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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #20 on: July 03, 2010, 03:19:15 AM »
sabi nga nila once a cheater will always but this doesnt apply to all guys/girls
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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #21 on: July 03, 2010, 09:45:44 AM »
once is enough.
twice is too much.

i caught him once, i'll let it go.
he does it again. i let him go.  :D

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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #22 on: July 31, 2010, 05:58:59 PM »
here's a saying i stick with:

"fool me once shame on you, fool me twice... shame on me"

i will never go back to any man who eventually cheated on me for whatever reason, he did that once, he has the power to do it again... if there is something a cheater deserves, it's not to be taken back... but a nice payback....  :P
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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #23 on: August 05, 2010, 02:59:40 PM »
Once a cheater, always a cheater.

Maybe that does not apply to all men BUT it does to MOST men.
He already cheated on you once, if you accept him, there would still be a small voice on your heard whispering what if he might do it again? katakot di ba?

Pero ako? Cheat on me once, bye bye na!
« Last Edit: September 15, 2010, 11:24:14 AM by ysa.belle »
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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #24 on: August 07, 2010, 10:19:18 PM »
i won't.

if he cheated once...he will cheat again.

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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #25 on: August 15, 2010, 06:38:50 AM »
base on my past experiences, once a cheater always a cheater,, importante saken sa next relationship ko is andun yung trust..
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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #26 on: August 15, 2010, 03:35:28 PM »
depende din sa situation, if he cheated on me then pareho lang kami LOL  ;D
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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #27 on: August 15, 2010, 04:12:11 PM »
it is a big no for me, betrayal is unforgivable for me.

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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #28 on: August 18, 2010, 11:13:59 AM »
No. kasi kilala ko ang sarili ko. hindi talaga ako nakakalimot sa mga ginagawang masama sa akin. as in grudge kung grudge. and as much as possible gaganti talaga ako. so siguro for the safety of the guy who would cheat on me, much better if wag na syang magpakita after the incident. baka dumerecho sya sa ospital. :)

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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #29 on: August 18, 2010, 11:39:39 AM »
no problem for me...normal na lang yan sa ngayon...pero ibang usapan na kapag nagka anak  na  ;D
It's not going to be my problem anyway  :P
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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #30 on: August 22, 2010, 05:47:47 AM »
i dont think i can. the fact that the person i am committed to did something i would never do to him is painful enough. What more with seeing him everyday and thinking he could do it again.

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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #31 on: August 23, 2010, 11:57:56 PM »
Nope.

I have never believed in Second chances.

You're correct sistahs, once a cheater, always a cheater.
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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #32 on: August 24, 2010, 04:42:04 AM »
from my experience, never! ten years ago, my bf back then and i broke up. nagkabalikan kami not knowing meron na pala syang iba. when i found out, i dumped him. so tuloy pa sila then nag-break sila then balikan kami ulit on-off, then he cheated on me again! so last na yun, ayoko na talaga. ayun, yung girl hindi nya alam na sya ang third party. they're getting married soon. ha! good luck.

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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #33 on: August 24, 2010, 04:47:01 AM »
i think if he's kinda like natukso lang.. i'll still take him back, of course, i love him.. and relationships are not just that "that".. when you truly love someone, you'd understand naman di ba?

however, if the guy is so malandi.. my gosh! nevermind..
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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #34 on: August 31, 2010, 03:42:44 PM »
i did, because i believe people make mistakes and have the ability to learn from them. i also loved the guy.  but he did it again and it became clear to me that this was not a one-time thing, but a recurring habit that he could not shake off. so i walked away and never looked back. we were engaged to be married within a few months, btw.

i have no regrets, though. at least i know i gave the relationship my all. next time i'll know better and choose a better, stronger man.
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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #35 on: August 31, 2010, 03:55:20 PM »
I did , and maybe depending on the situation, i may again. hehe.

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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #36 on: August 31, 2010, 04:00:38 PM »
i will not. not anymore.
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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #37 on: September 14, 2010, 10:33:05 AM »
I did...i think depende sa situation, sa offense at sa pagkakakilala mo kay guy...

in my case naging textm8 ni boyfie ang friend ng officemate nya...nagkita sila at kumain once...the texting/bolahan lasted for about 2-3 weeks...their texting has ended even before I found out about it…according to the girl, nothing happened between them and medyo matagal na daw di nagtetext si boyfie sa kanya (last text daw was 2 wks bago ko nabuko)…thanks sa “sent items”... ;)

sabi rin ni boyfie tinigil niya dahil alam niyang mali ang ginawa nya….hindi lang siya makahanap ng tyempo para aminin sakin nagawa niya…and looking back, i know he did try to tell me...naunahan ko nga lang sya... :P

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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #38 on: September 14, 2010, 11:08:32 PM »
NO. I'd have trust issues then. :(
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Re: Would you ever take back a guy who has cheated on you?
« Reply #39 on: September 15, 2010, 11:26:49 AM »
Once a cheater, always a cheater.

Maybe that does not apply to all men BUT it does to MOST men.
He already cheated on you once, if you accept him, there would still be a small voice on your heard whispering what if he might do it again? katakot di ba?

Pero ako? Cheat on me once, bye bye na!

I forgot one thing. I can get even. I did it once na rin. He cheated on me pero I still accepted him tapos one day, nagising nalang ako na ayaw ko na. Galit na ako at no care na ako sa kanya. Well, I got even all right. Together pa kami after a year pero wala na akong paki sa kanya. He hurt me. But I got the chance to hurt him too. One year. Tapos ilang years pa eh hindi pa pala siya over sa akin...
♥ Life is a journey from one point to another. You know where you will end up, but you don't know what route will get you there... ♥
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