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Re: Away-Bati.. how normal is it?
« Reply #20 on: October 15, 2010, 11:23:20 PM »
kami din, away - bati.. on and off..
dati, hindi kami natutulog ng may misunderstanding. pero lately, umaabot n hanggang umaga. un dati, im sure na normal lang. pero un ngayon, di ko na din alam.
nakakalungkot kasi ang dami na naming pinagdaanan.. almost 2 years na kami.

haizzz.. im so close to giving him up..  :'(

same here sis..:( so sad kasi parang ang dami na namin pinagdaanan then ngayon pa parang gigive-up na ang isa samin..

away-bati is normal..pero pag napapadalas na parang hindi na ata normal and hindi na healthy ang relationship...(my opinion)
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Re: Away-Bati.. how normal is it?
« Reply #21 on: October 18, 2010, 10:55:01 AM »
Noon halos hindi kami nagtatalo pero ngayon na matagal na kami madalas kami mag-argument even in smallest and dumbest thing.

Even simpleng mga posts and likes sa fb ko ng mga friends ko na lalaki papansinin nya. Although aaminin ko sa aming dalawa ako ang mabilis uminit ang ulo..  :(

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Re: Away-Bati.. how normal is it?
« Reply #22 on: October 18, 2010, 12:20:11 PM »

I think its normal as long as hindi naman kayo nag-aaway everyday.  Also basta walang physical na sakitan or talagang masasakit na salita.  Importante pa din kasi yung respect niyo sa isa't-isa kahit pa mainit na mga ulo niyo.
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Re: Away-Bati.. how normal is it?
« Reply #23 on: October 19, 2010, 02:02:38 PM »
i think its normal na away-bati kayo kasi your relationship consist of two different individuals, who have different beliefs, norms, religion, etc. natural lang na mag-clash kayo paminsan minsan kasi nga nag-aadjust kayo sa relationship nyo.

unhealthy din sa loob ng relationship yung di kayo nag-aaway, its either wala syang pakialam sa opinion mu or sya lang lage ang masusunod...

pero wag naman to the point na kahit maliit na bagay e kelangan nyong pag-awayan.. little discussion wont hurt sa relationship nyo basta make sure at the end of the day e maayos nyo problem nyo. :)
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Re: Away-Bati.. how normal is it?
« Reply #24 on: October 29, 2010, 09:34:11 PM »
away bati kami at least once every week, i was getting kind of worried so i asked my friend who i think is super reliable about relationships kasi she had been seeing her boyfriend for 4 years na. she told me it's normal daw if it lessens as time passes by. if nagwworsen, kelangan na ayusin. And depends din kasi if the reason is super major talaga yung kasalanan.

If it's always about another girl then it's not normal na. I had a friend who dated her ex for 5 years and all throughout nagaaway bati sila tapos another girl yung reason, they broke up for good nadin and after that breakup, she was glowing and looked so stress free. :)

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Re: Away-Bati.. how normal is it?
« Reply #25 on: November 09, 2010, 06:40:31 PM »
Since bago pa lang kami,normal na samin yung away-bati.Some of my friends told me that its normal,simula pa lang daw kasi kami,kaya kami kahit araw-araw may pagtatalo we make sure na at the end of day magkakabati/magkakaayos kami.And oh,yung mga realizations and lessons din after the fights,mahalaga din.Para di na maulit pa yung mga di dapat maulit.Nakakasawa kasi kung nagaaway kayo sa paulit ulit na dahilan di ba?

