Author Topic: Dating Someone na Hindi Pinoy --- Share Experiences (Read 28072 times)

amber_81 · « **Reply #20 on:** February 15, 2010, 02:31:27 pm »

@summersong: ay totoo yan, ang pinoy uulanin ka ng i love you sa umpisa pa lang pero pag kayo na, hay mag-iiba na ang ihip ng hangin! hmmm, pansin ko nga ayaw nila ng clingy saka selosa. kasi my guy a day before he left for NZ, i told him, "hmpf! excited ka nang lumayas kasi madaming girls na naghihintay sayo don!" then sabi nya "babe, there's a lot but you need not to worry about a thing! i wont have time for them either. Please dont be jealous." well i guess pag sinabi nila na wag mag-worry eh yun na yun!

@luisacart: i met my guy online. he added me then we just talked via email for a few days, mga 5 days yun then he asked for my number. since he got my number ayaw na nya sa online kami mag-usap, gusto nya tawag. Then after 3 days of chatting through phone we decided to see each other. The moment we saw each other parang ang tagal na namin magkakilala hehe pareho kasi kaming makulit! We watched a movie then hinatid nya ako sa bahay... then he gave me a kiss... on the lips!! naloka ako! ok lang ba yun??? i guess ok lang kasi one month na kaming date ok pa rin kami eh

sa kanila naman diretsahan di ba? wala nang paligoy ligoy. nung una medyo pakipot pa ako eh, tapos sabi nya sakin bakit daw ang hirap kong basahin, di nya alam kung gusto ko o ayaw ko. ok lang siguro magpakipot pero make sure na hindi nya mafi-feel na hindi ka interesado sa kanya.

luisacart · « **Reply #21 on:** February 15, 2010, 02:45:09 pm »

^teka, what kind of kiss ba? like open mouth or closed lips? hindi ko rin alam eh! pero i've never french-kissed anyone on the first date! and when I did sleep with someone on the 3rd date it didn't work out well so don't do it!

amber_81 · « **Reply #22 on:** February 15, 2010, 03:21:37 pm »

basta nung kiss nya ako di ko expect yun eh. closed lips lang as in mga 5 seconds...

bawal pa ang tongue on the first date!

lol

snikity · « **Reply #23 on:** February 17, 2010, 10:03:34 am »

salamat sa mga input niyo mga sis.
this french man and i have been dating for almost a month. and we've been seeing each other about two times a week.
totoo yung mga sinabi ng mga sis dito na hindi sila parang mga pinoy na i love you kaagad ( kahit di naman nila mi-ni-mean ).
totoo rin na they wont call or text you everyday ( which is fine with me )
and its true na you dont have to be attached to the hip ( which is awesome! )

i think with the westerners...you can be in a relationship yet have a life of your own as well. para kung maghiwalay man kayo...walang napipilay diba?

share pa kayo ng experiences niyo!

amber_81 · « **Reply #24 on:** February 18, 2010, 12:54:59 pm »

for them i love you is a big word... pero naman pag sinabihan ka naman ng i love you eh malamang totoo na yun ang nararamdaman nila sayo.

dapat talaga masanay ako na di sya palagi text lalo na ngayon nasa NZ sya for vacation, 4 days na kami di usap

last usap namin nung valentines day pa... iniintindi ko na lang na may sarili rin syang life although nakakalungkot kasi nami-miss mo sya wala ka naman magawa... what to do, ganun talaga sila... or maybe baka test lang to...

fidz · « **Reply #25 on:** February 18, 2010, 05:49:11 pm »

goodluck girls..ienjoy nyo lang yung company nila and don't expect much. or else masasaktan ka lang pag hindi ka na nila tinawagan.

crazee_crazee · « **Reply #26 on:** February 18, 2010, 08:10:33 pm »

^ That is so true! I've only realized that recently. How often is "normal" (calling, texting) for them, in your experiences? A couple of times a week, every other day?

