag ng relasyon nyo para mapatunayan ang love nyo sa isa't isa pero syempre hindi naman tama na paulit ulit na ginagawa sayo toh kasi ibang usapan naman yun ;)
about naman sa mga babaeng nag cheat i once asked a guy friend kung bakit kapag babae ang nagcheat tapos na agad at kulang na lang isumpa ka ng bf mu at galit ang buong mundo sayo pero pag ang lalake gumawa ok na agad yun? sagot nya " sige andun na ang pride at ego pero kasi alam ng lahat na kapag ang babae may sexual involvement na ibig sabihin mahal ng girl ang guy na yun unlike samen na pwedeng makipag _ _ _ kahit kanino kahit walang love na nararamdaman sa girl" at napaisip nga naman ako dun tayong mga girls makikipag ano ba naman sa hindi naten love diba.kaya salute to bro yes man & tsedeng 06 nangibabaw talaga ang love at hindi ang pride
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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #314 on: March 21, 2013, 06:19:01 PM »
awwww love!  ;D ;D ;D napakaswerte ni gf sayo bro.wag kang gaganti ok.
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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #315 on: March 21, 2013, 10:04:13 PM »
my fiancee admitted to "almost" cheating on me last january (almost in a sense that she was a bit sweet to the guy but stopped before it blossomed into something. didn't even last a week she said). she confessed to the deed last february, i was terribly hurt even though it was long over.

i love her so much that i couldn't bear losing her. people said that "buti nga umamin eh, hindi binaon sa limot", "mahal ka nun, umamin eh",  so that means that she really loves me because she took the risk of doing the right thing even if the possibility of me getting mad at her for doing that is there or knowing that my trust towards her won't be the same 100% anymore. 

we're engaged now, waiting for a year before getting married.

awww  sweet. im happy for you :)

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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #316 on: March 22, 2013, 12:49:38 AM »
Well for me I did. mag gf/bf pa lang kami when I discovered it na madami pala kaming gf niya. madami meaning 7 kami so 1 girl per day hahaha. The only difference is ako lang ang pinakilala niya na gf niya sa family and relatives niya although sa mga friends niya na iba alam na may iba na pala siya.

Isa pa most of the days of the week kami ang magkasama mga 4 or 5 days a week. Kaya hindi ko din napansin nun.

Much worst is I discovered it when I was about 10 weeks pregnant. So at that time ang sakit sakit grabe.  Para akong pinagbagsakan ng langit at lupa. Then nung sinabi ko sakanya he was shocked kase nga at that time hindi pa din siya ready. FYI 28 years old na siya noon ha. So ako at that time grabe yung pinag daanan ko na sufferings. andun pa yung pinag taguan niya ko.

Ayun syempre naisip ko naman na hindi naman ako panget para ipag pilitan ko pa yung sarili ko sakanya. at mas lalong hindi ako t****. So 1 month hindi kami nagkita constant na nagtetext siya sakin sweet nothings and i love you's dumating ako sa point na namanhid na ako and i just read his text pero nawala yung kilig and mas naiinis pako sa mga nababasa ko.

Grabe yung trauma ko nun more or less 7 kilos yung na loose ko na weight and alarmed na yung ob ko. na depress din ako na hindi ako nanunuod ng tv kase naiiyak lang ako. I dont listen to music. super hirap yung pinag daanan ko. then siya continous padin siya sa pag reach out saken. His family talked to me my friends talked to me na give him a chance daw.

Ayun binigyan ko siya ng chance, kase mahal ko naman talaga siya. which turned out ok naman. kase he takes care of me and my baby so much, naging sobrang bait na asawa na siya, he left all the 6 girls which is yung iba naman pala ay flings lang na may mga ibang bf's din. meron lang isang girl na medyo makapal ang face na pinagiisipan pa na maging kabet niya. which he turn down naman.

We've been together for 1 year and 4 months na living together.

Totoo naman talaga na mahirap magpatawad pero nagawa ko yun, ang mas mahirap na part eh yung paglimot talaga kase up to now naiisip ko padin na he might do it again. and yung trust mahirap talaga ibalik. Yup its true na its a long process. Up to now pag naaalala ko andun padin yung sakit pero day by day nababawasan naman lalo na pinapatunayan ng hubby ko kung gaano siya nagsisisi sa nagawa niya. well on that part naman mas nauna naman yung 6 kesa sakin so ako yung parang newest addition sa collection niya nun. hehe. pero its still panloloko kahit saan mo tignan,

Right now hindi naman ako nagkamali sa pagbigay ng second chance sakanya. kase pinapatunayan naman niya na going straight na siya ngayon. But syempre may takot padin naman ako ar guarded na kahit papaano. I just hope in the long run mabalik yung buong tiwala ko sakanya at mag strengthen pa yung love ko sakanya.  :-*



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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #317 on: April 08, 2013, 01:58:38 PM »
Hmm...this is a tough question.

Personally, I would say no. Letting him come back to me makes me feel I'm losing my dignity for myself. I believe that every woman deserves and even man desserves a partner who is not going to treat him or her like that. Sometimes, accepting back that person makes him/her think na hindi mo sila kayang tiisin and hindi mo kaya na wala sila sa buhay mo, thus sometimes, hindi talaga maiiwasan maulit ulit kasi alam nila na papatwarin mo sila, so for me why go another heart break?

Pero sometimes, nag wowork parin ang relationship ulit kasi this time, yung naloko mag babago na. They will be more protective about themselves and will assume more authority than they had before in the relationship. They give you more that "pag ginawa mo ulti tapos na talaga tayo" aura, minsan nag wowork naman talaga. Pero if you stay as the nice boy/girl even after that incident, karamihan they will end up doing the same mistake again.

For me kasi the core problem here is not really about love. It's RESPECT. If you respect your partner from the first place, why bother to cheat?


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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #318 on: April 12, 2013, 04:19:55 PM »
Ang daming tao sa mundo na naghihintay ng mahalin din sila ng tama.
Bakit pa babalikan yung taong nagkamali kung may naghihintay naman sayo na mas taong nararapat para sayo.

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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #319 on: April 13, 2013, 11:07:45 AM »
Bakit pa babalikan yung taong nagkamali kung may naghihintay naman sayo na mas taong nararapat para sayo.

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