1st BF -- everybody was neutral. Coz we were very, very young. Tuta love lang daw, sabi ni yaya.
2nd BF -- everybody was botong botong boto with me, including the barangay of his Pampanga ancestral home. I think his lola loved me as much as he did.
The almost-3rd BF == botong boto the mom too, coz I made her son very happy. unfortunately, before we could take off with our relationship... he got killed in Mindanao (he was a Marine officer, just out of the PMA)
Hubby, as my BF -- nobody liked me. But they did not dare show that to me, except for a SIL who really had rude manners. They thought coz I was much younger, I would just be a spoiled wife. LOL Now that they have seen how much of a working asset (not idle, not frozen asset nor just decorative) -- my MIL loves me to bits.. it drives that 1 dummy SIL nuts. There, I have my continuing revenge. LOL
How did I know? Actions speak louder than words, sabi nga ng lola ko. Watch what they do or how they act towards you... no more, no less... do not read what is not there.