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Author Topic: BOTO ba sa inyo ang parents/family ng bf/gf ninyo?  (Read 37655 times)

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Re: BOTO ba sa inyo ang parents/family ng bf/gf ninyo?
« Reply #40 on: April 05, 2010, 09:36:42 PM »
we haven't officially met each other's kin  pero familiar na sa isat isa like mga siblings namin dahil schoolmates kami before. Mom ko boto sakanya to the point na crush na sya haha! Not sure if boto mom nya sakin pero from what I'm hearing from him accepted na nila and as long na mahal daw sya and mahal nya no problems daw.
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Re: BOTO ba sa inyo ang parents/family ng bf/gf ninyo?
« Reply #41 on: April 05, 2010, 09:48:54 PM »
siguro, kasi si bf ngtatampo pag umuuwi sa kanila, buti pa daw ako hinahanap ng dad nya, sya hindi man lang daw kumustahin...  :)
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Re: BOTO ba sa inyo ang parents/family ng bf/gf ninyo?
« Reply #42 on: May 22, 2010, 11:37:47 AM »
Haha! How I wish na boto sakin parents or family ng "bf" ko. Nakaka-stress, pano ba naman. Nung sismulan palang niya kong ligawan nakita ng mama niya [textspeak!] picture namen sa phone niya. Nagalit ba naman. Consider the fact na ibang lahi kase sila. And his mother wants a girl who's at the same lahi as them. Ngayon patago pa kameng lumalabas. Hndi alam ng parents niya, at for sure pag nalaman, gulo [textspeak!] aabutan niya sa bahay nila:(
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Re: BOTO ba sa inyo ang parents/family ng bf/gf ninyo?
« Reply #43 on: May 22, 2010, 08:55:58 PM »
Hindi :(










Gibo sila. ;D
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Re: BOTO ba sa inyo ang parents/family ng bf/gf ninyo?
« Reply #44 on: May 29, 2010, 11:44:13 PM »
hinde
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Re: BOTO ba sa inyo ang parents/family ng bf/gf ninyo?
« Reply #45 on: May 30, 2010, 12:51:41 PM »
YES! my man's family and relatives love me so much, and I love them just the same, Ive always wanted to belong to a huge family and Im truly blessed by God that he gave me a man whose family i truly adore and go crazy about :)
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Re: BOTO ba sa inyo ang parents/family ng bf/gf ninyo?
« Reply #46 on: June 12, 2010, 06:51:26 AM »
Not sure. hehe.
Although nice naman iyun family ni hubby sa akin - his mom + relatives. Pero siguro minsan talaga may challenges sa siblings.

Ewan, basta feeling ko medyo hindi 100%...or baka suspicious lang talaga hehe.
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Re: BOTO ba sa inyo ang parents/family ng bf/gf ninyo?
« Reply #47 on: June 16, 2010, 04:14:53 AM »
Dati nung bf/gf pa lang kami ni hubby eh gusto ako ng mom nya, pero now na married na kami parang ayaw na sa akin ng MIL ko.  :-\

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Re: BOTO ba sa inyo ang parents/family ng bf/gf ninyo?
« Reply #48 on: June 16, 2010, 02:07:53 PM »
ramdam ko na hindi. which makes me so sad, kasi ikakasal na kami ng aking kasintahan.

2 exes ko, love ako ng families nila both, as in hanggang ngayon may comm pa kami ng mga kapatid nila (although not the exes). they still sometimes ask me kung di ba pwede na maibalik kami ng kapatid nila (although alam naman nila na ikakasal na ako). they love me that much.

his family aren't rude naman sa akin, pero wala akong maramdaman na gusto nila ako. at noong namanhikan, nagmamadali sila na makauwi, at inagahan pa nila ang pagpunta. ayaw gabihin. ano ba naman yung isang gabi e gabihin sila, hindi naman araw2 diba. anyway, they stayed less than 3 hrs, didn't even have dinner. i felt so bad then. His parents talk to me when I go to their place, but his sister and his bro do not. kulang na lang hindi iacknowledge ang presence ko.

may mga nagpayo saken na ako raw ang makipag close closan, pero nahihiya ako, lalo pa at nararamdaman ko na hindi nga nila ako gusto. i don't know, hindi naman sa ayaw ko na magpakasal sa anak nila, pero minsan napapaisip ako na baka later on maging problema ito. kasi parang wala  na rin akong amor sa kanila ngayon. hindi ko naman sila babastusin, hindi naman ako ganoong tao, pero baka di ko sila mahalin, like i wanted to before.

