Author Topic: Would you fall for someone younger? (Read 17859 times)

feisty_one · « **Reply #40 on:** May 10, 2010, 10:59:05 pm »

During my younger days,taboo sa kin [textspeak!] mga younger guyz. But now that I'm older, mas nakakasundo ko na younger men, maybe because they're not so full of themselves.

junetwentythree · « **Reply #41 on:** May 11, 2010, 07:35:27 am »

@amber_81: The problem doesn't seem to be your younger man, rather it's your insecurity. Even if he was your age or older than you, don't you think you might have the same issue?

If he says he likes you, then he likes you. No ifs or buts about it. If the other girls interested him, wouldn't you think he wouldn't even bother spending time with you?

One cannot simply generalize that "age ain't nothing but a number." I think it varies in every relationship and each individual in that relationship. The ability to be mature, sensible and grounded about issues that may arise in a relationship is the key to any successful relationship. If you both possess this then I don't see the problem.

My man is 8 years younger than me and I tell you 99.9% of the time I don't even feel like I'm older. To us it's trivial, for passport purposes, that doesn't affect the way in which we treat each other. And for us, it just works. It's all about perspective.

fallen_@ngeL · « **Reply #42 on:** May 11, 2010, 01:23:38 pm »

i like [textspeak!] u said sis junetwentythree

very well said sis!

Quote from: iYaMoTo on May 09, 2010, 09:09:58 pm

ayos yan sis.. may thrill.. sarap!

wahaha ang kulet mo sis iyamoto magkatukayo pa tayo, tawag sakin friends ko "iyah"

ayun nga something new ito sa akin..
keber sa mga may crush sa kanya! mainggit silang lahat!! hahaha

cuppiecakses · « **Reply #43 on:** May 11, 2010, 02:04:43 pm »

nope. iniisip ko ang future. i have issues when it comes to age.
gusto ko mas matanda sakin ng 5 to 15 years. gusto ko when i hit 40s, gurang na asawa ko.. pero hot pa din ang katawan ko at um-oo parin ako sa bawat kalabit ng asawa ko.

im saying na when women hit 50s, umaayaw na yan sa mga kalabit ng asawa thereby causing their partners na maghanap ng mas bata at mas less kulubot ang balat (mukhang yummy).

im thinking na when i hit 50s lalo na pag 60s, tapos mas bata ang asawa ko, nakakapraning kapag kulubot na ko at mukhang yucky na ko. as we know, life of men begins at 40s. mas active sila when they age. and women, "deteriorate" and "decompose".

meron akong acquaintances na mga men na mas bata sa asawa, and sabi ng isang nakausap kong lalaki na early 50s at ang asawa niya late 50s at may mga 6 anak na, kadiri na daw itsura ng asawa nya kaya naghahanap siya ng mas bata - mas less kulubot.

meron naman ako nakilala na mas matanda yung guy ng 20 years kaysa sa asawa, halos maloloka un guy kapag wala sa paningin nya yung asawa niya.

i really think ang issue ko dito is yung appearance natin as we age.

sa ngayon, di ko makasundo ang mas bata sakin lalaki eh. i label them as bolero (which is proven na din by me), at hindi pa sila sure sa mga gusto nila. dreamers din, halos kulang sa gawa. puro pangarap lang.

i've been with older men, at sinasabi sakin na ang ugali at dreams nila when it comes to love nung bata sila were nothing from what they have now. natatawa lang sila sa mga pinaggagawa nila noong kabataan days nila.

gusto ko kasi mas established na yung lalaki kaysa sakin. gusto ko alam na ng lalaki ang gusto niya. at madaling kausap.

pero di ko rin masabi... iba kasi ang power of love.

sa mga nababasa ko naman ngayon, ok naman sila. pero saken talaga, NO. hahahahahahahahhaahaha sana wag ako mag fall sa mas bata. hahahahhahaahaha!

