Get weekly updates via email!
tip of the day SAT 01 NOV 14
Need a quick makeup fix? Use a tinted moisturizer to keep your skin fresh-looking when you're tired.
  • Good House Keeping
    Judy Ann Santos-Agoncillo returns to our cover this September issue and gets candid about money, marriage, and motherhood.
    Good Housekeeping
  • Women's Health
    Drop two sizes fast—with simple exercises you can do at home! This month's ultimate weight-loss special shows you how. Plus, real women share how you, too, can shed and keep off excess weight for good.
    Women's Health
GIRLTALK

Author Topic: Lesson learned after the breakup  (Read 94686 times)

purple.strawberry

  • Junior GirlTalker
  • ***
  • Posts: 370
Re: Lesson learned after the breakup
« Reply #300 on: August 01, 2012, 11:52:15 AM »
Sometimes yung confidence niyo pareho na kayo na talaga, yun yung mag-uundermine ng relationship niyo kasi mapapabayaan niyo yung isa't isa, thinking that the other person will always be there for you.
« Last Edit: July 28, 2013, 07:29:26 PM by purple.strawberry »

beevere

  • GirlTalker
  • **
  • Posts: 56
Re: Lesson learned after the breakup
« Reply #301 on: August 03, 2012, 05:01:05 PM »
Hindi mo mapipilit ang isang tao na mahalin ka ulit tulad ng dati. Tulad ng mga pinakita niyang pagmamahal nung kayo pa. Kung ayaw na niya, ayaw na niya.
Wag masyado umasa sa mga salitang binibitawan. Sa case ko, sobrang pinanghawakan ko yung mga sinabi niya na "Gusto kitang ligawan ulit pero hindi ko alam kung kelan, siguro pag board passer na ko." "Mahal pa rin naman kita, ikaw pa rin naman.", yan yung mga sinabi niya pero siya yung nakipag-break, dahil diyan umasa ko ng sobra na babalikan niya nga ako, pero after ilang weeks, ayaw na daw niya ko mahalin at gusto niya na mag-move on. Napakasakit nun, bigla na lang niya ko iniwan. Sinasabi pa niya dati na mamamatay siya sa lungkot pag nakipaghiwalay ako, yun pala siya yung mang-iiwan. Natutunan ko na magtira ng konting respeto sa sarili, wag kang habol ng habol, di mo alam habang hinahabol mo siya, siya naman lumalayo.

Pero ang pinakanatutunan ko ay ang bumangon at maging mas stronger. :)

Colline

  • Probationary
  • Posts: 1
Re: Lesson learned after the breakup
« Reply #302 on: August 07, 2012, 07:10:36 PM »
We need to be heartbroken to grow.

Tama pero ang sakkit at mahirap

tawnylee

  • GirlTalker
  • **
  • Posts: 77
Re: Lesson learned after the breakup
« Reply #303 on: August 12, 2012, 01:42:11 PM »
Hindi mo mapipilit ang isang tao na mahalin ka ulit tulad ng dati. Tulad ng mga pinakita niyang pagmamahal nung kayo pa. Kung ayaw na niya, ayaw na niya.
Wag masyado umasa sa mga salitang binibitawan. Sa case ko, sobrang pinanghawakan ko yung mga sinabi niya na "Gusto kitang ligawan ulit pero hindi ko alam kung kelan, siguro pag board passer na ko." "Mahal pa rin naman kita, ikaw pa rin naman.", yan yung mga sinabi niya pero siya yung nakipag-break, dahil diyan umasa ko ng sobra na babalikan niya nga ako, pero after ilang weeks, ayaw na daw niya ko mahalin at gusto niya na mag-move on. Napakasakit nun, bigla na lang niya ko iniwan. Sinasabi pa niya dati na mamamatay siya sa lungkot pag nakipaghiwalay ako, yun pala siya yung mang-iiwan. Natutunan ko na magtira ng konting respeto sa sarili, wag kang habol ng habol, di mo alam habang hinahabol mo siya, siya naman lumalayo.

Pero ang pinakanatutunan ko ay ang bumangon at maging mas stronger. :)


AMEN SIS!!!

HoldingOn

  • Junior GirlTalker
  • ***
  • Posts: 272
    • Get Paid in $$$ By Completing Tasks Online
Re: Lesson learned after the breakup
« Reply #304 on: August 14, 2012, 06:46:08 PM »
My relationship with my ex ended for me to learn what real love is. Love for God, for my family, for myself, and for other people.  ;)

momentum

  • Super GirlTalker
  • *****
  • Posts: 1295
  • ♠ Get What You Give ♠
Re: Lesson learned after the breakup
« Reply #305 on: August 16, 2012, 09:37:57 AM »
I'm loving the song "No more Drama" by Mary J Blige sung by that american idol guy named Joshua Ledet ;)

some of the lines in that song:

Why'd I play the fool
Go through ups and downs
Knowing all the time
You wouldn't be around
Or maybe I like the stress
Cause I was young and restless
But that was long ago
I don't wanna cry no more

