Author Topic: DO YOU PREFER TO BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR X OR NOT?????? WHY (Read 31352 times)

mimiku · « **on:** April 22, 2010, 05:05:34 pm »

Me ~ No.

lesters_gal · « **Reply #1 on:** April 23, 2010, 04:35:45 am »

^same here sis.good or bad break up ayoko talaga makipag make friends sa mga ex ko.don't know why,pero hindi ko lang talaga feel.

petlovah · « **Reply #2 on:** April 23, 2010, 07:05:40 pm »

im not sure if i want to be friends with him in the future but as of now, a big big NO.

missreese · « **Reply #3 on:** April 23, 2010, 08:18:57 pm »

it depends kung anong dahilan ng break up namen dati.. pero I have ex-es na friends ko pa rin till now.. =)

neshyy_0014 · « **Reply #4 on:** April 23, 2010, 08:37:53 pm »

i think it's not appropriate that you make friends with your ex pa. specially if you have someone na, i mean if you're committed already, coz let's admit girls it hurts knowing nakakausap pa ng bf mo yung ex nya diba? so same thing lang yung mafifeel nila if we make friends pa. That happened to me kasi, at first he would say we're just FRIENDS, ofcourse i would feel bad saying don't talk to her, as if i'm desperate but really i am, i told him it hurts knowing they are but still he continued talking to her hanggang sa one day i just found out na they are on relationship na pala ulit while we're ON, come on ang sakit nun, kasi may past sila eh it's impossible na kahit konti wala na yun, that's B@ll$ht! and so i realize it can never work out as friends. nasaktan nya lang ako but i'm still happy i'm stronger now and i've learned that i should value my self more than my bf, i mean you should keep something for your self coz when you give it full, napakasakit talaga, parang katapusan na ng mundo haha sorry napahaba kwento ko, hehe

wonderland1 · « **Reply #5 on:** April 23, 2010, 11:33:24 pm »

if i had a bad break-up / experience with him...then heck, NO!!

wonderland1 · « **Reply #6 on:** April 23, 2010, 11:34:11 pm »

^ ..... not even with our common friends and his family.

euwie · « **Reply #7 on:** April 25, 2010, 05:34:33 pm »

no! no! no! walang ganon.

kitty_me · « **Reply #8 on:** April 25, 2010, 06:59:15 pm »

just today, my ex saw me at FB... he gave his number and gave mine to... just for the sake of old times..
we had a bad break up yes.. pero naka move on na ko...

and now, he's asking kung pwede kami mag dinner or something.. sabi ko what for... then medyo ok na ko..

but i realized.. no need na talaga.
am already committed.. and yes.. ayoko ma hurt si boyfie pag tinuloy ko pa communication ko with my ex.. so there.. i stopped.. sabi ko masaya na ko sa buhay ko ngayon... i have moved on.. and ok na yun..

sabi nya kung sakin daw may closure na... sa kanya raw wala pa.. gusto lang nya magkaron ng closure..

then i told him... matanda na tayo... matagal na yun.. ok na yun..

have i not met my current boyfie.. and nagtino sya... and if he asked me to marry him (at that time)..... my answer will be yes... kaso.. he blew it...

wella · « **Reply #9 on:** April 29, 2010, 09:17:52 am »

for me ok lang... actually naging super close pa kme nung di na kme... mas click kame as friends kesa as a couple...

shelo08 · « **Reply #10 on:** April 29, 2010, 03:42:06 pm »

No! malabo mangyari yan

kettlekorn28 · « **Reply #11 on:** April 29, 2010, 03:46:20 pm »

No. I had 3 boyfriends in the past excluding hubby. Never sumagi sa isip ko makipag-friends sa kanila, lalo pa 2 of them eh naging pangit ang break-up. It's better to leave them in the past.

Perky! · « **Reply #12 on:** April 29, 2010, 04:10:38 pm »

no.. civil yes.. pero super friendly friends? nope.. same way that i dont want my future boyfie to be super friendly friends with his ex, lalo na if super lalim yung past nila..