alexyze · « **Reply #27 on:** February 19, 2010, 04:36:25 am »

every other day i guess?
English guys are very straightforward! out of the blue they have comments or questions na para sa ating mga pinoy di na kailangan tinatanong..

additional observation. they would either invite you for drinks or stay in his apartment for movie.. the formal and romantic dinner is far from the idea.. i dunno. or it is just him.

summersong · « **Reply #28 on:** February 20, 2010, 01:30:41 am »

^ it's not just him. For many peeps i'd encountered in places i'd been, a drink's already a date. It may lead to several things though: from nothing if you find him a total wank, to a full shag if he's very very lucky. lol.

Weird about brit friends? They refer to gf's as the missus. Basta gf nila, missus na agad ang tawag. Ay ewan.

Minsan it's not about their ethnicity per se. Nasa kinalakihan rin nila. Meron din namang tumatawag everyday. Although hindi gaanong mahilig sa text kumpara sa lalaking pinoy, mas malamag sila sa tawag.

Sa akin kasi, hindi ligaw Pinoy ang nakasanayan ko, maybe that's why I felt a bit smothered pag Pinoy ang nanligaw. 'Til now I still don't fully grasp Pinoy courting behavior.

Pinoys usually put their best foot forward pag nanliligaw. Sobrang pakitang gilas parang di na totoo. Tapos pag kayo na, parang tapos na ang laban. How do I describe it..lukewarm? Mas mahilig din magpalusot kahit buko na.

The more western types, parang mas pinahalagahan nila pag kayo na. And when things cool between the two of you, mas madali ang usapan. Equal hurt, a bit less drama, but more peace of mind. I prefer that route.

The best way I can describe westerners is that they're not as flamboyant, but nonetheless sincere. Of course there are always exceptions.

Teka nasa dating stage pa lang pala hehe. I digress. Basta enjoy lang while it lasts. If you two decide to take it further, then good. If not, keribels lang.

@luisacart - here in dear old pinas, for now.

luisacart · « **Reply #29 on:** February 20, 2010, 04:49:17 am »

i think 'yung texting na yan depends on how much the guy is into you. some of them texts you almost every day some naman doesn't. ang masasabi ko lang, if they're no that into you, wag kang umasa ng reply sa text everyday.

amber_81 · « **Reply #30 on:** February 21, 2010, 02:13:28 pm »

Quote from: alexyze on February 19, 2010, 04:36:25 am

additional observation. they would either invite you for drinks or stay in his apartment for movie.. the formal and romantic dinner is far from the idea.. i dunno. or it is just him.

haha

mismo! I dated an english guy before, and he'd rather watch movie at home than go out

luisacart · « **Reply #31 on:** February 21, 2010, 04:59:14 pm »

^I think maybe kaya ako laging iniinvite sa apartment/house ng ka-date ko kasi nakatira pa ako sa parents so para makapag-make out kailangan sa bahay nila. lol pero siempre alangan naman sabihin, do you want to hang out at my place to make out? so ang sinasabi na lang, "do want to hang out at my place and watch a movie?" pero usually kasi make out naman ang nangyayari. i've dated two american guys na ganyan ang style.

alexyze · « **Reply #32 on:** February 23, 2010, 01:12:50 am »

come to his apartment and make out? yeah, it may sound that way.
my english guy once comes to my place. we were close. he was hugging and just keeping me on his arms and kiss a little bit...

he was kissing but take note: not on the lips. so, it keeps me thinking. is kiss on the lips a big deal for them? i dunno. maybe..

nikoy_air · « **Reply #33 on:** February 28, 2010, 02:06:43 pm »

hi mga sis, i need your thoughts on this...

i am based in manila but i'm on training overseas now. i have a colleague who i'm in constant communication with now. he's european. when i was in manila, we're in "kwentuhan" terms. but now, he sends me text messages as if i'm just in manila (i'm using a local mobile sim here). on weekends, we chat pa. i don't think he's been like this to any of our other colleagues. at eto pa, he's coming over. we have "things to do together"on our list. he's very likable... girls in the office have crush on him... ano ba ito? help!!!

