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Author Topic: Meeting your Ex by chance after your break-up  (Read 16224 times)

m_lim

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Re: Meeting your Ex by chance after your break-up
« Reply #40 on: June 30, 2011, 11:13:04 AM »
na experience ko na rin yan with my first serious bf.

naglalakad ako sa rockwell then nakita ko siya kasama pa niya bagong gf niya. ang sakit ha!

pero buti nalang rin ex na siya. kalbo na siya ngayon eh.

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Re: Meeting your Ex by chance after your break-up
« Reply #41 on: August 09, 2011, 09:48:36 AM »
two things:

kung niloko nya ko- at kung ipapakilala nya ko sa kasama nya as his ex ang isasagot ko sa kanya "ambisyoso"

kung hindi naman- i will just smile and hindi ipapahalata ang pagka bigla

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Re: Meeting your Ex by chance after your break-up
« Reply #42 on: August 11, 2011, 04:50:00 AM »
naexperience ko na to



after 5months nakasalubong ko sha accidentally  sa greenbelt with her pregnant gf..ouch!!sakit! un ang naramdaman ko.. and time taba ko nung nakita nya kc that time fresh pa [textspeak!] pag dumpd nya saken

after a month nakita ko uli sha sa birthday ng common friend namen .. kunwari dedma para di nya mahalata na di pa ako okay


after a year i saw him again .. we were having a mamam night @central at nakita ko nanaman sha.. gulat na gulat sha ang payat kona at may date akong kasama.. sa isip isip ko maglaway ka ngyn! hahaha
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Re: Meeting your Ex by chance after your break-up
« Reply #43 on: October 14, 2011, 01:08:53 PM »
Ang tagal na rin naming nagkahiwalay nun... so hindi na ako galit sa kanya sa mga pinagagagawa nya. So if makita ko man sya, wala lang. Normal reaction pag may nakikitang kakilala, kamusta asawa mo? baby mo? Ganyan lang. Ni wala nga siguro akong gulat na mararamdaman, tipong "o anjan ka pala" ;D

Pero kung kasama nya asawa nya nun, I would introduce myself properly to her. Because we've never been introduced :)

Tapos yun na yun.. there's nothing else to it.
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Re: Meeting your Ex by chance after your break-up
« Reply #44 on: October 18, 2011, 06:33:57 PM »
i only have 3 x's na serious,[textspeak!] first we still talk every now and then yung second and third wala na talaga communication...im a happy person so feeling ko kapag nagkita kami ng hindi sinasadya for me it will be like seeing an old friend,surprised and happy to see them and ask them "oh ano kamusta ka na?nakakatuwa naman nakita kita ult"hihi no bitterness,purely sincere!promise!
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Re: Meeting your Ex by chance after your break-up
« Reply #45 on: October 18, 2011, 08:31:17 PM »
im just thankful na yong first bf ko hindi ko pa name meet now though taga dito sa min [textspeak!] papa nya (they're in manila now) every holy week lang sila nandito..minsan nga ayoko ng lumabas pag ganung time..ewan ko ba parang ayoko lang makasalubong sya or what.though me asawa at anak na sya.. 'yong isa naman we're ok..we communicate during special occasions like birthdays and christmas.but we haven't seen each other for quite a time now.

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Re: Meeting your Ex by chance after your break-up
« Reply #46 on: October 24, 2011, 03:26:03 PM »

share ko lang mga sis!^^,


-nagpunta kami ng bf ko s birthday ng friend namin,
sabi ng friend ko kun pwde dw ba niya iinvite yung ex ko
nashock ako sa tanong niya kasi sakin pa nagtanong,
sabi ko lang "OO naman!birthday ko to??" nakakahiya tuloy sa bf ko
midnight ng dumating yung bf ko,
biglang mei nagcomment na "bkit parang may TENSION"
d ko alam kung pano ako mgrereact super seloso kasi ng bf ko
kapag madaldal ako sasabihin nia "bakit ang daldal mo? nagpapapansin ka ba?" >.< kapag naman tahimik "tahimik ka ata affected ka ba?"
di lang kasi once nangyari yun.ang weird!
pero gusto ko talaga maging friend yung ex ko.
kasi dun kami ngsimula nuon pero wala na kong feelings para sa kanya.
good thing kami parin ng bf ko! :D
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Re: Meeting your Ex by chance after your break-up
« Reply #47 on: November 11, 2011, 12:08:26 PM »
i saw him a week after the breakup. he is with his friends and im with my girlfriends and gayfriends. kini-comfort nila ako so nagpapatawa ng sobra yung mga bakla eh di sobrang tawa ako. sakto dumating nga yung ex with friends. tapos super bilis na hello lang and hi tapos balik kami sa tawa dahil sobrang nakakatawa talaga yung pinag-uusapan namin. at least mukha akong masaya which really paid off. kasi that night, (sabi nung friend nya) nag-inuman daw sila and my ex was crying and saying that he was so mean to me. he dropped the girl he was dating (which was the obviously was the cause of the breakup) and asked me to forgive him.

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Re: Meeting your Ex by chance after your break-up
« Reply #48 on: November 26, 2011, 02:42:43 AM »

Its been 8 months now, i tried to have a welcome DISTRACTION by finding work far from home. I thought it's going to be easy. Dahil medyo isolated ang place of work ko, the more ko pa syang naisip during my first few weeks . After a busy day at work and while resting in my accommodation ( i am all alone in my room), mas lalo akong feeling vengeful, feeling t**** at powerless because i was not able to get back on him in a way na mavivindicate ko lahat ng naranasan kong pain at sinabi nyang masasakit na salita. I fear of loosing trust not only to men but to people. I dont know whether i need a retreat or counselling with the feeling of bitterness i have inside. I want to be totally FREE..totally HEALED before the new year ends...

