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Re: NINANG ng Bayan!
« Reply #20 on: May 12, 2010, 10:45:40 AM »
^ pwede naman sis pero kung gusto mo umiwas sa tampuhan, tanggapin mo na lang and padala na lang ng gift sa araw mismo ng binyag. hehe..

yung isang kumare ko naman, sinabihan ako na pag naggift daw ako sa inaanak ko, dapat daw yung isang anak nya meron din kasi magaaway daw. pati ba naman dun damay ako? mula nun, di na ko nagpapadala ng papasko sa anak nya pero wag ka, pag nagkikita kami talagang garapal maningil ng papasko for the n years na di daw ako nagbigay. sobra-sobra pa ang bilang nya sa taon na di daw ako nagbigay ng papasko.take note, maaalala lang nya na ninang ako ng anak nya pag magpapasko na..  :o

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« Reply #21 on: May 12, 2010, 11:57:56 AM »
^korek. may kabarkada din akong ganyan. nakakairita. parang ang habol lang sa'yo pera. eh hindi ko nga alam kung kasama ba talaga ko dun sa nakalistang ninang kasi super dami namin. pag nangamusta laging kasunod, "uy regalo daw ng inaanak mo".

super dami na kasi ng inaanak ni hubby. eh may kumukuha na naman sa kanya mag ninong. hindi namin alam paano tatanggihan.
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« Reply #22 on: May 12, 2010, 12:15:11 PM »
^ mahirap yan sis.. ang pinakadiplomatic way lang talaga na nakikita ko is pagpapadala ng gift sa araw ng binyag.. yung ibang paraan, may kabuntot ng away or tampuhan.. hehe

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Re: NINANG ng Bayan!
« Reply #23 on: May 12, 2010, 12:16:51 PM »
^kasi sis yung mag asawang yun panay hingi ng pabor samin. hiram ng kotse, hiram ng ganyan. mas lalo na siguro pag naging ninong si hubby ng anak nila.
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Re: NINANG ng Bayan!
« Reply #24 on: May 12, 2010, 12:21:09 PM »
^kapal naman ng face nila. hirap nga tanggihan dahil nga sa paniniwala na bad luck tumanggi, siguro sis iwasan mo na lang sila hanggat kaya mo, grabeh user friendly... baka pag laki ng bata pang tuition na hingiin nila sa inyo! joke lang pero kaasar talaga mga ganyan
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« Reply #25 on: May 12, 2010, 12:26:58 PM »
^^ malamang yun nga ang reason kung bakit kinuha nilang ninong si hubby.. sis, gusto mo na ba icut ang connection mo sa kanila? dedma mo lang invitation nila na magninong si hubby.. good riddance pag nagalit sa inyo at nagdecide na di na kayo kausapin/lapitan kahit kailan.. pero asahan na kung kani-kanino kayo ichichismis ng mga yan.. pero plus note dyan, di na rin kayo kukuning godparent ng ibang makakabalita nyan.. bad ba? hehe..

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« Reply #26 on: May 13, 2010, 03:04:40 AM »
^hindi totoo malas ang tumatanggi magnibnong/ninang sa binyag. i have a close friend tinanggihan niya ko ng kunin ko siya kasi bawal sa religion niya. INC kasi sila. i understand. no hard feelings. minalas ba sila? hindi naman. :)

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« Reply #27 on: May 13, 2010, 11:16:04 AM »
^how i wish magkaiba kami ng religion. waa!

^^ang hirap kasi sis putulin yung connection kasi may tindahan kami sa banawe at halos every week dumadaan dito yun. di naman kami pwede biglang mag sara pag dumating sila.

ang hirap pa, kahit hindi kami umattend ng binyag, ninong pa din sya diba.
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« Reply #28 on: May 13, 2010, 11:39:22 AM »
^mukhang wala ka na ngang kawala,

ako hindi ako catholic, pero marami akong inaanak since di naman bawal sa church ko yun, pero catholics nga inaanak ko since wala naman kaming binyag. meron akong tinanggihan pero kasi yun talagang di ko ka close, at hindi personal na nagsabi sa akin, puro pasabi lang.

the best to do for me is huwag ka pumunta sa binyag at gumawa ka na lang ng excuse, para mabigyan mo sila ng hint na hindi mo sila trip maging "kumare, kumpare" ;D padalhan mo na lang ng gift.

