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Author Topic: DO YOU PREFER TO BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR X OR NOT?????? WHY  (Read 52936 times)

ayka

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Re: DO YOU PREFER TO BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR X OR NOT?????? WHY
« Reply #320 on: September 20, 2012, 07:47:48 AM »
no way! former lovers can't be friends. it's just meant to be that way.
happy girls are the prettiest girls! ♥♥♥

Mommy Mia

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Re: DO YOU PREFER TO BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR X OR NOT?????? WHY
« Reply #321 on: September 21, 2012, 02:07:59 PM »
Sa 1st ex-bf ko, we're kinda friends, we had closure kasi and maayos ang break-up. Friends kami sa facebook and as well as his family. 5 years kasi kami so madami kaming pinagsamahan, super close ko pa sa family nya. Pero not to the point na I know his cellphone number and he knows mine. Parang other friends mo lang sa facebook na nandyan lang, nakikita mo updates sa kanila. But with my 2nd ex-bf, totally no communications, depende siguro sa kind of ex, kasi the 2nd one tragic ang break up namen. :(

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Re: DO YOU PREFER TO BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR X OR NOT?????? WHY
« Reply #322 on: September 29, 2012, 07:59:49 PM »
no sana.. wala kami closure, actually sa text lang kami nag break..pero parang mahirap na hindi na ulit magtagpo landas namin, we have the same circle of friends and we live in the same subdivision pa.. siguro sa ngayon hindi ko pa kaya maging friends kami, pero in the future pwede naman na siguro..

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Re: DO YOU PREFER TO BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR X OR NOT?????? WHY
« Reply #323 on: October 09, 2012, 04:48:35 PM »
If i still have feelings for him during and after the break up I'd rather not be friends with him.. ayoko naman torturin sarili ko.. Pero if i moved on and sure akong wala na talagang feelings then I'll be ok with us being friends..
There is never a wrong time to do the right thing..

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Re: DO YOU PREFER TO BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR X OR NOT?????? WHY
« Reply #324 on: October 10, 2012, 12:53:41 PM »
A BIG NO-NO. What for? Nagbreak pa kayo if you still want communication. Sakin kasi pag tapos na tapos na. Wala nang babalikan.

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Re: DO YOU PREFER TO BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR X OR NOT?????? WHY
« Reply #325 on: October 10, 2012, 01:04:00 PM »
it' a NO!! past is past nga eh..and ayoko na ulit makipagcommunicate sa kanila noh..saka magagalit din hubby ko, ganun din ako sa kanya pag ex niya ayoko din nakikipagusap o nakikipag friends pa siya dun noh..pag aawayan lang din namin..so much better na wag na lang talaga.. ;D

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Re: DO YOU PREFER TO BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR X OR NOT?????? WHY
« Reply #326 on: October 10, 2012, 01:25:08 PM »
Nope. He might presume I'm still interested noh. And I want him out of my life completely.

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Re: DO YOU PREFER TO BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR X OR NOT?????? WHY
« Reply #327 on: October 20, 2012, 09:07:18 PM »
;)  I don't hate my previous boyfriends pero I do not want to keep in touch masyado. 
We tell lies when we are afraid... afraid of what we don't know, afraid of what others will think, afraid of what will be found out about us.  But every time we tell a lie, the thing that we fear grows stronger.  ~Tad Williams

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Re: DO YOU PREFER TO BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR X OR NOT?????? WHY
« Reply #328 on: October 25, 2012, 04:02:55 PM »
definitely not. yung ex ko nga sabi sa ken after nya ko iwan ako daw ang bestfriend niya.sampal sa ken yun kasi ako na nga iniwan ako pa pinaglalaruan niya na bestfriend niya daw ako. weird is ndi nya na daw ako mahal pero paramdam pa din ng paramdam.sinabihan ko nga na ayoko ndi ako ganun katanga

ayka

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Re: DO YOU PREFER TO BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR X OR NOT?????? WHY
« Reply #329 on: October 26, 2012, 02:11:21 AM »
Nope. He might presume I'm still interested noh. And I want him out of my life completely.

^couldn't agree more!
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Re: DO YOU PREFER TO BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR X OR NOT?????? WHY
« Reply #330 on: October 26, 2012, 02:28:12 AM »
NO! nanjan ang temptation.. kaya mas mabuti ng walang communication.. tahimik ang buhay..
..DISCIPLINE is your FRIEND not your ENEMY..