Quote from: kitty_me on April 25, 2010, 06:59:15 pm

just today, my ex saw me at FB... he gave his number and gave mine to... just for the sake of old times..
we had a bad break up yes.. pero naka move on na ko...

and now, he's asking kung pwede kami mag dinner or something.. sabi ko what for... then medyo ok na ko..

but i realized.. no need na talaga.
am already committed.. and yes.. ayoko ma hurt si boyfie pag tinuloy ko pa communication ko with my ex.. so there.. i stopped.. sabi ko masaya na ko sa buhay ko ngayon... i have moved on.. and ok na yun..

sabi nya kung sakin daw may closure na... sa kanya raw wala pa.. gusto lang nya magkaron ng closure..

then i told him... matanda na tayo... matagal na yun.. ok na yun..

have i not met my current boyfie.. and nagtino sya... and if he asked me to marry him (at that time)..... my answer will be yes... kaso.. he blew it...

love it sis! sana dumating na rin ako sa point na yan.. i want to have that scene with my ex. or something similar. wala naman kase kong fb e.

bluemargarita · « **Reply #13 on:** April 29, 2010, 04:14:21 pm »

Good break up or bad break up = No.

For me, there is no such thing as "ex na friends". You can never be "friends" with your ex. Civil siguro or hindi galit sa isa't-isa..
pero friends? di talaga. especially kung may bagong partner ka na.

kitty_me · « **Reply #14 on:** April 29, 2010, 06:07:50 pm »

Quote from: Perky! on April 29, 2010, 04:10:38 pm

no.. civil yes.. pero super friendly friends? nope.. same way that i dont want my future boyfie to be super friendly friends with his ex, lalo na if super lalim yung past nila..

love it sis! sana dumating na rin ako sa point na yan.. i want to have that scene with my ex. or something similar. wala naman kase kong fb e.

lolz.. naku sis.. pwede siguro magkasalubong kayo..
kasi before this one... nagkita rin kami accidentally... at that time di pa ko nakamove on... nagkita kami sa lrt... usap daw kami.. sabi ko hindi na kailangan.. pero sobrang hurt pa ko nun at gusto ko talaga makipagusap.. kaso naisip ko yun ginawa nya sakin.. di pa rin ako pumayag....

angel.of.mine · « **Reply #15 on:** May 02, 2010, 07:40:33 am »

ako yes. kasi may baby kami. kaso simula nun naghiwalay kme ni bf hndi na nya dinalaw un baby namin or kahit fon call/text wala. pero hndi ko naman siya sinisiraan sa baby namin kasi alam ko darating din yung time na dadalaw siya dito sa house para makita un baby namin and ayoko na mag tanim ng sama ng loob yung bata sa daddy niya.

Joycy · « **Reply #16 on:** May 02, 2010, 09:50:53 am »

Before, i could say na no talaga. What for, di ba? But just recently, naisip ko, why not? Naka-move on na naman ako. Besides, hindi naman na best friends ang habol ko. I spent years with this person and some of the best moments of my life was with him. Parang, its sad na kahit naman sa FB lang di kami maging mag-friends...

So ayun, i tried. I wrote him an email (i dont know where he is kasi) and until now, he didnt reply.

Well, the ball is in his court na and at least i tried.

paper_doll · « **Reply #17 on:** May 02, 2010, 12:19:05 pm »

for me kahit wala pa kong ex at current bf pa lang, ayoko makipagfriends si bf sa ex nya..

alam ko kasi na naging serious talaga relationship nila, at ang hirap na makita sila maging close ulit, masakit sakin yun at alam ni bf yun

mojitayanipot · « **Reply #18 on:** May 02, 2010, 12:21:13 pm »

Ako, it depends on how the breakup went. I'm still friends with most of my ex boyfriends, except for one. Anyway, I only had 4 BFs before I got married. Hehe. And I don't have communication with most of them anymore. Pero when our paths cross, we're still in good terms naman.

iYaMoTo · « **Reply #19 on:** May 02, 2010, 12:32:43 pm »

For me NO NO NO.

Kahit ano pang dahilan ng break up maganda man o panget. X is X and past is past hindi na nya kailangan pang pumasok sa buhay ko at hindi ko narin kailang pa syang papasukin sa buhay ko!

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