Author Topic: bakit may mga taong mahilig magbully? (Read 8510 times)

shan_chai · « **on:** March 13, 2010, 09:44:49 am »

ano ba ang reason bakit may mga taong mahilig mag bully? may benefits ba sila pag ginawa nila yun kahit marami naiinis sa kanila?post your comments sa thread.

antagonist · « **Reply #1 on:** March 13, 2010, 10:06:36 am »

ask kris

teehee!!!

our current manager is like that. full of discrimination cr@p! pag di ka agree sa mga senseless na pinagsasasabi nya, you're in big trouble. sasabihan ka pang unprofessional. i think he does that to feel superior. obobs kasi kung tutuusin. he doesn't manage the company well so his way of dealing with it is to bully. we tried to tell the big boss about it before, he listened naman but no justice, andyan parin ang jerk manager. mabait kasi sya pag the big boss is around.

i know why he's a bully. his wife have a high position in one of the biggest company in the country, tapos sya small time manager lang ng isang company of less that 20 people. he drives a bmw pero sa wife nya yun. so i think insecure ang lolo. he bully to feel that people around him are his robots. power tripping. people in the office have no other way but to deal with this @ssh*le kasi we NEED our job.

darating din ang araw. konti nalang. napupuno na ang salop...

loveavenue · « **Reply #2 on:** March 14, 2010, 04:58:26 pm »

sila yung mga taong insecure deep inside, kaya nambu-bully sila to feel "big" and "important" lalo na pag ang pinipili nilang i-bully ay yung taong sa tingin nila ay "weak" or kayang-kaya nila.

pwede rin naman mahilig mambully dahil they want to feel power. they feel satisfied kapag may napapa-iyak sila or napapahiyang ibang tao. again, insecurity ang root cause.

RRRR77 · « **Reply #3 on:** March 14, 2010, 07:28:38 pm »

i am being bully here in the internet. people i knew through forums. some i never even met.

with all sincerity, i wonder why they're doing this. why they're following me and saying bad things against me while (honestly) i'm not doing anything against them.

this deeply saddens me but there's nothing i can do about it. i don't like it to ruin my day. so i just ignore them and use the "block" features in the sites.

gab54 · « **Reply #4 on:** March 14, 2010, 07:31:36 pm »

kaya nam bubully, kasi...
insecure
unhappy
k.s.p.
mayabang
sila rin nabubully ng mas bully pa sa kanila

and i agree w/ the earlier post, kris is a bully... seen it too many times

xtine · « **Reply #5 on:** March 14, 2010, 07:49:02 pm »

I sometimes do bully people lalo na pag nakakairita. I do have an officemate who doesn't respect women. Sa irita ko, I bully him kasi I don't like his attitude. I don't like him at all.

I was bullied when I was in HS. Honestly, I was all emotional back then due to adolescent hormones siguro. It was a traumatic experience and I know how hard it is to become the bully's target. But when I assessed myself based on what I am right now, its because I let her affect my emotions. Nagpapadala ako and I let myself be depressed kasi hinahayaan kong bumaba ang self esteem ko.

shatygabrielle · « **Reply #6 on:** June 28, 2011, 05:59:52 pm »

insecurity and to cover up their shortcomings

17arci · « **Reply #7 on:** June 28, 2011, 06:02:53 pm »

^ i so agree.

nakakalungkot lang, kadalasan matanda pa yung nambubully sa mga bata.
dahil siguro insecure sya na ka-deal nya in the office ay mas bata sa kanya.

jenwei · « **Reply #8 on:** June 28, 2011, 06:14:02 pm »

bec. of insecurity, jealousy

kirara888 · « **Reply #9 on:** June 28, 2011, 06:18:53 pm »

These bullies had a really BAD childhood.

foxygirlash · « **Reply #10 on:** June 28, 2011, 06:55:45 pm »

i agree, bullies are just insecure.

hot@pink · « **Reply #11 on:** June 28, 2011, 07:10:37 pm »

same here.. 100% agree... im one of the senior with our company.. i dont want to set boundaries with new employees or with my team.. one of my team members super bully in a way that i think she doesn't respect me anymore.. ayaw ko lang maging bastos to tell her im her superior.. but i sent an email to her then ask why she is always irritated with me.. and also told her i want her to respect me.. she just replied why? napaiyak na lang ako.. sabi ko sa kanya hindi lahat ng time joke.. so when im asking question that is relevant and with sense sana she can answer it in a nice way... for a week hindi ko pa din kinakausap.. nahirap din kapag hawak mo yung tao.. ayaw ko naman maging unprof sa kanya...

kirara888 · « **Reply #12 on:** June 28, 2011, 07:29:35 pm »

^Naku sis, you have the right to do that. I mean, you have to remind her that you're her superior. She has to respect you. Hindi ka magiging bastos kasi it's a fact. Pag naulit, you might wanna issue a corrective action/memo to her.

twelvth_goddess · « **Reply #13 on:** June 28, 2011, 10:35:05 pm »

Iba-iba ang klase ng bullies pero one thing that's common among ALL of them is their underlying INSECURITY kaya they feel the need to put people down.

miss resilient · « **Reply #14 on:** July 12, 2011, 01:36:01 pm »

^ganon? i guess so..dami dito niyan..

lellikellymom · « **Reply #15 on:** July 12, 2011, 01:45:46 pm »

Dahil insecure sila!

snowflakes · « **Reply #16 on:** July 22, 2011, 09:45:54 am »

Quote from: loveavenue on March 14, 2010, 04:58:26 pm

sila yung mga taong insecure deep inside, kaya nambu-bully sila to feel "big" and "important" lalo na pag ang pinipili nilang i-bully ay yung taong sa tingin nila ay "weak" or kayang-kaya nila.

pwede rin naman mahilig mambully dahil they want to feel power. they feel satisfied kapag may napapa-iyak sila or napapahiyang ibang tao. again, insecurity ang root cause.

i totally agree! biktima ako ng binubully. pero isang tao lang nakagawa sakin nyan at di ko rin alam bakit di ko sha pinatulan sa kabila ng pang aalipusta nya sa buo kong pagkatao. ang masakit dun, kahit di totoo mga sinabi nya sa akin at sa ibang tao tungkol sakin, di ko makalimutan yun at hanggang ngayon naaalala ko pa rin. dahil don napupuno ng galit ang puso ko sa kanya.

serendipity02 · « **Reply #17 on:** July 22, 2011, 10:03:43 am »

kasi mga papansin sila!!!hahahha!

yung TL ko isa yan sa mga cause ng termination nya, ang hilig nya kasi mambully

airish_2 · « **Reply #18 on:** August 12, 2011, 11:02:18 am »

haha.. katuwa ganun din sasabihin ko usually insecure sila dun lang sila nakakaramdam ng superiority ang dami kong kilalang ganyan nakakatawa silang tignan ngayon mga immature. nabubuhay sila sa insecurity every minute of their life.

FayeP · « **Reply #19 on:** August 12, 2011, 08:12:18 pm »

bakit may mga taong mahilig magbully?

ans: kasi once in their lives nabully din sila kaya gumaganti??? pero most of the time mga bullies may insecurities sa katawan..kaya ito un way nila para maka-cope or pagtakpan un mga insecurities na un...

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