NBSB Ladies, anyone? :)

[@JLO]

repost ko to hehe ito pa from master ramon "matagal ko nang sinasabi sa inyo na pag may gusto kayo sa isang tao, iparamdam nyo lang at pag nailang sya, sabihin mo, "feeeeliiiinggggg" <3"

landi level na acceptable sa boys: 3.5 - 8 yan....

[littlekinselle]

If she really isn't pretty, there isn't much that can be done about that.

Subukan niyang lumandi.  Baka may mahatak siya.

I'm serious, by the way.

haha, sorry mr. punch natawa ako sa comment mo  !! but i agree with u

[slurpee]

wow sprinkledust, sobrang concerned na concerned ka din sa friend mo noh? ang dami nang advice dito, pabasa mo sa kanya lahat ito, i'm sure madami na syang matututunan, lalo na sa mga nasulat ni janix athena. sabihin mo na kelangan gawin din nya yung part nya, like mag-effort lumabas labas, dress up, magpaganda ganyan, kasi kung puro advice nga ang mga sisses dito pero puro mukmok naman sa bahay ang ginagawa nya, wala talagang mangyayari sa kanya. remember, ayaw ng boys ng nega

teka, friend mo ba talaga, or baka naman ikaw ito sprinkledust

[llemija]

^Sis naramdaman mo ba na pwedeng gusto ka rin ni guy?

I would suggest you proceed with caution. Sa tagal nyong magkaibigan bakit kaya hindi nya nagawang mag-aya ng date sayo ng deretso? Kung nagsabi pa sya kay girl friend na ihanap sya ng date, eh malamang nagpaparamdam sya sa girl na yun, hoping na sya mismo ang maging date?

So ganito na lang sis, at this point kung maging matchmaker si mutual friend nyo, enjoy the date but do NOT have any expectations na it will lead to a romantic involvement. I'm not discouraging you ha, it's possible he also has feelings for you, BUT, if you have expectations from the start, hindi ka magiging natural and would act self-consciously kasi nga you are heavily invested na sana magustuhan ka rin nya. So when you don't have expectations, you will act more genuine, more natural, and whatever happens, remember that you will have a good time, enjoy the movie, the dinner, the conversation, kahit hindi ka nya magustuhan.

Having said that, it would help to be beautiful for the date, not to please him ha, but to be your most confident self, so you're not distracted thinking your hair is unmanageable or your dress is ill-fitting instead of focusing on having fun. Ayt?

thank you sis! highly appreciated! tama ka i should not expect.

[Girltalker2]

thank you sis! highly appreciated! tama ka i should not expect.

sis wishing you luck!  how is it so far?

hanap karin ng ibang crush para di 100% attention mo eh sa kanya.

[Girltalker2]

Hi annlegolas , my friend is the same, nbsb is is turning 30 this year. She feels sad all the time too that she doesn't even feel like going out...

you see ah, one has only 2 options: 

1.  live the same miserable life, at lalong maging katawa tawa sa mga pintaserang housewives with kids and husband at ng mga matatanda?  you feel ugly and that is what you will really get, further confirmations from society will come again and again. 

OR

2. live life responsibly and within your control. live life however you want it, staying pretty and prettier, and wiser by the day. pagtingin sa iyo ng ibang tao - geesh, 30 na sya, bakit kaya wala pang bf?  iisipin nila, ayaw mo, it's your choice. sa ganda/saya mo nyan, bakit wala pa raw bf?  eh sa ayaw mo!  may date ka naman lagi, pero walang bf?  so?

[llemija]

sis wishing you luck!  how is it so far?

hanap karin ng ibang crush para di 100% attention mo eh sa kanya.

naku sis, since mtgal na yung post ko eh. walang nangyari. siguro nga we're not meant to be talaga. pero there this new guy ngayon sis, he's 2 years younger than me. we went out na a couple of times na. we talked every night over the phone. tapos he went out of town (sa hometown niya) for a week tapos pag balik na dito eh nag usap naman kami and went out. 2 days after, since nung last time kami lumabas hanggang sa tinatype ko ito eh i never heard anything from him, no calls nor text. i'm trying to call him but he didn't answer. di ko alam sis kung ginagawa lang nya ito kasi nagpapa-miss or kabaligtaran. nga pla, we held hands na. so medyo complicated.

