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if a man wants you... check this out
« on: April 21, 2010, 11:17:06 AM »
I don't recall if this was taken from Sex in the City or from Oprah but I'd like you ladies to take time to read this and learn something in it. ^^

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.

If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour.

Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.

Slower is better.

Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you CAN'T "be friends".

A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

Don't stay because you think "it will get better."
You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, WHYwould he treat you any differently?

Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.

If something bothers you, speak up.

Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

You cannot change a man's behaviour. Change comes from within.

Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job.

Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.

Never let a man define who you are.

Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

All men are NOT dogs.

You should not be the one doing all the bending... compromise is a two way street.

You need time to heal between relationships... there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you... a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... look for someone complementary... not supplementary.

Dating is fun... even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.

Make him miss you sometimes... when a man always knows where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.

Never move into his mother's house.

Never co-sign for a man.

Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.

Keep him in your radar but get to know others.



Share this with other women... You'll make someone smile, another rethink her choices, and another woman prepare.
Sometimes Im terrified of my heart; of its constant hunger for whatever it is it wants. The way it stops and starts. Edgar Allan Poe

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Re: if a man wants you... check this out
« Reply #1 on: April 21, 2010, 08:12:26 PM »
with the several lines mentioned, sapul ako sobra :(

ma-copy and save ko nga ;)
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Re: if a man wants you... check this out
« Reply #2 on: April 22, 2010, 02:58:48 AM »
ako din! lol i needed to read this. may importante akong confrontation mamayang gabi at kailangan ko ng inspiration to draw strength from. i'm glad i read this! thanks sis!!!
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Re: if a man wants you... check this out
« Reply #3 on: April 22, 2010, 03:25:52 AM »
how sad.. but most of them are true :( hay

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Re: if a man wants you... check this out
« Reply #4 on: April 22, 2010, 03:51:07 AM »
kay Oprah yata 'to.. :) I've read them before.
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Re: if a man wants you... check this out
« Reply #5 on: April 22, 2010, 05:28:53 PM »
dme ko natutunan..:)

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Re: if a man wants you... check this out
« Reply #6 on: April 22, 2010, 05:49:19 PM »
indeed helpful,,since ang relationship is hard to learn and to know unless you're into..
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« Reply #7 on: May 11, 2010, 09:10:45 PM »
All true... ;)

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« Reply #8 on: May 17, 2010, 12:24:26 AM »
i agree its all true
SmiLe! :) XOXO

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Re: if a man wants you... check this out
« Reply #9 on: May 29, 2010, 04:25:45 PM »
ano ba :( binasa ko pa. nasaktan lang ako :))
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Re: if a man wants you... check this out
« Reply #10 on: May 29, 2010, 07:29:15 PM »
ang pinakafavorite ko sa lahat is:

"Make him miss you sometimes... when a man always knows where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted."

cause its true, men always go crazy when you ditch them sometimes :) its also for all relationships
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Re: if a man wants you... check this out
« Reply #11 on: May 30, 2010, 07:05:54 AM »
  -- ang ganda... hehe.  :)
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Re: if a man wants you... check this out
« Reply #12 on: June 06, 2010, 05:48:16 PM »
Don't stay because you think "it will get better."
You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

Slower is better.

You cannot change a man's behaviour. Change comes from within.

Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.

Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

thoia thoia thoing thoing!
Kabago bago pa lang ng heartache ko eto agad ang sumapul!

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Re: if a man wants you... check this out
« Reply #13 on: July 03, 2010, 12:41:06 PM »
i love this.. sapul talaga

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you CAN'T "be friends".
Don't stay because you think "it will get better."
You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
If something bothers you, speak up.

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Re: if a man wants you... check this out
« Reply #14 on: July 03, 2010, 05:05:42 PM »
wow thanks for sharing sis! ang ganda nito.. i should learn from this....
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Re: if a man wants you... check this out
« Reply #15 on: July 09, 2010, 06:16:13 PM »
Aww. Thanks for sharing

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Re: if a man wants you... check this out
« Reply #16 on: October 24, 2010, 01:38:14 PM »
Make him miss you sometimes... when a man always knows where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.

If something bothers you, speak up.

 Oo nga totoo nga ito  :'(  Nakakasakit grabe! :'(
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Re: if a man wants you... check this out
« Reply #17 on: October 25, 2010, 01:38:07 AM »
Nabasa ko somewhere, if you can only be with your man on weekdays, and not on weekends, he's probably married :)

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Re: if a man wants you... check this out
« Reply #18 on: October 25, 2010, 01:39:56 AM »
if something bother you,speak up....TAMA.......
Kelangan talaga sa mga sis
kung di tayo komportable sa ginagawa
ng mga hubby/bf nyo
sabihin nyo agad....para alam nila.
kadalasan kasi nababasa ko nagtitiis muna,
nagpipigil kahit na nasasaktan na sila...
sabi nga ng mga boys,di sila manghuhula
kaya gat di mo sinasabihan mga yan,
di nila malalaman kung ano ayaw at gusto mo.
To love someone & be loved back is the greatest gift of life!

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Re: if a man wants you... check this out
« Reply #19 on: October 25, 2010, 07:12:57 AM »
nabasa ko 'to sa thread ni oprah and everything's all true talaga. dapat post natin 'to sa wall natin sa room natin :) all liners are sapul talaga and perfect for us gurls kasi sobra talaga tayong magmahal :) hehe :)
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