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Author Topic: Meeting your Ex by chance after your break-up  (Read 15550 times)

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Meeting your Ex by chance after your break-up
« on: May 03, 2010, 03:58:18 PM »
How was your experience?

My friend accidentally met her Ex last week. She said she was still shocked even though she broke up with him 8 years ago.

Share your experiences here.

What did you do?

And how did you cope with the experience?

Sometimes I’m terrified of my heart; of its constant hunger for whatever it is it wants. The way it stops and starts. – Edgar Allan Poe

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Re: Meeting your Ex by chance after your break-up
« Reply #1 on: May 03, 2010, 04:45:33 PM »
I was waiting for my vehicile at the mall driveway, and he sauntered over... probably came from the parking lot.
     
He was all starry starry eyed, full-smile, eager to talk.
Good, coz I was the one who rather hastily dumped him -- I was 15 and he was 21 then.
I was eager to make cuento cuento too, and go into some ego massage (for me, of course! hehe)...
but 1 kid was buttiing in:  hello, hello  hello    what's your name? My name is ......  and the yayas were looking on very very curiously with all ears wide open...
 
Thankfully my car arrived, and we did not say his name.. para walang cuento kay hubby.   But later that evening,  my kid prattled on:  mama has a new friend, he was looking at her with bug eyes  (like this o .. and made really big eyes...)  My husband got it... who bug eyes was.   hay buhay
« Last Edit: May 06, 2010, 09:14:18 AM by aquacharly »

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Re: Meeting your Ex by chance after your break-up
« Reply #2 on: May 04, 2010, 08:58:06 PM »
^ hahaha,... katuwa talaga mga bata..

ako rin sa lrt accidentally.... he wanted to talk.. sabi ko wala na... he was teary-eyed... ayoko na kasi talaga makipagusap.. kahit na nun time na yun na hurt pa rin ako..
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Re: Meeting your Ex by chance after your break-up
« Reply #3 on: May 05, 2010, 04:21:11 PM »
Naku halos lumabas ang puso ko sa dibdib ko hahahaha!

At bumalik lahat ng galit ko sa kanya.

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Re: Meeting your Ex by chance after your break-up
« Reply #4 on: May 05, 2010, 04:30:26 PM »
me konting ilang pero at least nagpansinan naman.

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Re: Meeting your Ex by chance after your break-up
« Reply #5 on: May 06, 2010, 09:17:34 AM »
Naku halos lumabas ang puso ko sa dibdib ko LOL!

At bumalik lahat ng galit ko sa kanya.

Haha,  you are sooo cute.

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Re: Meeting your Ex by chance after your break-up
« Reply #6 on: May 10, 2010, 05:36:08 AM »
Oh God...no!  ;D

I dont know kung anong maging reaction ko. I have already moved on and i've forgiven people and hoped i've been forgiven. Although im mighty curious how they are doing, maybe it's not yet the right time for us to meet, even accidentally.
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Re: Meeting your Ex by chance after your break-up
« Reply #7 on: May 10, 2010, 12:11:44 PM »
Hmm, ako i really don't know how i will react kung sakaling magkita kami. (which i really hope hindi mangyari..) Marinig ko pa lang yung mga kapatid ko magkwento na nakita nila yung ex ko.. nag iinit na ulo ko.. ha.ha.ha. ewan ko ba bakit ganun.  ;D

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Re: Meeting your Ex by chance after your break-up
« Reply #8 on: May 17, 2010, 12:31:49 AM »
Hi sis, pareho tayo. Ako din hindi ko alam kung ano magiging reaction ko. I am not ready yet, though matagal na ko nakapag move on. One year pa lang kameng wala na. So, sa ngayon, ayoko magkita kame. Sana huwag muna ngayon.. 
Oh God...no!  ;D

I dont know kung anong maging reaction ko. I have already moved on and i've forgiven people and hoped i've been forgiven. Although im mighty curious how they are doing, maybe it's not yet the right time for us to meet, even accidentally.
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Re: Meeting your Ex by chance after your break-up
« Reply #9 on: May 17, 2010, 07:17:13 AM »
It was really awkward since I was with my bf at that time and my ex was alone. Hi and goodbye lang hehe