[@JLO]

so typical with boys... why then suddenly disappear >.<

[broken_heart]

NBSB ako till I turned 26 years old (im 28 na). I'm not pretty, guys don't ask me out, and those who did hindi rin kagwapuhan (as in walang itsura) so di ko rin type (may taste pa rin naman ako). 

I WAITED A LONG TIME...then...

I met my bf at work, hindi expected, and now were engaged to be married and couldn't be any happier

So ladies, wag nyo madaliin, it will happen. BE PATIENT and hustle while you wait

[@JLO]

like yung nasa taas

[chinxys4]

I'm 26. Nbsb din ako pero may mga nanliligaw naman sakin kaso pihikan kasi ako and meron na akong muntik magka bf kaso eventually ndi din natuloy kasi ngkaron siya ng ibang gf. So nagcontribute yung situation na yun na mahirap ipagkatiwala ang puso kasi masakit  masaktan.. Kaya ngayon dating lang.. Pero nakakapressure kasi mga kinakasal na mga barkada ko,

gusto ko din naman magkaron ng speacial someone. Sana makilala ko na siya.. Hehe

[gwenniedale]

@JLO

^Last time I check, hindi pag-kain ang mga babae, hindi bagay. If a guy really wants the girl, he should have the guts to pursue her.

^Yung mga lalaking ganyan, gusto lang ng easy to get. Yung girl na madali makuha dahil alam na nya kung pano kunin. Tamad mangligaw. Gusto instant relationship na. Yung mga taong ganyan, hindi pangmatagalan.

Your right sis... It happened to me many times..
Tpos ssbhin png Hindi kasi cla mrunong Mnligaw..

Gusto [textspeak!] [textspeak!] ng girls n mprmdam s Kanila Kung gaano sila kamahal,

[KittiEKittiE]

It's nice to know na hindi ako nagiisa, NBSB here as well

I'm 26 now, yet happy to be single. Of course, may mga times na gusto ko rin maramdaman how it feels like to be in a relationship pero kasi mahirap na makatagpo ngayon ng seseryosohin ka. I've had suitors naman, choosy lang talaga ako hehe and yung mga nagustuhan ko before its either may gf na or gusto lang makipaglaro and I don't have time for that. Masaya naman ako, and lagi naman ako sinasabihan na i-enjoy ko lang daw kasi iba na pag may karelasyon ka or yung may asawa na. May times na nabored ako kaya natry ko na rin ang online dating. Not really to have a bf (possibility siguro) but meeting new friends, someone to hang out with. Ok naman experience ko sa ganun, but I realize masaya pa ko na single ako

[oshiawase]

Count me in! No suitor since birth din ako and its by choice and I'm 26 na. Meron nagkakagusto sa akin pero di naman nila tinutuloy. Ewan ko kung bakit. Baka takot sila sa akin kasi mukha daw akong suplada. Ayoko din yung sasabihan ka palagi na darating din yan kasi by choice nga eh so kahit dumating pa yan eh keber ko. I'm happy being single and I choose to stay single forever.

Pareho tayo. NBSB din ako. May "nagpaparamdam" na asaran lang pero hindi naman natutuloy sa formal na ligawan. Well, hindi din naman ako maganda at hindi din naman ako umeeffort mag ayos at lumandi kaya siguro ganun. Tsaka medyo acads and focus ko all this time. Introvert din so first impression ng iba suplada ako.

Pero napapaisip ako kung yan lang ba ang mga dahilan kung bakit walang formal na nanliligaw?

haaayyy... ayokong tumandang dalaga

I'm 20 btw.

[oshiawase]

may nagsabi sa kin dati that my prince is on his way na, baka naligaw lang and maybe he's just too stubborn to ask for directions

Cute naman nito. Pero ako minsan tinatanong ko if in the first place nasa lifetime ko ba siya? hahahah!

[oshiawase]

ang pagakakaintindi ko kasi dun is that... like eating out,,, when u know someone had ate there already at masarap daw... u would give it a try else pag wala pa sa barkada mo naka try nun... clueless ka and you wont waste time... to go there and check it out.... so ang babaeng single .. is like ayaw ng guy na sya ang mag try kung pano ligawan tong babaeng to... else aantay sya ng iba to do that and if that works.. nasa queue na nya yun haha

Hindi ba ang lungkot nyan? so pano tayo na nbsb at yung mga nssb meaning wala ng pag-asa?

