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Author Topic: Which do you think is better?  (Read 9679 times)

sweetcj

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Which do you think is better?
« on: January 27, 2010, 01:33:52 PM »
Ang maging alone/single or be with someone na hindi mo mahal ???

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Re: Which do you think is better?
« Reply #1 on: January 27, 2010, 02:19:20 PM »
I'd rather be alone. based on my experience, sayang ang time niya, pero mas sayang ang time ko.  ;)
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Re: Which do you think is better?
« Reply #2 on: January 29, 2010, 12:18:53 PM »
SINGLE definitely. it's the worst feeling in the world- feeling trapped inside a relationship that doesn't make you happy or fulfilled. i've experienced that and every minute i spent inside it, i was screaming to get out.

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Re: Which do you think is better?
« Reply #3 on: January 30, 2010, 08:28:38 AM »
  -- ALONE ! hahah. ayoko kayang magsuffer. Lalo na kapag kasama ko yung taong hindi ko na mahal. ang hirap nun.
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Re: Which do you think is better?
« Reply #4 on: February 01, 2010, 09:03:28 AM »
I'd rather be alone... and be with someone I don't love...
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Re: Which do you think is better?
« Reply #5 on: February 01, 2010, 09:08:57 AM »
alone. kaya nga i annulled my marriage though we didnt lived together as husband and wife. i realize nun umalis ako after the wedding for abroad i am not inlove with the person and i cannot see myself growing old with him. at least masaya na din sya ngayon nagpakasal na hehe

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Re: Which do you think is better?
« Reply #6 on: February 02, 2010, 02:54:35 PM »
depends on how far you want to take the relationship or what it is youre looking for. if to be with lang as a prospect, a fling, a person you have 50/50 emotions with,  or someone to hang around with lang naman, even if you know its temporary and no one else is there, why not..as long as its not with someone you abhor. set it up straight, know the limits and what not to mess with.  just dnt give more than what your getting.  but if its a serious relationship you seek then no, youll end up settling for something or someone you dont really want or need.   
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Re: Which do you think is better?
« Reply #7 on: February 02, 2010, 03:19:00 PM »
syempre alone!!!!!!...kelangan pa ba imemorize yan?..ewwwwww, how can u kiss or hug the guy if u don't love him???..for me its kadiri kasi e...

at saka madami ka pa mamimeet jan..malay pag naging kau ng guy na hindi mo love taz biglang dumating yung taong magpapatibok ng puso mo?..e di mas lalong mahirap...

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Re: Which do you think is better?
« Reply #8 on: February 03, 2010, 11:48:19 AM »
Being single na lang siguro kesa [textspeak!] makisama sa taong d u mahal di ba?mga sis ang masaya maging single.....

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Re: Which do you think is better?
« Reply #9 on: February 06, 2010, 04:01:01 AM »
Single For Me.. I just don't get it why will anyone be with someone who knows that she/he will never be happy with  ??? ???
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Re: Which do you think is better?
« Reply #10 on: February 06, 2010, 08:27:49 AM »
when i was younger i use to think that i'd rather be alone than be with someone i'm not in love with kaso ngaun parang naiisip ko why don't  i give someone who really loves me a chance? as long as alam niya na hindi ko siya mahal and i'm not giving him any promises.. bakit hindi? what if madevelop ang love ko for him? kasi kapag nagmahal ako, matagal bago ako makarecover. sometimes it take years for me to get over someone. kaya nga sa tanang buhay ko 1 lang naging bf ko but i fell in love with 3 men. so now medyo may feelings pa ako sa sa last na lover ko  kaso ayaw naman sakin. alangan naman isiksik ko ang sarili ko sa kanya eh 'yun ang nagyari kay #2 na never naging bf. sawa na ako sa ganyang drama. meron namang ibang nagmamahal sa akin eh. mabait naman. maybe if i give him my attention baka sakaling ma-inlove ako. alam naman nya ang istorya ng lovelife ko. so.. maybe hopefully. cause masarap ang pakiramdam kapag may nagmamahal sayo ng taos puso at walang kapalit.
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Re: Which do you think is better?
« Reply #11 on: February 06, 2010, 11:21:09 AM »
there are people who settle with persons they don't really love.  it's for the companionship when they grow old, chaka minsan nga natututnan na rin mahalin.  sometimes naman kasi hindi mo rin masabi sa una pa lang kung talagang mahal mo yun tao.... parang nasa pagsasama makikita at mafifeel yun talagang love.  iba kasi yun kinikilig ka lang muna sa una, iba yun e.  or lust.  or gusto mo laging kasama. hindi ganon ang pagmamahalan.  if a person chooses to be alone, sa pagtanda, iisipin nya rin kung ano kaya kung binigyan nya ng chance yun isang taong mahal sya.  aside from the fact na mahirap tumanda mag-isa. 
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Re: Which do you think is better?
« Reply #12 on: February 06, 2010, 12:02:10 PM »
Be single. At least you are yourself. And you can do things that you'd really enjoy. Unlike if in you're in a relationship with someone whom you dont really love, di ka mageenjoy, sayang lang ang time mo. Saka kawawa naman yung tao na yun diba.
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Re: Which do you think is better?
« Reply #13 on: February 06, 2010, 11:58:00 PM »
I always tell myself that I would rather choose the one who loves me....but I always end up choosing the one I love that lead me to being alone....  :'( :) So, I think being alone is better... ;)

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Re: Which do you think is better?
« Reply #14 on: February 07, 2010, 06:11:44 PM »
I'd rather be single than be with someone that I don't love. It will just be unfair. And I think I'd be much happier if I'm single than be stuck in a relationship just for the heck of it.

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Re: Which do you think is better?
« Reply #15 on: February 07, 2010, 11:17:34 PM »
i'd rather be alone din. i actually love being alone. hindi naman ako takot na tumandang mag isa, kesa naman may asawa ka ngang kasama sa pagtanda pero hindi mo naman mahal, mas mahihirapan ka pa sa ganon situation.

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Re: Which do you think is better?
« Reply #16 on: February 08, 2010, 10:42:33 PM »
alone.I don't see the point of staying with someone you don't even care for.sayang ang panahon.
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Re: Which do you think is better?
« Reply #17 on: February 09, 2010, 08:26:37 AM »
I'd rather be alone! That's the reason why I'm still single. God knows how miserable I was in that situation in the past and I don't wanna live through that kind of hell again. Hearing my friends being trapped in that hellhole is killing me already. I owe myself too much to ever subject my life to a lifetime full of regret and misery.. I'd surely die young kung ganun.

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Re: Which do you think is better?
« Reply #18 on: February 09, 2010, 08:45:30 AM »
ako?alone and single!...than to be with someone na hindi mo mahal! lesser evil! Period!

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Re: Which do you think is better?
« Reply #19 on: February 15, 2010, 02:50:37 PM »
alone and single... kesa naman magkasala pa ako sa kanya di ba? hehe unfair yun lalo na kung mahal na mahal ako nung tao...

 

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