1. compatibility - we should be on the same wavelength; we should share common life goals
2. stability - a jobless/unstable guy is a no-no for me; he should have the capacity to raise a family, di puede sa akin ang house husband at ako ang magiging provider.
3. a big NO kung alcoholic, drug addict yung guy. kahit gaano pa kabait yan kapag sober, his vices will always end up destroying the marriage.
4. womanizer - no one wants to end up with a guy like this.