sun_spiced · « **Reply #44 on:** May 11, 2010, 02:19:47 pm »

i did already, he's 2 years younger so age gap wasn't that big of a deal. we only dated for a year though, he was fun but we both knew the relationship wasn't going anywhere

iYaMoTo · « **Reply #45 on:** May 11, 2010, 03:59:09 pm »

Quote from: fallen_@ngeL on May 11, 2010, 01:23:38 pm

i like [textspeak!] u said sis junetwentythree very well said sis!

wahaha ang kulet mo sis iyamoto magkatukayo pa tayo, tawag sakin friends ko "iyah"
ayun nga something new ito sa akin..
keber sa mga may crush sa kanya! mainggit silang lahat!! LOL

oo sis fallen pag may crush kay boyfriend keber lang pero pag inaway kana sabihin mo na lang "Ang baho ng bunganga mo, kumain ka ng bubog" sis go lang ng go kay boyfriend para masarap este masaya.

Poleng · « **Reply #46 on:** May 11, 2010, 04:53:58 pm »

Quote from: iYaMoTo on May 10, 2010, 02:55:45 pm

pero sis poleng gusto mo sya? pag gusto mo sya go lang ng go hayaan mo na yang mga naiisip mo pag di nag work out edi balik ulit sa dati..

idk sis, of all the guys i've met, theres something about him that i can't quite put my finger on. and the way he draws me into liking him, sobrang ang galing. guys would go for the killer line, the bad boy effect or the mysterious aura, pero sa kanya hindi.
when he says something, it kinda sinks in. may blow yung bawat opinion/idea nya. i don't think he's mature, i just that think na he's witty and straight forward. most guys would be so malandi towards me, pero sya, when he says sweet stuff, sobrang rare at sobrang nagpapawis talaga ako. next thing i knew, the kid grew on me.

kakainis sya. napaka sneaky nya. walang hook, line, sinker eh!

but still, i keep telling him that i don't want to try to be in a relationship with him, kasi i strongly believe that he's better off as a friend.

oh goodness, i don't want to know what kind of guy he is when in a relationship. lets not get into that. i might start nose bleeding.

btw, he's 18 and i'm 23.

iYaMoTo · « **Reply #47 on:** May 11, 2010, 11:05:05 pm »

idk sis, of all the guys i've met, theres something about him that i can't quite put my finger on. and the way he draws me into liking him, sobrang ang galing. guys would go for the killer line, the bad boy effect or the mysterious aura, pero sa kanya hindi.
when he says something, it kinda sinks in. may blow yung bawat opinion/idea nya. i don't think he's mature, i just that think na he's witty and straight forward. most guys would be so malandi towards me, pero sya, when he says sweet stuff, sobrang rare at sobrang nagpapawis talaga ako. next thing i knew, the kid grew on me.

kakainis sya. napaka sneaky nya. walang hook, line, sinker eh!

but still, i keep telling him that i don't want to try to be in a relationship with him, kasi i strongly believe that he's better off as a friend.

oh goodness, i don't want to know what kind of guy he is when in a relationship. lets not get into that. i might start nose bleeding.

btw, he's 18 and i'm 23.

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sis kakakilig, saraaapp. go na kasi sis, ok lang yan kahit isa lang. try mo lang.. bahala ka ikaw din mamaya mo ma-fall kana sa kanya ng sobra tapos pag gusto mo na sya maging boyfriend may iba na siya ayon wala na.. mawawala na yung kilig-kilig mo diyan. sige na isa lang. pag hindi masaya sabihin mo friend na lang ulit kayo.. sige na sis tapos kwentuhan mo ko ah.. hihi gusto ko yung mga ganyan eh.. ayoko ikwento yung about samin ni boyfriend kasi nakakakilig din eh maya mo sabihin nung makabasa ang landi ko. LOL

^kaye^ · « **Reply #48 on:** May 12, 2010, 08:08:21 am »

All the men I've dated are either my age or a few years older. But that doesn't mean that I'm not open to meeting someone younger. If I like the guy, I don't think age is a factor - except if we are talking about a fifty-year age difference, in which case, no, thank you.

