Author Topic: are u really over your ex? (Read 29345 times)

mimiku · « **Reply #20 on:** February 18, 2010, 05:58:58 pm »

Quote from: jazzlawyer on February 09, 2010, 08:07:06 am

ako 1 year na kami break ng ex ko for 3 years. may iba na siya may iba na din ako. pero pag naiisip ko mga nagawa niya ang sakit pa rin. he was the one who broke up with for another. until now nidedeny pa din niya na di [textspeak!] girl ang dahilan.. we have a lot of common friends. nung gumimik kami nung friday nakita ko siya. una i was indifferent. pero pinakita ko na im so fine and happy now. pero pag naalala ko ginawa niya masakit pa din. i smiled at him even though may galit pa ako. im ok na naman now happy with my beau. bakit may ganon pa akong nararamadaman na galit. in this case you think di pa ko naka move on? moving on ba means dapat wala ng galit nararamdaman? even though na forgive ko na siya and pinansin?

I feel the same way too. Although I don't have any bf right now and it's only been five months since we broke up... I know that I have already accepted the fact that what we can never be together again and maybe he's not really meant for me. But everytime I remember his lies and the things that he did to me, I still succumb in anger and this frustrates me a lot since it's really hard to keep negative emotions inside. My friends told me that as long as I haven't forgiven him it means that I still have feelings for him. Maybe it's true maybe it's not... but somehow I am a bit sad that no matter how I try to forgive him my heart refuse to do so.... maybe time will heal all the wounds... sana nga.

yinchii · « **Reply #21 on:** February 20, 2010, 01:11:35 pm »

Ako i have hatred towards my ex who just used me and dumped me for other girl dahil giver yung girl e. mahilig magbigay ng mamahalin gamit for him. I hate every fiber of him and I don't think i can forgive him just like that - even though im currently happy with my bf But that doesn't mean na hindi pa ako nakakapag-move on. Kasi if babalik sya saken, kahit gawin pa nya lahat, i don't think na tatangapin ko pa sya. Wala na me feelings sakanya kundi anger and i don't consider it bitterness. Maybe I hate myself too dahil alam ko na un before, hinayaan ko lang. My current bf knows what i feel towards my ex pero okay lang skanya. He said, its normal for me daw to feel it since hindi daw ako nakaganti man lang. naka-alis na kasi sya before ako makaganti e. LOL.

I love my bf and im glad that i ended up with him.. im so over with my ex. No pain, no bitterness.. pure anger lang but if I see him ulet.. deadma lang. Ayaw ko syang kausapin because he deserves it.

Beng01 · « **Reply #22 on:** February 20, 2010, 01:19:06 pm »

Yes, I am really over my ex. Akala ko hindi ko makakayanan noon. Pero I prayed hard talaga and work hard para ma get over ko ang ex ko of 3 years. I am happy being single now.

Cristal · « **Reply #23 on:** February 20, 2010, 11:21:52 pm »

Ako im not over the EX. 4 years din kami. I still miss him...I think i still love him pero wala akong gagawin about it. Hindi ko ipaglalaban yung love ko kasi I feel its not worth it.

empress · « **Reply #24 on:** February 20, 2010, 11:24:10 pm »

I'm super over him! I met him again after 2 years and I didn' feel anything at all.

hairt mini · « **Reply #25 on:** February 21, 2010, 02:04:37 pm »

I'm so over....

sweetestCORN · « **Reply #26 on:** February 23, 2010, 01:33:29 am »

life is short.. kung gusto may paraan. so kung ayaw nila edi wag.. sayang lang panahon natin. it's tue kahit anong gawin natin kahit lumuha [textspeak!] ng dugo kung talagang ayaw na nila wala na tayo magagawa so move forward no turning back. i'm still trying and so far so good.

menice · « **Reply #27 on:** February 23, 2010, 01:54:43 pm »

No.. missing her badly.

lelaina17 · « **Reply #28 on:** February 23, 2010, 02:20:25 pm »

yes i am. partly because i have forgiven him (though i will never forget the pain he caused) and partly because i'm really and truly happy with my current bf. before, i used to cry (yung napapaluha) when i think about my ex. but now, kahit siguro pilitin ko di na ko maiiyak. kasi nga i'm very happy na.

annd · « **Reply #29 on:** February 25, 2010, 12:08:31 am »

di ko alam kung nakamove on na ako. pero lagi ko pa din tinitignan profile niya.

pero okay na ako na masaya siya. ang ayoko lang e saksakan ng pangit ang pinalit niya sakin. dahil siguro, naghanap ng kalevel niya. bitter much??

charmed_chic · « **Reply #30 on:** February 28, 2010, 09:00:42 pm »

oh yes! sya yata ang hindi maka-getover eh.. hahahaha!

yamskee · « **Reply #31 on:** March 25, 2010, 01:09:48 am »

hindi ako makagetover.. hay andami ko sinuko for him.. inintindi ko na lahat.. ayun.. nafall siya sa bata na may bf.. talaga naman.. walang matibay na relasyon sa suluterang gusto ng lalaki mapasakanya.. hay

lady_butterfly · « **Reply #32 on:** March 25, 2010, 09:04:21 pm »

not yet

graceria07 · « **Reply #33 on:** March 27, 2010, 08:13:50 am »

after 7 years of no commitment relationship..
and after one more year of putting an end.. yeah Im over him.