May maglalakas loob ba na lalaki?

Nalulungkot tuloy ako pag kasama ko mga friends ko na may bf...lagi na lang mag tumatawag sakinila after class na bf nila asking them if they're okay and stuff like that. eh ako kahit magulang ko hindi ganun (not that I want them to constantly check on me) hahaha!

NAKAKA FRUSTRATE!

[@JLO]

Hindi ba ang lungkot nyan? so pano tayo na nbsb at yung mga nssb meaning wala ng pag-asa?

May maglalakas loob ba na lalaki?

Nalulungkot tuloy ako pag kasama ko mga friends ko na may bf...lagi na lang mag tumatawag sakinila after class na bf nila asking them if they're okay and stuff like that. eh ako kahit magulang ko hindi ganun (not that I want them to constantly check on me) hahaha!

NAKAKA FRUSTRATE!

ei... please dont be.. though ako ay ganyan na din pero... no wag kasi nega yan ehhh....


#1: Magpaganda ka. If you feel na di ka maganda then do,,, kasi the way you would look at urself would also change.. magpaganda para sa sarili... ako i make sure I look good everyday... siguro sa sobrang baba ng self esteem ko haha... nung natuto akong mag ayos ni araw araw ko na... Guys are 100% visual.. so ito talga yung una mapapansin...

#2: Be interesting... You have ur own set of gusto... wag typical girl... me mga bagay na pag nalaman ng guy sayo ay maaamazed sila... since surely they are not getting to any typical girl..
sample: youre into sports/books/volunteering act... or kaya you love cooking... you love radio. anything at all...

#3: Never say never. lol... Ako I have faith darating yan iyun na lang imindset natin... basta habang wala pa sya... I would be my best so when he comes... it would be happiness at di kami mamomoblema, na I was this, I was like that.. kasi nabuo mo na sarili mo when he comes...
Youre happiness would be for the two of you, and not for him to fill the loneliness in you... I dont know if I am making sense >.<. Do not go in to relationship dahil gusto mo lang mapasaya ka nya... If youre not happy being single then theres no way you would be happy being in a relationship,, so while hes not yet coming... lets make the best of us .

#4: Maging frendly, smile always... wag maging allergic/awkward towards boys... this would shoo/choo??? them away...

#5: It all boils down to standard... if you want to be happy... then lower ur standards and expectation.. just make sure youre getting what you deserve... its how you would make it that would make it special.. do not point out what the other person lacks, but what the person has to offer...

ahmm... be happy... life is so special... but of course it maybe be a lot happier if we share it to someone...

di na nga pala ko nbsb... pero im single anyway

[@JLO]

hello sprinkledust,

#you know what, this somewhat bothers me. you, constantly reaching out to help a friend out...
i read it somewhere when, someone said na ikaw daw to... na me situation na to...


#wth → she doesn't deserve to feel pretty and look good. !!!
--- everybody deserves this!,
--- everybody can...

#hmmm... i really cant help. i can said a lot, even copy paste all the things i saw in the net... on the book i read.. pero nasa sayo yan.. if you dont believe, then theres nothing we can do for her...

#puro doesnt lang ang nabasa ko sa post... wala man lang she can...

#there are things in life that would really make you feel down, that you in your own self would create/make ways to revert that or do anything that would make you feel good, just to lessen the sadness you feel... like if after a break up, you go shopping.. you do something that would make you happy once again... maybe shes not truely lonely, cause if she was... gumawa na sya ng paraan para man lang sumaya sya..

#honestly.. does she even try putting make up on? if she has a budget.. surely we can help her out.. in outside beauty alone...

[wanderinglass]

Me. I'm 20. Mix din e. Busy din kasi sa school pero there are times na nalulungkot din ako. Gusto ko din namn ng by the end of the day, may nasasabhan ng problems at ng kasiyahan. Laging malamig ang christmas ko. Nakaka-bitter din pag valentines kasi walang partner.

Medyo mataas din kasi standards ko. And choosy. Hindi rin ako magaling in dealing with guys.

[izzybaby]

i'm 28. there were moments in the past that i felt frustrated. but now, i'm happy to be alone. ayoko ng bato na ipupukol ko sa ulo ko. singlehood is happiness. i can embrace my freedom completely.