Uh, it feel so good
When you let go
Of all the drama in your life
Now you're free from all the pain
Free from all the game
Free from all the stress
So find your happiness
I don't know
Only God knows where the story ends for me
But I know where the story begins
It's up to us to choose
Whether we win or loose
And I choose to win

 ;)
----♣ Get Busy Living, or Get Busy Dying ♣----

krnmprl

  • Junior GirlTalker
  • ***
  • Posts: 380
Re: Lesson learned after the breakup
« Reply #306 on: August 17, 2012, 04:55:41 PM »
that love cannot be forced. na mas napakahirap pawalan un isang tao kaysa ipilit but if you really feel too much you will choose to do the more decent and difficult thing.

piatos

  • Senior GirlTalker
  • ****
  • Posts: 850
Re: Lesson learned after the breakup
« Reply #307 on: August 27, 2012, 06:31:55 PM »
natutunan kong dapat si God lang number 1 at dapat magtira ka para sa sarili mo

Ishasophia

  • A fairy wannabe and a hopeless romantic..
  • Junior GirlTalker
  • ***
  • Posts: 291
  • happy and inlove...proud mom to my angel..
Re: Lesson learned after the breakup
« Reply #308 on: October 09, 2012, 05:27:22 PM »
You can't impose COMMITMENT to someone. It should come from them or else it will never work.

Love yourself.. Magtira kahit konti sa sarili wag ibuhos lahat. Mahirap bumangon kapag wala nang natira para sa sarili mo.
There is never a wrong time to do the right thing..

jane2

  • GirlTalker
  • **
  • Posts: 42
    • Market Pilipinas
Re: Lesson learned after the breakup
« Reply #309 on: October 10, 2012, 01:49:42 AM »
dapat huwag umasa na magugustuhan ka ng nagugustuhan mo.

Juricks

  • Love never fails.... (1 Corinthians 13:1-8a and 13)
  • Senior GirlTalker
  • ****
  • Posts: 744
  • Live, laugh, love. ;)
Re: Lesson learned after the breakup
« Reply #310 on: October 11, 2012, 07:19:25 PM »
natutunan kong dapat si God lang number 1 at dapat magtira ka para sa sarili mo

I super agree with this.  Yan ang isa sa mga natutunan ko a couple of years ago.  I loved too much na ang sabi nga ng family ko e "buhos" daw.  Kaya ayun, it took me a year para makabangon and to completely move on..
Life isn't about waiting
for the storm to pass..
It's about learning to
DANCE in the RAIN...

michipoo

  • Senior GirlTalker
  • ****
  • Posts: 643
Re: Lesson learned after the breakup
« Reply #311 on: October 11, 2012, 08:20:23 PM »
that karma really exist. kung dati ako habol ng habol sakanya, ngayon siya na ang habol ng habol sakin, but its too late, natauhan na ko!  :)

Filipinasadhart

  • Senior GirlTalker
  • ****
  • Posts: 698
  • I had a fear to start again....
Re: Lesson learned after the breakup
« Reply #312 on: October 11, 2012, 11:31:49 PM »
dapat huwag umasa na magugustuhan ka ng nagugustuhan mo.


Tama  :-X
Never give permanent feeling to a temporary person.

jessica025

  • Newbie
  • *
  • Posts: 28
Re: Lesson learned after the breakup
« Reply #313 on: October 15, 2012, 01:42:55 AM »
di ko na mahanap ano ang sinabi ko dati dito sa post na ito.. anyway, isa sa bago kong natutunan... mas masaya pala ang life after mo makamove on.. masasabi ko namang nakamove on na tayo pag may bago na tayo at di na natin hinahanap yung ex natin... :) marerealize mong nangyari ang nangyari kasi yun ang deserve mo... deserve mo na hindi si ex ang para sa atin.... :) im in love lang mga sis - pasensya na... after break up ka bi na jowa ko  - ayun, may gwapo at bata akong foreigner na bf... :)
God is so good to me...

crazy_krizsa

  • crazy for YOU...
  • Super GirlTalker
  • *****
  • Posts: 1148
  • Baby I'm perfect for you...
Re: Lesson learned after the breakup
« Reply #314 on: October 15, 2012, 06:05:27 AM »
- Nothing can make him stay if he really wants to leave you
- Once na niloko ka, sure yun lolokohin ka ulet
Always respect me... For I am the shameful and the magnificent one...

sixteen16

  • Junior GirlTalker
  • ***
  • Posts: 278
Re: Lesson learned after the breakup
« Reply #315 on: February 02, 2013, 11:08:36 PM »
Learn to love and respect yourself! yan ang natutunan ko pagdating sa love.. i'm in my late 20's na.. naalala ko pa lagi ako umiiyak at nagrebelde pa ako kasi sobra akong nasaktan nung college days ko hehe.. pero habang tumatanda ako, narealize ko lahat at nagpapasalamat kasi nangyari sa akin  ang mga ganun.. and now sobrang thankful ako.. i feel so blessed.. dahil nakilala ko ang lalaking rerespeto, at magmamahal sa akin ng sobra.. naniniwala ako bago mo mahanap ang para sayo kelangan mo muna masaktan para may matutunan ka..