crazee_crazee · « **Reply #34 on:** February 28, 2010, 08:01:47 pm »

^ Enjoy it!

cruelgirl · « **Reply #35 on:** March 06, 2010, 12:49:14 am »

My bf is Australian and is currently living in the Phils. What I like about him - madali siyang kausap. He's very direct to the point. Unlike Pinoy guys, he's very domesticated. He does his own grocery, he cooks for us (i dont cook hehe), he cleans his condo, etc. He does not complain na hindi ako marunong mashado sa bahay. Naku kung pinoy yan baka nagdemand yan na magaral na kong magluto.

The no-nos when dating a foreigner - ayaw nila ng masyadong clingy. Nung hindi pa kami, he used to complain about a girl he was dating na text ng text kahit walang reason. He doesn't like it when a girl texts and just asks - have you had lunch? Kaya ako I always wait for him to text me first. Time is very important to them. He also values his privacy. Chinecheck ko kasi yung phone niya and he used to say people don't do that in Oz kahit bf/gf na. They're not as vocal as Pinoys especially when saying i love u, hindi din masyadong bolero o tipong may mga baong grand gestures. Pero they usually mean what they say.

themissingx · « **Reply #36 on:** March 06, 2010, 02:23:05 am »

The no-nos when dating a foreigner - ayaw nila ng masyadong clingy. Nung hindi pa kami, he used to complain about a girl he was dating na text ng text kahit walang reason. He doesn't like it when a girl texts and just asks - have you had lunch? Kaya ako I always wait for him to text me first. Time is very important to them. He also values his privacy. Chinecheck ko kasi yung phone niya and he used to say people don't do that in Oz kahit bf/gf na. They're not as vocal as Pinoys especially when saying i love u, hindi din masyadong bolero o tipong may mga baong grand gestures. Pero they usually mean what they say.

-- noted! I'm dating an Aussie right now and recently, I kinda have been texting him a lot.. not a lot lot , pero everyday. Before, I'd wait til he texts me first before I text him.but yeah he does it everyday din naman. haha. Yeah well maybe I'll cut back on the texts. Ito lang tanong ko..

It's my first time to date a foreigner, because kaka-move ko lang to Australia. I don't normally kiss/make out with guys na hindi ko naman boyfriend.. So nung first date namin nung Aussie guy, after saying good night he kissed me sa lips, nawindang ako. haha Then for some reason, we just clicked. 2 weeks palang kaming nagddate as of now, pero parang ang tagal na naming magkakilala or naghhang out... Anyways, is that normal? kissing and making out kahit nsa dating stage pa lang kayo.. kasi nabibigla ako. im not usually like that, haha. i just kiss or make out with a guy pag kami na.

nikoy_air · « **Reply #37 on:** March 07, 2010, 02:28:54 pm »

for me if you really clicked, bakit mo pa pipigilan sarili mo? just be as open minded as they are. if you like each other, eh di good. if not, next! just always set a limitation, don't go overboard and come out easy rin naman.

:-)

snikity · « **Reply #38 on:** March 08, 2010, 11:18:41 am »

hi themissingx! hope youre enjoying australia!!! i live in australia din.

the oz bloke is very laid back. sincere. mabait. have fun! go and explore australia with him! he's gonna be the best tour guide ever!

themissingx · « **Reply #39 on:** March 08, 2010, 09:11:39 pm »

Thanks for the advises!

I really like him pero things are soooo complicated between us. ang dami ko nang concerns na pinost as thread dito sa GT about sa issues ko sa kanya, hehe! But i still go out with him until now.,.

all i noticed is that, this aussie guy im dating is very sweet and true, laid back nga sila. pero it's alright because im the same! he does make a very good tour guide indeed.

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