PRIVACY - do you still respect each others privacy kahit kasal na kayo?

[lush]

We don't check each other's email, Facebook account, phone etc. But we use the same password file so we can access each other's accounts. Ok lang naman, we haven't had any problems so far.

[kreez]

hindi sa amin naging issue ni hubby toh, from the very start lahat ng passwords, messages etc etc whether cp, internet accounts pareho namin alam passwords ng isa't isa

sya pa nga madalas magopen ng FB ko kasi walang FB games sa office sya meron so sya nagmamaintain ng mga nilalaro kong games 

[liyapot]

privacy with cellphones? wallet?? emails?
wala din kaming issue sa ganun..
minsan naglolokohan kami.. na nagtataguan ng phone..at nakikipag agawan ng phone pero game lang sa amin yun.
i trust him and he trusts me.. maski noong bf/gf pa lang kami walang isyu sa amin pagdating sa privacy and trust.
emails nya? minsan wa akong care.. i can hardly read my emails na nga eh..pag aksayahan ko pa ng panahon ang emails nya h

[rianne_mallows]

wala kaming privacy .. ok naman kami.. never nagkaissue..

[kookyz0505]

may ask lang po ako masama bang tignan wallet ng hubby mo?

[rianne_mallows]

^sis, depende kasi sa tao.. sa amin ni h2b ok lang.. maraming couple din namang ayaw nila pinakikialaman personal stuff nila

[Juri]

^ with wallet ok lang sa amin. well we dont put secrets in our wallet hehe.
 
sa mga emails at cp lang medyo alangan kasi nga it involves other people. 

pero [textspeak!] iba nga i heard ayaw pagalaw wallet nila. dahil sa may tinatago silang pera ? o pic? hehe

[Amphitrite]

Oo naman kahit kaya namin buksan ang email, FB, cellphone ng isa't-isa. Nagpapa-alam pa rin kami.

[garamd]

hindi na issue sa amin ito... sa mag-asawa kasi dapat lang pinag-uusapan ang lahat. ano yung mga expectations at wants ng bawat isa para may respeto. e kami pareho naming isinuko ang privacy sa isa't-isa.  kaya ayun share kami ng password at minsan palitan ng phone. 

[kikay143forever]

yes, we have our own privacy. it's not that we're obliged not to open each others email, fb, cellphones, or wallets but di lang namin feel na pakialaman eventhough we have the same universal passwords sa mga accounts namin. kahit na may ka-chat ang hubz ko, may privacy din cya. di ako naninilip kng sino ka-chat na and same with him too.

[happynes]

yes of course. i do check his cellphone thought sometimes but i do it discreetly

[koselosa]

gumawa ako ng online store tapos add ko yung account ni hubby tapos tanong ko ano password nya sa fb para accept ko yung invitation ng online store namin. in a way nakiki-usyuso sa happenings sa fb nya...lol

[hersmart4ever]

Binibigyan pa rin namin ng right to privacy ang isa't-isa like we don't make pakialam each other cell phones, email, etc.

[kettlekorn28]

Although he doesn't mind me tinkering his phone anytime I want, pag may nagtext naman sa kanya eh di ko agad binubuksan. Nagsasabi pa rin naman ako sa kanya para naman di nya ma-feel na wala akong respeto sa kanya and vice versa.

Sa email, I know his password sa FB, YM, etc. Sya naman, di nya ako pinapakialaman. 

[bunchcup]

individual privacy? ewan ko. pero privacy as couple oo.

kasi para sakin, from the day we got married, we decided to become ONE. ako at sya ay iisa. ang email nya email ko, ang cp nya cp ko. yes, i do check his emails every now and then pati cp nya. ginagawa ko yun dahil trip ko lang. wala naman sa kanya yun. i don't think na kelangan ng privacy unless there's something that you don't wanna let your partner know. at isa pa, i don't think din that it's a form of disrespecting him, i think we're just too comfortable or confident with each other kaya it's not an issue between us. dati nung mag jowa palang kami, trip namin na mag agawan ng cp pag may nagtext, pero ngayon dedma na lang, pag may nagtext tinatawag ko sya para basahin yun tas wala na ko pake.

[aquacharly]

IF we limit the application of Privacy and Respect to the CPs, FB and Emails -- pwes, wala kaming Privacy, wala kaming Respect for each other.  haha

We have been through a Dark Phase.. and he has brought Our Family to the brink of  No Return, Take No Hostages... hehe...  since he is a Changed Man, who has gone into Real Remorse and Reform... he also changed his attitude to his CP control... so he freely hands me his CP (pero ako, I don't do that).   

E-mail.. we 2 know the other's passwords and we come and go, whenever.. coz it saves time on having to make cuento about matters of common interest or concern.

FB -- he has no such thing.  I maintain 1 for our family.   More for sharing our lives with our families.  Not for public presentation/advertising for solicitations/monkey business, nor for "fishing"... nor putting ourselves in harm's way.  hehe

So there, No Privacy and No Respect.

Hmmmm but we have Privacy and Respect with regards to our wallets (and my bags);  and my secret accounts  (he knows I have these but has konti konti details thereof.  More impt:  we both know he better not have any).

[reese**]

our marriage was once very rocky due to his infidelity, and during those times  i invaded his privacy - check his cp, email, etc. even his wallet!

but after i was able to forgive and move on (it took time!), i learned to trust him and i realized that i can give his privacy back. in fact i got tired na din na magpaka dudera. plus, i dont like him checking my emails or even my cp kahit na puro friends ko lang naman laman at walang monkey business akong ginagawa. so now, we do respect each others privacy except i know his email pass and he lets me check his cp, but i dont do it anymore.

[greenpease05]

Yes we do respect each others privacy. We dont know each others FB and email account.

He goes out plays golf with his friends somewhere out of the country and I also go out with my friends. We just update each other ano na nangyayari. or kung pauwi na kami. or kung okay ang game nya and that he's having a drink with friends.

Wala namang kaso sa min ang mga ganito. We are both mature enough to know our limitations naman.

 

[december]

dati di ko pinakikialaman cp nya.  pero one time pinacharge nya sakin cp nya then may nagtext, accidentaly na-open ko,  babae ngtext nagta-thank you sa dinner daw.  nagulat ako kaya binutingting ko sent items nya so ayun huli sya.  i contronted him, at sya pa ang galit kasi pinakialaman ko daw cp nya, wala na daw syang privacy.  since then check ko na cp nya discreetly. one tine nahuli nya ako reading his text messages, aba nagwala sya at sabi maghihiwalay kami dahil sa ginagawa kung pakikialam ng cp nya.,  so the more na nagsususpetsa ako . 

tama ba mga sis na itigil ko ang pkikialam ng cp nya sa gayung alam ko naman na may tinatago sya?

[hersmart4ever]

^ Accident naman na nakita mo yun e. OK lang if ituloy mo to find out the deeper things or you can just ask your partner about it. Kasi I doubt na matahimik din ang isip mo hangga't hindi mo nalalaman what that dinner is all about.