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Re: Meeting your Ex by chance after your break-up
« Reply #49 on: April 30, 2012, 02:33:34 AM »
Yes. before sya ikasal nagkita kami. :)
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Re: Meeting your Ex by chance after your break-up
« Reply #50 on: April 30, 2012, 05:35:23 PM »
It's ok to meet your ex especially kung naka recover ka na. Kung hindi pa, for sure medyo may hurt pa yan or worst is bitterness.

Ako, I still look for my ex and want to know kung kamusta na sila eh

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Re: Meeting your Ex by chance after your break-up
« Reply #51 on: May 04, 2012, 12:50:30 PM »
saw my ex bf sa church, yung baby ang una ko na noticed kasi ang cute ang taba2x natulog then pag tingin ko to the one who's holding the baby yung ex ko. ngeks! kaya smile din ako sa kanya na nag dadalawang isip kung sino siya. hehe. halos hindi ko na siya makikilala iba na kasi fez niya.naging fat daddy na siya.
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Re: Meeting your Ex by chance after your break-up
« Reply #52 on: May 07, 2012, 11:04:30 AM »
After two years, nakasabay ko si ex bf yesterday sa jeep.. I broke up with him 2 years ago thru text lang dahil nafall out of love ako dahil sa pag uugali nya. Dati sobrang love na love ko sya at pag gusto nya makipag break hindi ako pumapayag, pero totoo pala yung MAGIGISING KA ISANG ARAW NA PAGOD KA NA SA UGALI NYA at WALA KA NG MARAMDAMAN. I pretended that I didn't see him, pero in my peripheral vision I knew he was looking at me.. Wala lang, ayoko lang sya pansinin pero no bitterness at no hurt feelings. Besides, sya naman ang naghabol when we broke up. Sorry na lang sya! Chos!

On my way ako yesterday papunta sa house ng present bf ko who was so different from him.. :)
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Re: Meeting your Ex by chance after your break-up
« Reply #53 on: May 07, 2012, 01:26:18 PM »
had this opportunity once, in the elevator of my office (where, apparently, he also had his office).  he was alone, and i was with my then-fiancee (now husband of 16 years).  kaming 3 lang sa elevator...

he was the one who broke up with me on my birthday (yep, the nerve!).  when he saw me, i knew he wanted to talk kasi that time blooming ako - i was 2 months away from being a mrs, i just got promoted and things were going my way.  e kasama ko nga si fiancee (na kilala sya).  etong si fiancee, when he noticed the ex,  naging mas lalong demonstrative, holding me closer and whispering (loudly) about our forthcoming wedding, na excited na sya, etc, tapos just before we left the elevator to the parking garage, biglang sabi ni fiancee ng 'salamat sa iyo pare, i know you know how lucky i am to be with her'. 

i learned from common friends right after na nakipag lasingan si ex, bemoaning (daw) the fact na pinalitan ko sya... up to now wala syang naging matinong relationship, never sya nagkaroon ng longer than a year.  wawa he he he he he.
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Re: Meeting your Ex by chance after your break-up
« Reply #54 on: May 17, 2012, 07:52:49 PM »
hahaha..naalala ko ang close encounter ko sa ex ko. College days, first love ko, mabuwang buwang ako nung nag break kami. ANyway, after 2 months ata ng break up, i bumped into him..sa baclaran!!! at kumakain pa ko ng mane hahahaha (super jologs talaga) may gawd hindi ko alam kung pano ko itatago ang mani na hawak ko.kakahiya diba..super turn off. So it was a funny experience for me.
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Re: Meeting your Ex by chance after your break-up
« Reply #55 on: July 04, 2012, 01:35:20 PM »
hindi pa to nangyayari sa akin... and i'm really curious kung ano ang mga scenarios na pwedeng mangyari.... but when that time does come, i just hope that i can act cool, smart and confident.... and still make him realize the greatest loss that i am in his life

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Re: Meeting your Ex by chance after your break-up
« Reply #56 on: August 31, 2012, 10:09:06 PM »
at last! hoora! he smiled, i smiled a little :) i felt i have forgiven him..

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Re: Meeting your Ex by chance after your break-up
« Reply #57 on: September 02, 2012, 11:25:55 PM »
We were together for 10 years and we broke up because of third party issues.  It was so hard for me to get on with my life.  Pinagdasal ko talaga kay God na kung makikita ko sya by accident only for 2 reasons: either I'm totally over him or he wants me back for the right reasons.

So after 19 months, I saw him.  Di pa nya ko nakita but I had the nerve to walk up to him and say hi (after all, di naman ako ang may third party).  Ayun, nerbyos na nerbyos ako but I know I look good.  Nagkanda utal-utal kami pareho because we don't know what to say to each other.

Yun! Disturbed tuloy ako now. Parang love ko pa din sya. Too bad, walang follow-up whatsoever after that chance meeting.

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Re: Meeting your Ex by chance after your break-up
« Reply #58 on: September 03, 2012, 10:23:18 PM »
i will smile like there's no tomorrow and make like life's been exceptionally great since nawala siya sa buhay ko.

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Re: Meeting your Ex by chance after your break-up
« Reply #59 on: September 04, 2012, 08:45:33 PM »
wag nalang please.
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