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Re: BOTO ba sa inyo ang parents/family ng bf/gf ninyo?
« Reply #49 on: June 17, 2010, 01:26:33 AM »
^ ako naman sis before nung bf/gf pa lang kami ni hub feeling ko gusto ako ng mom nya. Kasi everytime we visit sa haus nila, his mom gives me clothes, accessories, etc. Mahilid kasi magshop sa ukay-ukay yun MIL ko. Tapos nung malapit na kami ikasal like nung pamanhikan na, parang mejo iba na yung MIL ko. Nung pumunta sila sa haus namin tahimik na sha and hindi nga sila nag-usap man lang ng mom ko. Then nagmadali din sila umalis nun. Yung DIL ko naman saka dad ko parehas makwento so no prob ako sa kanila. Tapos nung kasal na kami ni hub, mejo naging madalang pagvisit namin sa kanila. Pero everytime visit kami dun, hindi na ko gaano kinikibo ng MIL. Di na rin nagbibigay sa akin ng stuff from ukay-ukay. Ang kinainis ko pa is yung minsan pinapapunta nya si hubby duon ng gusto nya mag-isa lang si hubby! Na-offend ako talaga nung marinig ko yun while kausap nya si hub sa phone.

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Re: BOTO ba sa inyo ang parents/family ng bf/gf ninyo?
« Reply #50 on: June 17, 2010, 02:50:08 PM »
nakakalungkot naman, prettygurl.... ako kasi from the start parang cold na, kaya di ko nararamdaman yang nararamdaman mo. ano kaya ang dahilan? ang hirap namang kausapin si MIL mo no, para malaman mo kung ano ang nangyari.

hay, ewan ko ba. nung una naman akong ipinakilala, my fmil even hugged me. tapos parang yun na yun. maybe ayaw nya sakin talaga, nung nakilala na nya ako. although wala naman kaming masyadong interaction. baka naartehan sya or something. i am so sad kasi gusto ko sana maging close sa kanya, wala na kasi mom ko, i thought, parang magkakaroon ako ulit ng mom. yun pala wala rin.

i am hoping pa naman na later e gumaan ang loob niya sa akin pati mga anak nya, my ffil lagi naman nakasmile kaya palagay ko ok lang ako sa kanya. sana pag me apo na sila samin, maging warm naman sya sakin.
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Re: BOTO ba sa inyo ang parents/family ng bf/gf ninyo?
« Reply #51 on: June 18, 2010, 02:15:46 AM »
i know given a chance, they wouldn't choose me for their son. pero since almost 4 years na kami, civil na. before nagpupunta pa ako sa kanila and super behave ako pero may maririnig pa din ako na di maganda. dami namin pinagdaanan na issue sa mga kamag-anak niya. now, never niya ko napapapunta sa house nila. better this way. pareho kaming tahimik ang buhay. mga scenarios na nagkaron kami ng clash:

1. nung first time ko nagdinner sa kanila, shempre i dunno how to act or move. so after dinner umupo na lang ako sa sala. yun pala issue na. sana man lang daw naghugas ako plates. what?!
2. minsan nasa kanila din ako, inabot ako 10 pm sa kanila. pero late na din kami dumating. mga 7 pm na kase nagsimba pa kami pero nung pauwi na, tinanong ako dad niya "di ka ba hinahanap sa inyo?" i said "hindi naman po kase alam naman nila na kasama ko si bf". issue ulit. bastos daw ako dahil nasagot ako. yun pala sarcastic na yung pagkatanong ng father nya.
3. graduation nya, sumama ako. so apat kami. parents ni bf, si bf at ako. isolated ako sa usapan sa sasakyan. nung nasa parking lot kami nagsuot na si bf ng tie. pinapasuot sakin pero sabi nun mom siya na daw magsusuot tapos sabi ba naman "dadi, tingnan mo, bagay kay (bf ko) na nakaneck tie. bagay siya pumasok sa seminary. magpari ka na lang kaya anak?" hello! kasama nyo kaya yung gf ng anak nyo. tapos shempre pagdating sa place, pipila si bf for graduation march, binilin niya ako sa parents niya na isama sa seat. aba, iniwan ako. good thing while on our way, tinext ko na yung cousin ko na sundan ako. so nagkaron ako kasama. sad talaga yun kase while pauwi i was crying in the car and titingin-tingin lang sila.
4. i reviewed for my boards. hindi ko alam na batchmate ko pala DAW sa review center yung cousin ni bf. nalaman ko na lang almost 6 mos after. paano? bday ng pamangkin ni bf and pumunta kami. little did i know, pinagtsitsismisan na pala ako dun ng mga kamaganak ni bf. kase si cousin eh nagkwento na kilala daw ako na nakasama sa review. lage daw siya nakaupo sa unahan ko. and narinig daw nya na sinabi ko sa friend ko na "bwiset talaga yung parents ni (bf ko)!" so galit na galit nanaman sina parents. dun talagang nagalit na ko. kase i know it's not true. first wala seating arrangement sa review center so paiba-iba kami seats ng friends ko so kung lage siya nasa unahan ko, i should have notice her sa bday nung pamangkin ni bf or mamukhaan ko man lang. and wala ako sinasabi masama sa parents niya.


at madami-madami pang iba... lahat ata ng scenario meron.
« Last Edit: June 18, 2010, 02:18:14 AM by ms. independent »
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Re: BOTO ba sa inyo ang parents/family ng bf/gf ninyo?
« Reply #52 on: June 18, 2010, 04:49:13 AM »
^^ haayz.. nakakalungkot talaga. Kasi biro mo akala ko dati gusto ako ng MIL ko tapos biglang parang hindi na. Si DIL naman wala naman ako problem sa kanya, until now ok pa rin naman pakitungo sa akin pag nandun kami sa kanila.
Feeling ko naman, baka nagseselos sa akin si MIL, kasi bunso si hubby saka close kasi sila ni MIL. Tapos nung binata pa kasi si hub sya yung naaasahan ni MIL na tumulong sa kanya sa bahay saka sa business nila. Pero shempre dapat maintindihan nya yun diba, kasi married na si hubby now.
Ang kinaaasar ko pa, ni ayaw man lang bumisita dun sa new haus namin ni hubby. Even si hubby nga may tampo na sa kanya. Kasi parang hindi man lang sya masaya na umaasenso si hubby tapos nakabili na kami ng bahay na sarili.

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Re: BOTO ba sa inyo ang parents/family ng bf/gf ninyo?
« Reply #53 on: June 18, 2010, 07:09:09 AM »
Well ako naman mga sis.. Nung una puro emails and shorts talks lang kami and ok kami kaso when me nangyari, umiwas na sila sa akin. And I felt bad buti nalang si hubby ako pa din kinakampihan. Ako naa nagpakumbaba but I just felt the coldness until they don't respond to me at all... Gusto ko lang naman magandang relationship with my inlaws. Nakakatakot nga kasi baka pag anak na namin ng asawa ko di rin pansinin.hayaan na nga, I have my family din. It they can't like me at all e d wag. Pwedi naman maging civil at all..
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Re: BOTO ba sa inyo ang parents/family ng bf/gf ninyo?
« Reply #54 on: June 18, 2010, 10:08:04 AM »
sis pretty: that must be it, withdrawal syndrome si FMIL mo, kaya nagkakaganyan. siguro mabuti kausapin sya ng hubby mo at mapaliwanagan na naapektuhan ka ng pagbabago nya sa iyo.

sis ms. independent: nakakabwisit naman ang family ni bf mo. parang maswerte pa pala ako at coldness lang ang ipinaparamdam sakin. May naisip pala ako, siguro dahil para sa kanila yung relationship transitions namin ni h2b ay mabilis, since nung ipakilala ako ni h2b sa kanila, ilang buwan lang sinabi namin na magpapakasal na kami.