angel.of.mine · « **Reply #34 on:** April 11, 2010, 06:00:14 am »

ewan ko ba...mukang my hang over pa ako sa EX ko, we've been together for 6 years at mg 2 years na kmeng hiwalay (ako nkipag break). pro hanggang ngyon naiisip ko pren sya and most of the time naiicompare ko sya sa boyfriend ko ngyon. sana pinag isipan ko pla mabuti un gnawa kong decision nun...sana hndi ako nag sisi ngyon.hays, if only i could turn back time.

lesters_gal · « **Reply #35 on:** April 11, 2010, 11:26:59 pm »

medyo ok na ako.hindi na ganun kasakit for me yung break up namen.pero araw2x ko pa rin sha naiisip and hoping na babalik sha uli sa akin.

purplerainne · « **Reply #36 on:** April 12, 2010, 03:27:41 pm »

yes I am over him.
somebody new came in my life and he helped me to get over my ex. though magulo ang status namin ni new guy, I am so thankful. He is my hero.

may lakas ng loob na ako ngayon na makita si ex. minsan kapag bored na bored, nagagawa ko na rin mag sneak sa FB account nya at kinukwento ko pa sa kanya na tinignan ko yung account. TInutukso ko na rin sya sa iba and even say na "bagay" sila

rainbow11 · « **Reply #37 on:** April 17, 2010, 03:45:59 am »

sa totoo lang, hindi pa. 2yrs na kaming wala pero i still feel for him. ako na mismo naiinis sa sarili ko kasi alam ko namang hindi na dapat ganon pero di pa rin natatahimik puso ko.. kapagod!

lesters_gal · « **Reply #38 on:** May 19, 2010, 05:18:42 pm »

I thought I had moved on.pero hindi pa pala.yesterday after I talked to my friend ayun nalungkot nanaman ako at umiyak ng bonggang bongga.back to zero nanaman ako.I don't know what to do..I'm so down right now.

samantha_leigh · « **Reply #39 on:** May 19, 2010, 08:26:26 pm »

i always read threads from the forum pero ngayon lang ako naparegister kasi medyo nalilito din ako sa nangyayari sa buhay ko. i recently broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years. no 3rd party or anything, there's just too much drama with our relationship. i felt kasi na hindi na ako masaya, tapos everyday na lang nag aaway kami ng bonggang bongga. tingin ko rin kasi mas makakabuti din sa kanya kung maghiwalay kami..what i don't like with our relationship is that:

1. sinanay niya akong maging super dominant (girl po ako), tipong lahat talaga ng gusto ko ang nasusunod. hindi healthy para samin kasi pag nag aaway kami, tahimik lang siya kahit ako naman may kasalanan tapos kahit simpleng bagay, pinapalaki ko pa. aminado naman ako na ako iyong may mali sa part na toh kasi sobra akong magalit natatadyakan ko pa siya. wawa talaga siya sakin kasi after away, sira lahat ng teddy bears at pictures namin.. lagi sya may pasa sa kamay. .. in short, nagiging battered bf sya. im not proud of it.

2. parang ako ang lalaki kasi ako gumagastos, mas nakakaangat kasi ako sa buhay kaysa sa kanya. tipong lahat lahat sakin nanggagaling. anniversary, bday la siya nabibigay ako lahat. hmm.. sya paminsan minsan lang, sinisira ko pa pag nag aaway. tsktsk. naging super selfless naman ako dito kasi mas inuuna ko pa sya minsan kaysa sa mga needs/wants ko.. sa 4 years na magkasama kami nabibilang lang kung ilan beses nya ako nalibre.

3. samin lang dalawa umiikot mundo, wala na nga siyang kaibigan. hindi na din ako sumasama sa mga friends ko masyado. tipong everyday kami nagkikita.

feeling ko tama naging decision ko kasi ayaw ko na sya saktan, ayoko kung panu tumatakbo relationship namin.. ayoko na everytime na mag aaway kami lagi na lang dahil sa pera.

2weeks palang kaming break kung dati tinitxt pa niya ako, ngayon hindi na din siya nagpaparamdam. aminado akong ako ang may mali sa relasyon namin.. perfect BF siya madami nga sa mga friends ko naiinggit sakin, sablay nga lang siya financially tsaka hindi din kasi matalino. (i graduated at the age of 19, may work na din habang siya nag aaral padin mag6years na. )

kung sa kabaitan ang pinag uusapan, wala na ata tatalo pa sa kanya. as in..sa isang buong araw puwede akong magcomputer na [textspeak!] at kahit kukuha nlng ng tubig pagsisilbihan pa ako. alam kong super mahal niya ako kasi ni minsan hindi nya ako sinaktan kahit ganito ako sa kanya. mahal ko din siya, kaya lang sapat na ba na sobrang mahal namin isa't isa??

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