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Re: ano ba ang karapatan ng isang wife sa pera ng husband?
« Reply #20 on: March 31, 2010, 02:50:08 AM »
I don't really know how to define your right but definitely wife ang my pinaka-unang right sa money ng husband. Now lang ako naka-encounter na sa kapatid nagbibigay ng sweldo at dun lang humihingi ang asawa. For me, that's not right at all pero dapat husband mo ang umayos nyan.
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Re: ano ba ang karapatan ng isang wife sa pera ng husband?
« Reply #21 on: March 31, 2010, 09:31:59 AM »
Legally since the day you two got married, you co-own everything that is legally under his name. Which includes salaries he has already drawn, proceeds of investments, and properties. Kung karapatan lang ang paguusapan, over sa kapatid niya at kahit mga magulang pa, ang Asawa ang mas may karapatan na mag manage, humawak, at makialam sa perang kinikita ng asawa niya. And the same rule applies to the wife's earnings, properties and investments too.

Tama si Twelvth Goddess. To avoid conflicts, dapat asawa mo ang mag ayos niyan. So I suggest you talk to him about it. Baka naman kasi naka sanayan lang niya yung ganoong set-up most especially since dati naman kasi you have your own source of finances.
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Re: ano ba ang karapatan ng isang wife sa pera ng husband?
« Reply #22 on: March 31, 2010, 09:42:06 AM »
talk to your husband. tell him na mag-asawa na kayo kaya dapat kayong 2 ang hahawak ng finances nyo.

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Re: ano ba ang karapatan ng isang wife sa pera ng husband?
« Reply #23 on: March 31, 2010, 10:17:20 AM »
Grabe naman ang asawa mo sis...nakaka offend yan pag ako....

Kahit saan tingnan ikaw ang may mas karapatan sa pera niya, hindi kapatid.....kung ganyan ang set up sabihin  mo sa kanya kapatid na nalang niya asawahin niya duh :o

Talk to your husband, ask him why the set up must be like this...
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Re: ano ba ang karapatan ng isang wife sa pera ng husband?
« Reply #24 on: March 31, 2010, 02:24:23 PM »
asan na si thread starter?

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Re: ano ba ang karapatan ng isang wife sa pera ng husband?
« Reply #25 on: March 31, 2010, 02:27:23 PM »
i don't think I can live with that set-up.  :(

As with what the others have pointed out, essentially, yung wife ang may karapatan.

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Re: ano ba ang karapatan ng isang wife sa pera ng husband?
« Reply #26 on: March 31, 2010, 06:18:03 PM »
wow medyo kakaiba yang setup niyo ah. like what the other sisses said, meron ka karapatan sa pera ng asawa mo. meron ba kayong joint account? or baka sila ng kapatid niya ang meron? ??? samen kase my husband gives me his salary minus his regular allowance. i budget both our earnings tapos pinapakita ko sa kanya kung san napunta yung pera namin. i know mahirap usapan yung pera, pero you should really talk to him regarding that.
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Re: ano ba ang karapatan ng isang wife sa pera ng husband?
« Reply #27 on: March 31, 2010, 06:43:57 PM »
set up namin noon sa mom nya sya nag bibigay ng budget kasi don kami nakatira..then nung bumukod na kami, he gives me budget pero di ko alam talaga how much is he earning..
pero ngayon since ofw na sya.. he send us 85% of his income then 15% sa kanya... free naman lahat don so the 15% is only for his own pocket money nalang...
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Re: ano ba ang karapatan ng isang wife sa pera ng husband?
« Reply #28 on: March 31, 2010, 06:49:30 PM »
di ko kc alam ang karapatan ko pagdating sa pera ng asawa ko,ngaun kc wala akong trabaho,pinagresign nya ako, eh kc ang humawak ng sinasahod nya ang kapatid nya.and kung kelangan ko ng pera, pinapadala n [textspeak!] ng kapatid nya sa account ko..kelangan ko bang pumayag sa ganyang sistema?

sis matanong ko lang sis kasal ba kayo?i mean legally? kasi if no.. baka isa sa reason yon.. 2nd)meron ba kayong anak? kasi if meron napaka insensitive naman ng husband mo para ganyan ang gawin na set-up..
3rd- nagkaron kana ba bad record sa hubby mo re money?if yes posible isa din yon na reason..
better if you can talk to him.. or sa inlaws mo na matino ang utak.. or better yet, impose mo karapatan mo over his earnings..
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Re: ano ba ang karapatan ng isang wife sa pera ng husband?
« Reply #29 on: March 31, 2010, 08:20:49 PM »
oo nga dapat si misis nahawak ng sweldo ni mister, grabe naman bakit sa kapatid pa pinahahawakan sweldo, di ba marunong mag budget si misis? o walang tiwala si mister na humawak ng pera si misis o baka naman nasusulsulan ng kapatid sinisiraan si misis kay mister, hays ang hirap naman nyan....
pero asawa ko monthly budget lang binibigay nya sakin :( saktong sakto lang hay minsan kulang pa kakainis nga e, porket sya lang may work at wala ako work, lagi na nga ako nag rereklamo sa kanya at pinakita ko pa yung lista ng budget monthly, ni hindi nga ako makabili man lang  ng something para sa sarili ko yung puro necessities lang talaga, minsan mom or dad ko pa nagbibigay sakin. in a way parang di rin tama

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Re: ano ba ang karapatan ng isang wife sa pera ng husband?
« Reply #30 on: March 31, 2010, 11:29:26 PM »
 Asan na si TS ....