tapos pag christmas time  na, yung mga special na inaanak ko syempre sila may magandang gift at yung mga inaanak ko na "kinuha lang akong ninang ng parent dahil gift lang habol nila" cheap na gifts lang binibigay ko,

alam ko naman na di tama yun pero ayoko naman kasing samantalahin ng parents ng mga bata na yun yung pagiging ninang ako ng anak nila, saka ayokong lalo silang maging mukhang pera. gift talaga ang binibigay ko at para sa bata hindi pera dahil alam kong sila lang ang makikinabang
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« Reply #29 on: May 13, 2010, 12:25:03 PM »

^^ang hirap kasi sis putulin yung connection kasi may tindahan kami sa banawe at halos every week dumadaan dito yun. di naman kami pwede biglang mag sara pag dumating sila.

ang hirap pa, kahit hindi kami umattend ng binyag, ninong pa din sya diba.

may kailangan din ba kayo sa kanila (like supplier ng paninda nyo sila) kaya sila dumadaan weekly? hirap nga yan kasi kung laging may kailangan sa inyo, all year round nila maaalalang ninong ang hubby mo..

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Re: NINANG ng Bayan!
« Reply #30 on: May 13, 2010, 01:48:20 PM »
sad to say marami din akong kilalang ganyan na magulang. madami rin akong tinanggihan. i'll say it straight na "uy di naman tayo close ha. wag na."

now that i have a baby, when we chose his godparents, lahat close friends and relatives. and whenever they asks what gift i want for my son i always say "kayo bahala pero kahit wag na". all i ever wanted is their presence while my son is growing up.

me and hubby have this singe guy friend naman na lahat na ata ng classmates namin noong college na may anak na, ginawa syang ninong. he doesn't mind coz he likes being the "friend ng bayan" since college. mind you, may budget talaga sya every xmas season to shop for every single one of his inaanaks. nung kukunin na namin syang ninong for my son, hubby argued wag na sya kunin kasi super dami na nyang inaanak. pero i told hubby na sa lahat ng mga inaanak nya, ang son namin ang most important na inaanak nya since kami ang pinaka ka-close nya and we're like his second family since college (more than ten years of friendship). when this guy friend learned about this argument, nagtampururot dahil nga bakit di sya kukunin. pero at the end sya ang principal godparent ni baby :)

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Re: NINANG ng Bayan!
« Reply #31 on: May 13, 2010, 02:01:04 PM »
^^hindi namin sila supplier sis. tumatambay lang sa tindahan namin.

kung money, magkano ba binibigay nyo mga sis?

at kung in kind naman, magkano yung worth?
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« Reply #32 on: May 13, 2010, 02:04:27 PM »
^ tambay lang pala sis.. pwedeng-pwede mo awayin.. hahaha.. i suggest sis in kind na lang ang ibigay mo para di mapresyuhan (agad). damit na lang na di branded? wala pang 1k (or kahit 500) pwede na..

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Re: NINANG ng Bayan!
« Reply #33 on: May 13, 2010, 02:18:51 PM »
eh pag Christmas and birthdays how much do you give?

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« Reply #34 on: May 13, 2010, 02:27:10 PM »
^ dun sa mga inaanak kong napilitan lang ako, pag may time bumili ng toys/damit, i budget around 150-200 per head. mas mura kung makakapagdivi ako.. pero last christmas, dahil busy, di na talaga ako namili. yung mga pumunta lang talaga sa kin ang binigyan ko ng pera. tig 200 lang. mahirap na ang buhay..  ;D

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« Reply #35 on: May 13, 2010, 11:42:22 PM »
My SIL mentioned na lahat ng bagong panganak na bata sa street where they live, kinuha syang ninang. And they tend to abuse, since walang kawala that every occasion these inaanak, together with the mother/father would visit the house to ask for regalo. Ang ginagawa nya is just to give generic gifts para hindi daw mang abuso, she never gave cach. Another abuse is hiram dito, hiram doon. And feeling sobrang comfortable sila sa loob ng house. Minsan hindi na lang daw nya pinagbubuksan ng gate.