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Re: Away-Bati.. how normal is it?
« Reply #26 on: April 14, 2011, 04:18:55 PM »
Every month nag-aaway kami. Hahaha. Pero lately hindi na mashado :)

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Re: Away-Bati.. how normal is it?
« Reply #27 on: April 21, 2011, 06:11:17 AM »
lagi kami away-bati ni bf. matampuhin kasi ako. at super busy siya sa work. kapag ka napapansin kong hindi na niya ako napapansin naging hobby ko ang awayin siya sa napakaliit lang na bagay pero hindi ko naman pinapalaki. pero at the end of the day nagbabati kami para sweet ulit. minsan yung maliliit kasi lumalaki. kahit na super away kami never kami nagbbreak. minsan di lang magtetext the whole day pero si bf lagi nauuna mag sabi ng sorry. kahit na ako mali siya parin ang nagsosorry.  ;D ngayon medyo napapadalas ang away namin kasi malayo kami sa isa't isa. weekends lang kami magkita minsan hindi pa. pero pag magkikita naman kami sweet kami.  ;D yung away namin parang naging lambingan nalang hahaha.. :P kaya parang way nalang yun para maglambingan. depende din siguro sa pinagaawayan.
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Re: Away-Bati.. how normal is it?
« Reply #28 on: June 16, 2011, 07:51:34 AM »
i dont know e, depende siguro sa couple kung normal pa ba yun sa kanila. kami ng ex ko, for 6 years, [textspeak!] mga 500x na ang break namin. hahahaha! no joke. :) i mean, we started at a young age, as in 14 years old.. so up to now, i can't say na mature na talaga. away bati din kami. selos jan, selos dito. superrrr. tapos pag nagkabti, super sweet, pag nagkaaway, super major major away naman! hahaha.

pero right now, wala na ulit kami... and narerealize ko, nakakapagod. yung 6 year investment ko, iniisip ko kung itatapon ko na lang. though i love him, and im happy with him.. napapagod din naman ang tao sa ganyang set-up. :) siguro kung kayo, kayo talaga. wag ipagpilitan magkabati. :)
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Re: Away-Bati.. how normal is it?
« Reply #29 on: June 16, 2011, 07:29:15 PM »
yes. most of the time it's him being unnecessarily workaholic. halos hindi na kami magkita...hindi naman kami materyoso, we have enough to get by. I guess some men are just blinded by admiration by others and fame (...sort of) ::)

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Re: Away-Bati.. how normal is it?
« Reply #30 on: June 26, 2011, 03:33:24 PM »
bago pa lang kame ni bf. lagi ako gumagawa ng away pero hindi niya ko
pinapatulan. tinatawanan niya lang ako pag ganon. so natatawa na lang
din ako and nahihiya sa sarili ko hehe!

adjustment period pa kasi kame, and hindi pa masyado buo yung trust ko
kanya.

ok naman siguro mag away every now and then just to spice things up.
pero huwag naman everyday na parang sobra na talaga and hindi na kayo
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Re: Away-Bati.. how normal is it?
« Reply #31 on: July 19, 2011, 11:28:33 AM »
away bati is healthy in the relationship as long as hindi niyo naman gaanong sineseryoso ang mga bagay. pero kapag nakakasira na to sa inyong dalawa, ibang usapan na yun. :)
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Re: Away-Bati.. how normal is it?
« Reply #32 on: July 19, 2011, 12:31:15 PM »
as much as possible di kami nag aaway, we try to hirap kasi ng LDR tapos mag aaway pa, sa almost 3 months palang namin never pa kami ng away, ako nagtampo na a few times pero nothing too much to worry about, so for the record no arguments yet to date. ang maganda din sa LDR, haba ng pasensya grabe, and he l's a mature person as well kaya it really helped a lot

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Re: Away-Bati.. how normal is it?
« Reply #33 on: August 26, 2011, 09:03:16 PM »
normal lang na mag away at magtalo sa maliit na bagay .. kasi way din yan na malaman opinion ng bawat isa .. but make sure na at the end of the day e ayos na kayo as in solve na .. na matutulog kayo ng with goodnight at kiss pa .. pero yun ilang days ninyo paabutin ang pagaaway ninyo hindi na normal yun .. something wrong na sa relationships nyo .. pangit rin yun masyadong ma-pride .. hindi yun healthy sa isang relasyon .. kami ni bf we assure na give and take kami lagi .. na patas sa lahat ng bagay .. I admit ako madali uminit ulo at ako rin madalas mag simula ng away dahil sa may ginawa siya mali or hindi nagawa .. pag galit ako hindi sinasabyan ni bf .. pag tapos na ako saka sya mag explain with lambing .. kaya ok agad .. mababaw din kasi kaligayahan ko .. kaya kahit simpleng pambobola mawawala na inis ko .. kun aminado naman ako sa self ko na mali ako nagsosorry din agad ako ..