..DISCIPLINE is your FRIEND not your ENEMY..

TowBerryBlue

  • I can co-exist with you but it doesn't mean that I like you...
  • Super GirlTalker
  • *****
  • Posts: 1716
  • No thanks...I'm good!
Re: Lesson learned after the breakup
« Reply #316 on: February 05, 2013, 02:53:24 AM »
I swore off men. Period!

Those creatures can stare and look but no touch. I mean seriously! Okay na alam ko na I am gorgeous, tall, pretty and smart. Okay na ako.
My son is my happily ever after :)

annahilation

  • Probationary
  • Posts: 4
Re: Lesson learned after the breakup
« Reply #317 on: February 06, 2013, 03:21:22 PM »
Nobody died of a broken heart. You'll live.

Do NOT look back. The past cannot be erased. It's time to move on.

klengmorales

  • Love me, hate me, I AM Me. The ultimate
  • Senior GirlTalker
  • ****
  • Posts: 539
Re: Lesson learned after the breakup
« Reply #318 on: February 06, 2013, 05:21:39 PM »
Eto para sa akin lang ha...
Nalaman kong..

Pag niloko ka.. uulitin nya yun. promise uulitin nya talaga. Malas lang kung d mo sya nahuli.
Masakit pala talaga, pero kailangan mong pagdaanan bawat araw na maaalala mo siya at umiyak ng  umiyak. Pero pagkatapos ng lahat ng yan, pagtatawanan mo nalang at iisipin na.. ano bang pagaaksaya ng oras, panahon, pera at kaartehan ang ginawa mo
Hindi mo pedeng panghawakan ang mga sinabi nya na.. mahal pa din kita, pero parang may iba na; hindi ako magkaka GF hangga't mahal kita; aayusin ko lang buhay ko at pagnagkalakas ako ng loob, kukunin kita ulit. Dahil yang mga yan ang mga salitang wala namang patutunguhan. mga salitang paasa na pag kailangan ka nya, alam nyang andyan ka palagi handang makiramay. pero paano naman ang sarili mo diba?
Wag hayaang kay BF lang umiikot ang mundo mo. Dapat connected ka pa din sa mga friends mo. para sa mga hindi magandang sitwasyon, may makakausap ka at malalapitan. Sila ang tutulong sayo para maka move on
May mga taong magmamahal pa sayo pagkatapos ng lahat. Na handa kang tanggapin kahit ano ka pa. Bulag kasi ako nung mga panahon na  yun sa pagmamahal na binibigay ko sa kanya.
Hindi magandang makipag Friends sa EX kasi gagamitin ka nya. Para sa mga alibis nya.
At higit sa lahat, tanggalin ang awa
Mag ingat sa mga taong PLASTIC at MANGGAGAMIT

angelzero

  • Chock Full of Hoot
  • Senior GirlTalker
  • ****
  • Posts: 584
  • If you're an evil witch I will punch you for fun!
Re: Lesson learned after the breakup
« Reply #319 on: February 06, 2013, 05:58:36 PM »
first lesson: looks can be deceiving. kala mo good boy ang bf mo pero pwede pa rin sya mag-cheat. nasa loob ang kulo, and weak personality--madaling masungkit ng malandi. at akala ko ok ang hindi nag aaway (kasi nga "mabait" sya supposedly). mas ok na mag away at least concerned kayo sa isa't isa and you want your partner to improve. wag lang palagi kasi disaster din yun.

most important lesson: i'm strong enough to handle a break up. masakit man at mahirap, i can deal with the sh*t w/o regressing by trying to text or call the ex. kahit wala akong makausap kinaya ko. kahit walang shoulder to cry on, i can deal with it on my own.
Right thoughts
Right words
Right action

 

ADVERTISEMENT
follow us
ADVERTISEMENT
ADVERTISEMENT
ADVERTISEMENT
Featured Articles
5 Steps to Financial Fitness in Tough Times
Instead of grumbling about the plight of the peso and dwelling on the negative, try these helpful tips to stay afloat. Remember--a little discipline goes a long way!
You're the breadwinner: Now what?
You want the freedom to spend your money as you wish but you know that if you don’t bring home the bacon, no one else will.
Getting money-wise: Why women are naturally capable of managing cash
She works hard for the money but she doesn’t know how to invest it. Here, Pearlsha Abubakar tells us why women are capable of managing their money well, but don’t. Read and get smart with your money.
Never go broke again! The FN guide to financial freedom-forever!
Fear not bankruptcy or eternal dependence on your parents (or a man!). There's a financial strategy for everybody. Read and get money-wise.
Wise up: Start your own business!
Tired of living from paycheck to paycheck? Why not go into business? Read on and find out how just a little cash can become a lot.