i did pero tama nga na it will never be the same.
the only explanation i can get out of it was... at the time you find out that your man is cheating on you, pride and denial will kick in. gugustuhin mo ikaw ang piliin, at the same time, you will feel betrayed and shocked and hindi na makakapaniwala na it can happen to you or your man can do that to you. and of course, mafe feel mo na something is missing since you spent some time with the person.
pag nagkabalikan na kayo, you will always have a constant reminder of the cheating. that is why it is more difficult to make things work after cheating. for me, aside from not being able to trust him again, he was not able to make me trust him again. also, since he wasnt able to handle things properly, nawala respeto ko sa kanya. it came to a point na namumura ko na siya, then i realized i have no more respect for him. kahit umiiyak siya sa akin, wala na akong nafe feel. that is the end.