Hindi ko maintindihan si boylet :))

[mayordoma79]

Hi guys! Newbie ako sa FN at first time ko magtanong after ko mag enjoy ng ilang days sa kakabasa ng mga thread -- alam ko i'll gain a suitable advice kaya isshare ko na yung concern ko

Hindi ko kasi maintindihan si boy ahaha to begin with malabo [textspeak!] ang set up

I met him sa isang conference so maayos na situation naman yung 1st mtg namin. He caught my eye nun pero dedma lang natapos yung event ng hindi kme naguusp. Since may online forum [textspeak!] conference dun cya nag message skn after -- tanong nya kng anong exactly yung work ko we exchange a couple of emails tas yung huli he asked for my number tas after mga 2 weeks nagtxt naman cya

For the past 9 months, on and off ang texting namin pero consistent naman na after mga 2 or 3 weeks naguusap na ulit kme. We talk about life, work (pareho kme ng industry), sex and many other things -- yep hindi na kme minor de edad so okay lang -- naging honest naman cya na he has the hots for me pero [textspeak!] ko i'll have to think about that -- it's too early. so recuring topic cya at okay [textspeak!] tamang landi kami w/ each other fun lungss Last December nagkaaminan na kme ng feelings -- we mutually like each other at clear nsbi yun

Fast forward to 2 weeks ago, he asked again about dun sa no commitment thing namin kng ready na ko and I said yes -- at si loko hindi nagreply ahahahahaha tho i gave these conditions...
1. Kailangn niya mag paramdam at least once a day
2. We'll have safe and responsible intercourse
3. We can meet others pero yng ganung level kami n [textspeak!] sana

Ayun,
1. Did I scare him away with the conditions?
2. Sexy time lang kaya ang habol nito?
3. Wag ko na kauspin pagbmlik? Ahaha chos

Naicp ko lang na i have to play it smart kasi hindi ko [textspeak!] cya officially jowa pa kaya nag initiate ako ng guidelines haha Napahaba na pala ahahaha ayun lang po any POV would help thank yooou

[17arci]

^ I think sexy time nga lang ang habol nya. Kaya di sya nagreply. Hehe.

Being a girl, mahirap yung papasukin mong sitch, kasi mas emotional tayo. Guys can handle a no-commitment relationship better than girls do. And you having had given him conditions indicates that you are hoping to have a committed relationship.

[lei0418]

sis mahirap ang ganyang set up,yung guy lang ang win-win diyan,at the end sa tingin mo sinong talo kahit ba sabihin pa natin na no feelings attached kayo, babae kapa rin sis,ikaw ang lugi,wag mo na replayan have some dignity,maraming lalake diyan na hindi magsesettle sa ganyang klaseng set up lang,kung di ka pa din ready sa serious relationship wag ka pa rin pumayag sa ganyang mga klaseng case,sorry for the term sis ah (better safe than be laspag) hehe

[amethyst028]

Tinatanong pa ba iyan sis?

Obvious naman na sexy time lang kasi gusto niya no commitment kayo. On and off ang communication niyo kasi baka ina-ask ka lang niya pag nababakante siya. When he is done with his last gurl and on the look out for new one na naman siya. He is checking kung ready ka na. Pag hindi hanap ulit siya ng iba. Maalala ka lang niya pag wala pa prospect.

And hindi na siya nag reply kasi baka hindi niya type condition niyo mo.

Let him be at huwag mo na replyan kung ang habol mo e pang seryoso. Kung laro lang din gusto mo go, but at your own risk. You know what i mean.