ang kwento kasi namin ni h2b, tagal na magkabarkada (during that e hindi naman ako nakapunta kina h2b, it wasn't his thing to bring home barkadas, gf lang talaga.) then, after the longest time, niligawan ako and sinagot ko. after a few months, he brought me home, and after another few months, nagsabi na kami na magpapakasal. mabilis si h2b e, nagpropose agad sa unang monthsary namen..... so that may be the reason..... pero sana maramdaman ko yung buong pusong pagtanggap nila. sana soon... apurado ako no...
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Re: BOTO ba sa inyo ang parents/family ng bf/gf ninyo?
« Reply #55 on: June 20, 2010, 01:24:02 AM »
idk i havent met them yet but they both saw me in the picture :P
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Re: BOTO ba sa inyo ang parents/family ng bf/gf ninyo?
« Reply #56 on: June 20, 2010, 01:53:08 AM »
^^ naku sis, sinabi mo pa. pero now we're civil na. we may not be close pero i've learned to keep my distance para tahimik mga buhay namin.
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Re: BOTO ba sa inyo ang parents/family ng bf/gf ninyo?
« Reply #57 on: June 20, 2010, 09:45:42 PM »
I met her family already and so far, so good naman. Pero on my side, since I'm not out sa family ko, I'm sure na they won't approve. :(

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Re: BOTO ba sa inyo ang parents/family ng bf/gf ninyo?
« Reply #58 on: July 08, 2010, 05:14:39 AM »
Ako, I can't say kasi wala ng dad si bf then nasa US yung mom nya. I haven't met her personally. Pero she knows about me and minsan kapag nagpapadala sya ng package, meron dun specifically for me. Which I truly appreciate. Pero ganun lang. When she calls, hindi na naipapasa sa akin ni bf yung phone kasi puro pera ang topic nila. Hindi ako comfy sa ganung discussion nila so parang ok na din sa akin na sila na lang ang mag-usap. Sa brothers nya, ok naman, civil lang. Kasi I don't get to see them naman palagi. Usually pag may special occasions lang.

I just miss the way I was with my ex's family. Parang same situation din, his mom is in the US. Pero my ex was good with handling things eh. Palagi nya ko kinukuwento sa mom nya and he would always let me talk to her sa phone. And nun nagbalikbayan mom nya, dapat kasama ako pagsundo at paghatid. He made it a point as well na kami yung magkatabi sa car. And nagsabi sya na dapat daw habang nasa Pinas pa mom nya, dun ako uuwi sa kanila para maging close kami lalo. His mom was ok with that. After she left again for the US, tumtawag na sya sakin ng diretso, tinatanong kung anong gusto ko para daw alam nya ang ipapadala sakin. And yung mga kapatid ni ex, super ka-close ko like my own siblings. Kaya when we broke up, mas nasaktan ako sa pagkalayo sa family nya. His dad was still contacting me after the break up, and so was his mom. Kapag lumuluwas dito sa manila yun sister nya, sa akin nila pinapatira para daw safe.

I just miss that kind of set up. Yung sa present ko kasi, hindi ko pa masabi. I still have my doubts, especially yung family nila has high standard eh super simple lang ako. :-\
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Re: BOTO ba sa inyo ang parents/family ng bf/gf ninyo?
« Reply #59 on: July 09, 2010, 03:51:25 AM »
ako naman i can't say na they like me or hate me, but i think they like the ex-gf more.
We're out of country kasi then ang family ni hubby and ex nandyan sa manila. Basically, di ko talaga sila na meet pa. Pero we chat and talk sometimes. And ang ex, ka schoolmate ko nung HS. So we talk din naman. So yun, sinasabi nya na yung family nga ni hubby ini-invite siya. Yung SIL/ate ni hubby, they always hang out. Pag meron balita, tapos nakkwento ko sa kanya, sinasabi nya na alam na daw niya kasi tumawag ang mommy ng hubby ko.
Di naman sa nagseselos ako, since supladita din ako at perfectionist paminsan-minsan, tapos baka si hubby nagkkwento sa family niya, so kaya di nila ako feel.
Ok lang ba sa inyo na mas close pa ang ex sa family kaysa sa inyo?
I'm kinda affected na rin eh pag nagkkwento sa akin ang ex. Para rin siyang nakikipag unahan sa akin, pero ako patay malisya nalang para walang gulo:(

 

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