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Re: Meeting your Ex by chance after your break-up
« Reply #10 on: May 23, 2010, 05:27:35 PM »
we did. on a public van on our way to work. i didn't noticed him yet until he called my name with his very manly voice. i was so maingay on the van so he ended up getting my number so that we can text na lang while we are inside the van. nabroadcast na kase yung kwentuhan namin sa mga iba pang nakasakay.  ;D
he asked me sa text if we can talk for a while. sabi ko, sure. and then, yon, we decided to walk na lang to our destinations which would take like 20-min walk. it's all worthwhile. masarap sa pakiramdam. magaan. nagkamustahan kami and all. he told me that i never left his heart. very flattering.  :-* pero things became better for us na nung nagkahiawalay kami. he is already married and has a kid na. i am happy for him. at first, nagtetext pa din siya and he is asking me out, catching up lang daw. [textspeak!] for? hehe! i declined. that's it! ok na yung nagkausap kami ng ganun by chance. everything ends there.  ;D
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Re: Meeting your Ex by chance after your break-up
« Reply #11 on: May 26, 2010, 04:10:07 PM »
he just broke up with me last thursday....saw him last saturday...ang sakit sakit pala talaga...deadmahan lang kami-as if we both never existed (todo iyak ako that same night)...until now, i don't think i can handle seeing him on a weekly basis...we go on the same church kasi & we have the same set of friends
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Re: Meeting your Ex by chance after your break-up
« Reply #12 on: May 27, 2010, 01:47:10 AM »
Saw one of my ex's sa Makati Med 3 years ago. Pero heller naman kasi...3 months lang ata kami nung college. Ok naman. Better than when we were in college kasi di kami nagku-kuwentuhan. We ate at McDonalds, tapos it ended there na. hehe. Didn't give my number.
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Re: Meeting your Ex by chance after your break-up
« Reply #13 on: May 29, 2010, 04:20:30 PM »
hindi ko alam magiging reaction ko. siguro plastik na galit pero deep down "he's happy, bakit ako hindi? :)" with teary-eyes haha
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Re: Meeting your Ex by chance after your break-up
« Reply #14 on: May 29, 2010, 04:26:58 PM »
Deadma lang ako....diretso sa pupuntahan.

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Re: Meeting your Ex by chance after your break-up
« Reply #15 on: May 30, 2010, 12:23:53 PM »
for starters id smile at him, il give him my sexy smile hahaha :) that way he would know that Iam doing perfectly great and very much happy. trying to avoid him or playing deadma i believe is just simply a sign of being immature or that im still not over him. DO NOT ever show your ex's that you are still affected by everything that happened in the past, let bygones be bygones. kahit na your past with him still brings bitter memories, you should still do your best not to show him that you are still affected. Trust me guys dig chicks who are in control of their lives.
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Re: Meeting your Ex by chance after your break-up
« Reply #16 on: June 04, 2010, 03:44:31 PM »
nagkita kame recently nung lakad with our common friends sa isang bar sa tomas morato...may dancefloor. hehe. i didnt know na pupunta din pala sya so i went. nung una talagang super isnaban ganyan. di kame nagpapansinan. tapos later on, nagkayayaan na mag-dance. tapos may nakipag-dance sakin...a younger guy. kinuha name and phone number ko.

sabe ng friend ko nakita daw ng ex ko na may kasayaw ako...medyo naasar daw. pagbalik ko sa table namin after the dance. nagyaya na siya umuwi. selos. bwahahahhaha  ;D ;D ;D
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Re: Meeting your Ex by chance after your break-up
« Reply #17 on: June 06, 2010, 05:59:52 PM »
deadma na pag nakita ko kase wala naman na, although im scared pa din kase 1 day pa lang kame break, pero it was for good na, at ako agrabyado ng SUPER, so pag nakita ko sya, iwas mata na lang.

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Re: Meeting your Ex by chance after your break-up
« Reply #18 on: June 25, 2010, 08:47:55 PM »
kami nag kita kami ng ex bf ko after 5 years..he's my first bf tapos wala kami formal break up..ang nakakatawa nagmeet pa kami sa cebu..pilot pala sya ng sinasakyan namin plane..sobra nagulat ako nung nag salita yung pilot at nag greet tapos sinabi niya yung name nya yung ex ko pala yun hahaha.. tapos nung pababa na kami ng plane, kami yung last na bumaba kasama ko pa nga mga cousins ko kasi nagpicture picture pa kami..nagkita pa kami..hahaha..ang sabi lang namin..hi lang..haha..namutla pa nga ako sabi ng mga pinsan ko..hehe  ;D after 5 years dun pa kami magkikita..
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Re: Meeting your Ex by chance after your break-up
« Reply #19 on: July 25, 2010, 11:59:00 AM »
i remember seeing my ex. im with my not so cute-guy officemate. he was alone.nasa fastfood chain kami, then kasunod ko siya sa pila habang umo-order then ask me kung ok lang tabi kami, then tinuro ko yung officemate ko who is looking for a table, then hindi na siya nagsalita. akala niya yata bf ko.

 

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