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Re: ano ba ang karapatan ng isang wife sa pera ng husband?
« Reply #31 on: March 31, 2010, 11:35:04 PM »
So if live in with kid, how does it usually work? Technically your not married so you don't have any right?  :)

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Re: ano ba ang karapatan ng isang wife sa pera ng husband?
« Reply #32 on: April 01, 2010, 06:40:29 AM »
^pagiging magasawa nasa papel lang yan. wala naman kayong pinagkaiba sa magasawa na kasal lalo na kung may anak din kayo. kulang lang sa inyo ay papel. kung sa tingin mo, ikaw dapat ang humawak ng pera ninyo dahil ikaw naman ang nagaasikaso ng lahat ng bayarin sa haus at iba pang everyday needs pati savings, i think you have all the right to take control of the money. depende kasi yan sa kung paano i-view ng partner mo ang situation ninyo. if he is really serious with you then he'll be confident enough to trust you with his money. kung sigurista siya na baka magkahiwalay kayo, hindi niya ibibigay ang pera niya.
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Re: ano ba ang karapatan ng isang wife sa pera ng husband?
« Reply #33 on: April 03, 2010, 10:27:34 PM »
^pagiging magasawa nasa papel lang yan. wala naman kayong pinagkaiba sa magasawa na kasal lalo na kung may anak din kayo. kulang lang sa inyo ay papel. kung sa tingin mo, ikaw dapat ang humawak ng pera ninyo dahil ikaw naman ang nagaasikaso ng lahat ng bayarin sa haus at iba pang everyday needs pati savings, i think you have all the right to take control of the money. depende kasi yan sa kung paano i-view ng partner mo ang situation ninyo. if he is really serious with you then he'll be confident enough to trust you with his money. kung sigurista siya na baka magkahiwalay kayo, hindi niya ibibigay ang pera niya.

i love your answer sis. hindi ko lang siguro kaya "magdemand" na ibigay nya or atleast part ng sweldo nya sakin kasi nga hindi kami kasal. :-\

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Re: ano ba ang karapatan ng isang wife sa pera ng husband?
« Reply #34 on: April 03, 2010, 10:34:47 PM »
IMO sis, since mag-asawa kayo, I think the money should be revolving around you and your husband.. Siguro during those times that you were not married yet, it's acceptable that the sibling holds the money.. but now you're married and accdg. to you, pinag-resign ka nya sa work mo, dapat siguro sa'yo na sina-submit ni hubby ang money to use for things like budgeting..

i agree. pinag-resign ka nya. kaya dapat tulungan ka niya financially, dahil siya naman pala ang reason kung bakit wala ka nang trabaho. at  saka, asawa ka nya no? one flesh na kayo. hindi siya married sa kapatid nya, sayo siya nagpakasal, so sayo nya dapat i-share yung pera nya.

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Re: ano ba ang karapatan ng isang wife sa pera ng husband?
« Reply #35 on: April 04, 2010, 04:55:08 PM »
Since hindi ka Legal na Asawa, siguro we can say that TAMA rin naman na ikaw ang humawak ng pera ninyo. Since supposedly partners kayo. Yan ay kung Tama lang naman ang paguusapan. Pero, hindi rin naman Mali na sa iba niya ipahawak. Everything will depend on his reason for doing so.

Since KARAPATAN yung tinanong mo at the start of the Thread, I say, at this point in your relationship we can't fairly say that you have the RIGHT to anything he owns, earns, and saves. The same thing applies to your own earnings. In fact, the absence of a legally binding commitment scratches off any Obligations on either your side. Thus, the absence of a clear-cut, well defined RIGHT(s) on your part.

Expecting the World to treat you fairly just because you are a good person is a lot like expecting a Bull not to Charge just because you're vegetarian.

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Re: ano ba ang karapatan ng isang wife sa pera ng husband?
« Reply #36 on: April 07, 2010, 04:12:43 AM »
since he asked you to quit your job, dapat napag-usapan nyo na rin ang magiging setup financially. hindi pwedeng ganyan. ano ka ba palamuti?

sabi nga nila: ang pera ni mister ay pera ni misis at ang pera ni misis ay pera ni misis. - dahil nga babae ang nagbabudget.

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Re: ano ba ang karapatan ng isang wife sa pera ng husband?
« Reply #37 on: April 07, 2010, 05:43:58 AM »
i love your answer sis. hindi ko lang siguro kaya "magdemand" na ibigay nya or atleast part ng sweldo nya sakin kasi nga hindi kami kasal. :-\

sis, may anak kayo. at least man lang panggastos sa bahay at sa bata dapat binibigay niya sa iyo or at least part ng salary niya inaabot niya for those needs lalo kung nakatira kayo sa isang bubong. yung takot mo sis nasa isip mo lang yan. hanggat hindi ka nagsasalita, hindi rin siya gagawa ng move para mag-abot sa iyo ng pera. takutan lang yan :)
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Re: ano ba ang karapatan ng isang wife sa pera ng husband?
« Reply #38 on: April 07, 2010, 08:27:30 PM »
ano ba ang karapatan ng isang wife sa pera ng husband?


Lahat karapatan natin sis bilang asawa..kaya responsibilidad natin kung paano i-handle yun.
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Re: ano ba ang karapatan ng isang wife sa pera ng husband?
« Reply #39 on: April 08, 2010, 02:13:54 AM »
So if live in with kid, how does it usually work? Technically your not married so you don't have any right?  :)

I Think naman sis, if LIVE IN man basta binata ang guy, tho not acceptable parin sa society natin yan pero pwede narin siguro.. BUT if live in at hiwalay lang si guy or very much married... ibang usapan yon..
pero since sa case ni ms thread starter eh meron sila anak, i think sana naman meron naman din kahit paano fund para in case of emmergency eh meron madudukot.. esp kung magkaproblema anak nila...
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