Poleng · « **Reply #49 on:** May 12, 2010, 10:37:37 am »

Quote from: iYaMoTo on May 11, 2010, 11:05:05 pm

idk sis, of all the guys i've met, theres something about him that i can't quite put my finger on. and the way he draws me into liking him, sobrang ang galing. guys would go for the killer line, the bad boy effect or the mysterious aura, pero sa kanya hindi.
when he says something, it kinda sinks in. may blow yung bawat opinion/idea nya. i don't think he's mature, i just that think na he's witty and straight forward. most guys would be so malandi towards me, pero sya, when he says sweet stuff, sobrang rare at sobrang nagpapawis talaga ako. next thing i knew, the kid grew on me.

kakainis sya. napaka sneaky nya. walang hook, line, sinker eh!

but still, i keep telling him that i don't want to try to be in a relationship with him, kasi i strongly believe that he's better off as a friend.

oh goodness, i don't want to know what kind of guy he is when in a relationship. lets not get into that. i might start nose bleeding.

btw, he's 18 and i'm 23.

sis kakakilig, saraaapp. go na kasi sis, ok lang yan kahit isa lang. try mo lang.. bahala ka ikaw din mamaya mo ma-fall kana sa kanya ng sobra tapos pag gusto mo na sya maging boyfriend may iba na siya ayon wala na.. mawawala na yung kilig-kilig mo diyan. sige na isa lang. pag hindi masaya sabihin mo friend na lang ulit kayo.. sige na sis tapos kwentuhan mo ko ah.. hihi gusto ko yung mga ganyan eh.. ayoko ikwento yung about samin ni boyfriend kasi nakakakilig din eh maya mo sabihin nung makabasa ang landi ko. LOL

wahhh, wag kang ganyan. takot na takot nga ako sa kanya e. sobra! feeling ko magha-hyperventilate ako pag naguusap kami. parang nako-corner ako. and for the first time, sa kanya ko lang na experience yun. hindi talaga ako makapalag.

iniisip ko nga baka nathri-thrill lang ako dahil 18 si boy. and diba nga younger men believe that dating an older woman is hot. baka vice versa lang din nararamdaman ko.

wew, OT na ata. hehe... ayoko talaga isipin. but i admit, i am falling for a guy who is 5yrs younger.

iYaMoTo · « **Reply #50 on:** May 12, 2010, 01:52:02 pm »

sis poLeng tsalap tsalap ng feeling.. oii kinikilig sya.. sagutin mo na kasi para lalong nakakakilig tapos kwentuhan mo na ako... saan ba sya nakatira? malapit lang ba sa inyo? ano yon everyday kayo nagkikita?

iYaMoTo · « **Reply #51 on:** May 12, 2010, 01:57:11 pm »

sis fallen asan kana? nawala kana..

~tiArA~ · « **Reply #52 on:** May 12, 2010, 02:30:55 pm »

my husband is 8yrs younger, wala naman akong nakitang problema kung mas bata ang karelasyon mo as long as may trust at respect kayo sa isa't isa...pareho lang din yan kung mas matanda sayo ang karelasyon mo, age doesn't really matter :-)

RhineandGlam · « **Reply #53 on:** May 12, 2010, 06:20:51 pm »

Possibly. As the song goes, "love moves in mysterious ways."

Poleng · « **Reply #54 on:** May 12, 2010, 07:07:37 pm »

Quote from: ~tiArA~ on May 12, 2010, 02:30:55 pm

my husband is 8yrs younger, wala naman akong nakitang problema kung mas bata ang karelasyon mo as long as may trust at respect kayo sa isa't isa...pareho lang din yan kung mas matanda sayo ang karelasyon mo, age doesn't really matter :-)

woot woot!,

@sis iya: please don't make me think about it!

and no we're not neighbors, and no we don't talk everyday. as much as possible, i'm trying to keep a safe distance from him. and sya rin naman, he doesn't visit me everyday or make calls or what not. he's well aware that i need my space and he knows hanggang gate lang sya at bawal sya mag ober d bakod.

funny lang persistent sya, pero pigil. gets ba?