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Re: DO YOU PREFER TO BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR X OR NOT?????? WHY
« Reply #331 on: October 27, 2012, 09:03:29 AM »
nope! what for?

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Re: DO YOU PREFER TO BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR X OR NOT?????? WHY
« Reply #332 on: November 02, 2012, 07:25:17 PM »
sabi ko dati, hindi. sabi ko dati, impossibleng maging magkaibigan pa kami dahil sa pain na dinulot nya sa  buhay ko. Isang taon akong nagmove on nun!  >:(
pero time would really heal the pain...
Ang kulit... aksidenteng nagkita kami ng ex ko kanina sa mall, pero parang close friends parin kami kahit magisang taon na kaming hindi nagkita.
I even tpld him ' i missed him'. nagulat talaga ko sa reaction ko kanina :)
siguro kasi i really fell in love with this guy 2years ago... na kahit ilang taon pa kaming hindi magkita... pag nagkita ulit kami ganon parin ang magiging trato ko sa kanya... :)
be kind. whenever possible. its always possible.

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Re: DO YOU PREFER TO BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR X OR NOT?????? WHY
« Reply #333 on: November 04, 2012, 11:45:54 PM »
no. simpler that way.
'pag tapos na, tapos na.

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Re: DO YOU PREFER TO BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR X OR NOT?????? WHY
« Reply #334 on: November 06, 2012, 03:47:52 PM »
first bf: we're friends, parang wala lang nangyaring break-up,haha! well we were young then ;D 
 
2nd bf: NO! i don't want to be associated with a person whom I do not trust anymore.
nagbabalik na girltalker :)

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Re: DO YOU PREFER TO BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR X OR NOT?????? WHY
« Reply #335 on: November 06, 2012, 04:02:59 PM »
depende din sa situation kme ng 2nd ex bf ko, were still friends upto now, then my first no communication at all, as well as the 3rd!
we are just passer by, so enjoy every minute of it as we are alive-ish, have fun, fall in love, get crazy, make mistakes, learn to grow up! Share your thoughts and humor! :D

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Re: DO YOU PREFER TO BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR X OR NOT?????? WHY
« Reply #336 on: December 13, 2012, 08:33:37 PM »
If you can handle seeing them with someone else then yes. if not, no.

depends on the relationship and the way things ended too though.

generally i dont mind as long as i'm completely over them.
« Last Edit: December 15, 2012, 04:34:37 PM by ItsTricky »

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Re: DO YOU PREFER TO BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR X OR NOT?????? WHY
« Reply #337 on: December 14, 2012, 12:24:03 AM »
DATI: yes, pero ngayon BIG NO!!! dahil na-try ko na to be friends with him, pakiramdam ko kasi nun siya biggest enemy ko, eh ayoko ng ganun kasi mabigat sa pakiramdam... ako namang t****, tanggap ko ng di na kami pero gusto ko pa maging friend siya kaso minasama niya lang yung pakikipag-usap ko sa kanya sa fb chat at worst, nagsulat pa siya ng nobelang note about me sa fb, na kahit wala naman akong name dun, alam na alam ng lahat na ako yung pinapatamaan niya. Kainis noh? simula nun, i blocked him, wala siyang kwenta kasi ako na ngang nakikipagbati kahit ba civil lang, ayun pero minasama pa niya.

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Re: DO YOU PREFER TO BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR X OR NOT?????? WHY
« Reply #338 on: December 14, 2012, 04:19:19 PM »
depende kung paano kami nag break. yung iba friends ko yung iba naman hindi. closed door talaga.walang chance maging friends kami.
I may be a woman,  but if I choose I have the heart of a man! (Queen Elizabeth)

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Re: DO YOU PREFER TO BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR X OR NOT?????? WHY
« Reply #339 on: December 14, 2012, 05:09:58 PM »
Pwede din... Hmmm first bf ko 10 yrs ago hirap talaga siya maka move on hanggang ngayon yata interested siya sakin kahit may asawa at anak nako... Siya till
Now wala pa din serious relationship... Minsan tuloy natatanong ko sa sarili ko kung nasira koba buhay niya...?
Pero friends naman kami ngayon... Hindi nga lang pwede yun kay hubby magagalit siya...
Sakin walang problema maging friends ko mga ex for as long as maayos ang closure at nandun pa din ang respect sa isat isa pero kung ang isa ay may feelings pa nakow malabo nga yun kasi mauuwi lang din sa bitterness... :)

 

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