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vintagechic

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Reasons for breakup
« on: February 05, 2010, 12:12:50 AM »
What was the reason of your breakup? and how long did the relationship last?

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Re: Reasons for breakup
« Reply #1 on: February 06, 2010, 09:30:28 AM »
too young and too in love. 7 months. as in crazy in love talaga. even then i knew it was not healthy for us. so kahit mahal ko pa sya, i broke up with him and set him free.
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Re: Reasons for breakup
« Reply #2 on: February 06, 2010, 10:08:56 AM »
ang alam ko may thread na for this
I like games well played :)

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Re: Reasons for breakup
« Reply #3 on: February 06, 2010, 10:37:19 AM »
Mom ng bf.

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Re: Reasons for breakup
« Reply #4 on: February 08, 2010, 01:21:45 AM »
nagduda.. :(

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Re: Reasons for breakup
« Reply #5 on: February 08, 2010, 02:35:40 AM »
for their betterment (which became my misery lol). dont get me wrong with the pronoun, its two different girls in two different timeframe. its just that the reason was the same for both. kinda hate it, coz i cant do anything about it , the morally right choice was to let go and give up.

oh i forgot the how long part, the first was 4 years the other was 2 years.
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Re: Reasons for breakup
« Reply #6 on: February 08, 2010, 10:05:04 PM »
nagkasawaan na.. almost 3yrs..
come back to the roller coaster ride..

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Re: Reasons for breakup
« Reply #7 on: February 09, 2010, 10:03:44 AM »
I don't love him that way and I don't think I ever will. :| I'm glad I really took a stand this time.
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Re: Reasons for breakup
« Reply #8 on: February 22, 2010, 05:38:34 PM »
Third party.
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Re: Reasons for breakup
« Reply #9 on: February 24, 2010, 06:50:02 PM »
not allowed to have a bf (college lang ako nun).
i would love to love you like you do to me....

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Re: Reasons for breakup
« Reply #10 on: February 25, 2010, 01:41:45 PM »
busy ang bf ko dahil work na abroad kesyo graveyard shift ewaan....... 3 years and 4 mos
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Re: Reasons for breakup
« Reply #11 on: February 25, 2010, 10:47:22 PM »
With the 2 BFs before hubby -- let's put it this way... I was immature and had a roving eye, got easily bored, was searching for what exactly -- ewan ko ... basta I had to dump the BF and move on.

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Re: Reasons for breakup
« Reply #12 on: March 04, 2010, 12:30:06 PM »
My relationship lasted for five years. Unang boyfriend ko yon (we became BF-GF when I was 19, and I broke up with him when I was 24) Reasons? There were a lot: wala siyang palabra de honor, laging late sa appointment, nagsisinungaling, taking me for granted and cheating. The last straw came when I found out last March 2009 through my best friend that he had a one-year old son with another woman. Nung time na yon, I was trying to patch things up pa with him.

I suppose nagsawa na lang ako that he treated me like garbage despite being a good girlfriend. When my bestfriend's husband (na bestfriend ni EX asked if I knew about the kid, ang sagot ni EX, matagal naman na kaming wala. So, to guys pala, matagal na ang three months.) And he even emailed me saying that hindi daw siya hihingi sa akin ng tawad not even makuhang gawin yon kahit pilitin ko siya. JERK! 

Anyway, they say naman na what goes around comes around. With the break-up, it transformed me unfortunately to become a B***H. At ang tingin ko sa mga guys, pare-pareho lang na manloloko at masasama ang ugali.

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Re: Reasons for breakup
« Reply #13 on: March 08, 2010, 07:03:57 PM »
hindi na maganda ang communication sa both parties.
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Re: Reasons for breakup
« Reply #14 on: March 09, 2010, 11:46:53 AM »
money  :(

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Re: Reasons for breakup
« Reply #15 on: March 10, 2010, 06:37:48 PM »
nakabuntis x2!! same girl... it lasted 5 years
" i thought love can melt the pain no matter how painful it is... but i was wrong...

'coz now i know pain can melt the love no matter how great it is." :(

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Re: Reasons for breakup
« Reply #16 on: March 13, 2010, 03:58:04 PM »
i wasnt happy and inlove anymore ;)
« Last Edit: March 16, 2010, 03:17:03 PM by ms.messed_up* »
BACON mends my broken heart.:P

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Re: Reasons for breakup
« Reply #17 on: March 17, 2010, 10:35:58 AM »
Lahat ng bagay nalang pinag-aawayan namin, parang hindi na sya healthy for both of us. On and off it lasted for 6 years. 

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Re: Reasons for breakup
« Reply #18 on: March 19, 2010, 02:46:21 PM »
 :'( he was a nice guy when we first met...but sooner lumabas ang tunay niyang kulay....he is so babaero and napaka bolero...kaya ayun kahit love ko siya nakipag break nalang ako.... :'(

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Re: Reasons for breakup
« Reply #19 on: September 09, 2010, 02:46:19 PM »
first bf
my mom found out about my younger brother's gf, so nagsusumbong siya saken. i was in hs pa lang that time and bawal pa din mag-bf. so right after nakipagbreak agad ako kay bf before my mom finds out. haha

last bf
nabuntis niya officemate niya. my first thought "thank God it wasnt me!" guess didn't love him that much (or at all).

in betweens
i dont really remember either that or nagsawa agad ako .

 

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