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Re: Away-Bati.. how normal is it?
« Reply #34 on: September 04, 2011, 03:19:52 PM »
halos araw-araw kaming magaway ni bf, pero we make sure na at the end of the day magkabati na kami.. kasi pinagusapan na namin dati na ayaw nya yung matutulog kami na magkaaway..  ;D

minsan sa loob ng isang araw ilang beses din kaming nagaaway pero after ilang minutes bati na din kami ulit.. para lang kaming mga bata na away bati kasi parehas kaming mataas ang ego pero ok lang kasi yun na din halos yung nagpatibay sa relationship namin.. ;)

6 years na kami together and once ko pa lang siyang nasaktan physically pero tinanggap lang nya kasi alam nya na fault nya talaga yun tapos ilang days nya akong sinusuyo at nagsosorry sa nangyari hanggang sa napagkasunduan na lang namin na huwag na lang ibalik yung mga ganoong klaseng past.. and never ko pang naexperience na sinaktan nya ako physically.. at wala ding cool-off or break-up na naganap sa amin..  ;D
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Re: Away-Bati.. how normal is it?
« Reply #35 on: September 04, 2011, 07:48:15 PM »
nung bago pa kami. sobrang daming away. sya ang mejo nahirapan. haha! pasaway daw kasi ko. muntik na din kami magbreak nun, di lang ako pumayag. haha. syempre adjustment stage, dun nyo pa lang nalalaman kung ano ang ayaw ng bawat isa. dumating nga kami sa point na maglilista kami ng rules o tanggalin na lang yun para walang gulo. pero ngayon na medyo matagal na din kami ako na ang nangaaway. depende sa saltik ko. minsan kasi nagagalit ako pag mejo nakakalimutan na nya ko dahil busy sya. o kaya late dumating e minsan na nga lang kami magkita, mga ganung klaseng away na lang. nangyayare na lang kapag parang di ko mafeel love nya. hehe. pero ayun at the end mukang ansama ko pa kesyo wala naman daw xang ginawang masama. pero in fairness pag nagaway kami, love na love nya ulit ako, kabaliktaran ko, ako parang ayaw ko na sya i-love! kaso di ko matiis kasi yung gusto ko lambingin lang naman ako, e ayan na e. di ko na matiis tuloy!

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Re: Away-Bati.. how normal is it?
« Reply #36 on: September 18, 2011, 12:59:07 AM »
I think it's normal. Except for the silly things you fight for over and over again. It shouldn't be that way. Ok lang naman "siguro" mag away-bati if ang inaawayan nyo hindi pa ulit-ulit. :3

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Re: Away-Bati.. how normal is it?
« Reply #37 on: September 18, 2011, 07:22:50 PM »
Aso't pusa din kami ni BF, we're both opinionated but habang tumatagal, mas lalo kami natututo how to back down and how to adjust sa ugali ng isa't isa. There are some issues na napagaawayan din namin ng paulit ulit, di naman kasi maiiwasan yun, pero hindi na umaabot sa point na nagkaka-tiisan kami na wag magusap overnight gaya nung bago pa lang kami. Lately di narin kami masyado nagaaway, simpleng tampuhan lang na okay narin naman wala pang 5 minutes. LOL!
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Re: Away-Bati.. how normal is it?
« Reply #38 on: September 18, 2011, 11:33:19 PM »
away bati kami dahil sa small things lang..doesn't even last for a day kasi we can't stand fighting/not talking to one another.. 8 years na kami.. :D
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Re: Away-Bati.. how normal is it?
« Reply #39 on: April 29, 2012, 09:19:21 PM »
Wala naman sa dalas yun sis, ang mahalaga, at the end of the day magkakabati na kayo. Never ever sleep na hindi naaayos ang away nyo. Titibay kayo, i swear. ;)


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