Even with my very own sister, nakakahiya man aminin, for the sake of story telling na lang, and for lessons to be learned... she got my hubby as ninong to her baby. But we were not able to attend the binyag. When I called that same day after the celebration, aba siningit pa talaga sa usapan, naniningil na ng regalo! pati daw ako yung regalo ko daw sa isang anak for both bday and christmas who is also my inaanak. Ipadala ko na lang daw. Sobrang demanding the way sa said it. And even if she is my sister, nakakapikon din. Sabi ko nga, bakit hindi ka makapaghintay. Ganyan ka ba ka desperate sa regalo?

Nakakahiya kasi negosyo na lang ang nangyayari. And these parents, they have to pimp their kids para kumita sa paraan ng regalo. Pathetic naman ang ganyang thinking.
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Re: NINANG ng Bayan!
« Reply #36 on: July 02, 2010, 10:40:30 AM »
4 lang ang inaanak ko.
Yung 1st is pamangkin ng (ex) bf ko
2nd is anak ng barkada niya
3rd is anak ng friend ko
4th is anak ng best friend ko.

Of all my inaanaks, yung 4th lang ang active ninang talaga ako.
Wala lang akong choice dun sa first two, I was just around 18 then and nahihiya akong tumanggi at hindi ko alam na pwedeng tumanggi.

I gave gifts din dun sa 3rd na inaanak ko, kaya lang my friend (mommy ng kid) stole my cellphone kaya tumigil ako sa pagbigay.

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Matagal na kami hindi nagkikita ni Friend,mga 3 years na. One christmas pumunta siya sa bahay. i welcomed her and chicka to the max kami. Tapos kinuwento niya na iiwanan na niya husband niya for her bf and her bf gave her a phone but nakita ng husband niya. Then she went home na (I gave her my pamasko sa anak niya). The next day, the 26th, nasa house nanaman siya, chicka uli. When she was to go home na eh nag-cr muna siya.

Tapos mga 11pm may nagtext sa other cp ko, number lang. sabi nasa ______ place daw siya ang hinihintay bf niya. "Hiniram" muna niya cp ko kase raw wala siyang cp. The nerve.

After my 4th inaanak, around 3 or 4 times pa akong niyayang mag-ninang pero tumanggi na ako.

Meron pa nga akong Tita, younger sister ng dad ko, kinukuha akong ninang ng anak niya. Hindi ako pumayag kase hindi kami close, I don't like her and her family (kase parasite sila) and ang sagwang tignan, Tita ko siya and Kumare at the same time.
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Re: NINANG ng Bayan!
« Reply #37 on: July 25, 2010, 02:38:11 AM »
hate ko talaga yung kuning ninang ng anak ng mga taong di ko naman ka-close. God knows how many blog rants i wrote just so i could vent out. tapos ang nakakainis pa, sa mother ko sila nagpapa-alam. ano ba yung ako mismo ang kausapin (para marinig din nila kung paano ako tumanggi haha). ang dating kasi parang treachery eh. hay kainis. :)

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« Reply #38 on: July 30, 2010, 10:43:15 PM »
kaya ako nung kumuha ako ng ninang i make sure na kakilala ko sila yung personality nila..close ko and alam kong they will be very concern on my son..ayoko ng basta basta lang kumuha ng nkakaangat sa buhay or para sikat..at pamparami yes i invite them but as a guest pero para maging bahagi at pumarte sa groth ng baby ko i make sure i made the best decision...
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« Reply #39 on: July 31, 2010, 12:23:12 AM »
bagay yata sa kin ang title na to kasi sobrang dami ko ring inaanak, mga anak ng friends, relatives, neighbors pero more than half eh dahil sa parents ko.  Madalas na apo ng mga kumare/kumpare nila eh magiging inaanak ng isa sa aming magkakapatid pero ako ang pinakamarami.  Most of the time kasi sa parents ko nagsasabi at umooo sila except dun sa mga friends ko at close relatives na sa akin talaga nagsabi.  To date nasa 60+ na sila, pero yung mga inaanak ko sa friends and relatives ko ang specific ko talagang binibilhan ng gift.  Pag hindi napuntahan ng xmas ang gift eh pinapadala ko. Yung iba generic gifts lang or pera.  Kaya dapat maaga talaga akong mag start ng xmas shopping.
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