NBSB Ladies, anyone? :)

[Chinito]

i'm 28. there were moments in the past that i felt frustrated. but now, i'm happy to be alone. ayoko ng bato na ipupukol ko sa ulo ko. singlehood is happiness. i can embrace my freedom completely.

Hahah, kapatid bakit naman bato ang turing mo sa pakikipag relasyon? wala bang good side ang pagkakaroon ng partner?   sa totoo lang ako single din, i would say that im happy being single. i can do whatever i want. no emotional commitment, focus sa work, less responsibility, less gastos , walang nakiki elam, walang susuyuin etc etc.
 pero at the end of the day it's just me and the 4 corners of my room. i felt something is still missing.

[lady_liberty]

i just turned 29 and still nbsb, and honestly it makes me feel sad.
before it was by choice, i wasn't emotionally ready. immature pa and ayaw ko ng may nanliligaw, gusto ko friends lang palagi..
then i had this wonderful guy who i was also in love with pero i had to choose between school or him (i was taking up law then)
and i chose my studies/career kasi i needed to focus
and dapat no distractions..
so i had to let him go, and i've regretted that decision ever since.

ngayon, i have all the time in the world pero parang wala nang dumadating...
i miss the feeling of being in love and i want to have that again
pero i don't know if dadating pa 

[KittiEKittiE]

^^ I totally agree. Kahit single and happy, there are times pa rin na maiisip mo how it feels like to have someone special. Can't help minsan isipin na baka napagiiwanan na ko. Pero madami pa rin naman ako kilalang single gaya ko so I'm not in a rush. Pero sana before 30 maexperience ko naman magka bf

[oshiawase]

Me. I'm 20. Mix din e. Busy din kasi sa school pero there are times na nalulungkot din ako. Gusto ko din namn ng by the end of the day, may nasasabhan ng problems at ng kasiyahan. Laging malamig ang christmas ko. Nakaka-bitter din pag valentines kasi walang partner.

Medyo mataas din kasi standards ko. And choosy. Hindi rin ako magaling in dealing with guys.

OMG PAREHAS TAYO. While reading your post, I had to check who posted it kasi akala ko ako!!!

super same sentiments, and 20 yo din ako.

IM SUPER HOPELESS NA.

[@JLO]

20 and hopeless... ano beh.... c'mon me mga ate pa kayo dito na same situation...

[mynameisjuaiy]

20 pa lang nab-bother na...don't be...hay nako the last time na nag post ako sa thread na to 2010 pa. until now nbsb pa rin...kakalungkot pero ganun talaga.minsan life is not so fair. anyhow, "we're rare species" i was told by a guy pa ha...again, gooduck to us! cheers!

[@JLO]

.... cannot send PM message to... block daw oh why

[Girltalker2]

Mga girls! don't lose hope. Ano ba iyan.

Please watch the movie - Groundhog day.  Though this is from a guy's perspective, puede din naman sa girls.  Sometimes we keep on seeing things outside of us. Why not start looking inward - and develop your inner beauty.  Work on yourself, and be the best person you can be. Before you know it, he will come, unexpectedly.

[lanee_beu]

may thread for nbsb pala i was an nbsb member before, 25year old na ako nag kaboyfriend at now happily married and with a baby. Before it was a choice also, then i realized napag iiwanan na ako ng mga kabatch ko, kasi most of them are married na or may bf na. don't worry guys, just pray lang, pinagppray tlg sila samahan mo na rin ng sipag maghanap

[iammegirl]

nakakainis kasi ako na lang ata ang hindi pa nakakanood ng breaking dawn 2!! lahat ng friends ko nakawatch na with their boyfies. huhu anyone? movie tayo!

[WildShy]

20 pa lang nab-bother na...don't be...hay nako the last time na nag post ako sa thread na to 2010 pa. until now nbsb pa rin...kakalungkot pero ganun talaga.minsan life is not so fair. anyhow, "we're rare species" i was told by a guy pa ha...again, gooduck to us! cheers!

hehe natawa naman ako dito.. pero tama naman yung nagsabi sayo, rare species na ang mga lalake.. lalo na yung mga TUNAY na lalake. haha! anyway, NBSB din at 26.. nakakapressure lalo na ngayon yung cousin ko na ka edad ko just got engaged.. puputaktihin na naman ako ng kantyaw ng mga kapatid ko. most of the times, im thinking kung ano bang mali sa akin. di naman ako pangit, mabait naman ako.. pero di talaga ako attractive yata sa mga lalaki. sinasabi ko sa mga tao na nagtatanong, career muna, pero deep inside, I'm kind of hurting kasi parang feeling ko I'm bound to be alone.. anong petsa na oh! I love reading Nicholas Sparks novels dati, nakakinlove, nakakainspire pero parang lalo ako nadedepress after.. hai.. :') smile na lang.. baka busy pa magpayaman yung guy na para sa akin..

[KittiEKittiE]

pag naaalala kong single pa rin ako, naaalala kong bumisita sa thread na to. nababawasan yung pagiging sad ko kasi I know na marami pa ding single kagaya ko, nakakawala ng lungkot hihi thanks to this thread

[inluvewithmikewesten]

Turned 31 last month. Still NSSB and NBSB. And I have friends asking me na if tanggap ko na natatandang dalaga ako! Hahay!

[jtansanco]

How about no girlfriend since birth?

I'm 24 and I have a feeling my dad thinks I'm gay.. LOL

It's kinda difficult because I'm a bit choosy. I'm trying to start my own business and I'm an introvert so I don't have the luxury of being in a crowd and mingle.. So hard to try and meet new people.. 

[mynameisjuaiy]

Sis WildShy, I meant ang nagsabi na "we're rare species" was a guy na hindi NGSB. He just say na rare species na yung since birth walang bf. hehe... me too. my cousin actually got married and may baby na sila ngayon. ayun...imagine mo na lang yung inggit ko. ganun talaga.

[iammegirl]

@JLO sis hindi kita mareplyan sa PM. hhehe something wrong with it. Nwei thanks sa offer mo na samahan ako sa breaking dawn haha well, napanuod ko na sya pinilit ko sis ko haha

[@JLO]

hindi ako mareplayan sa PM o m... >.< anyare.. nice to hear ... let me check my account or the admin hehe

[iammegirl]

pag naaalala kong single pa rin ako, naaalala kong bumisita sa thread na to. nababawasan yung pagiging sad ko kasi I know na marami pa ding single kagaya ko, nakakawala ng lungkot hihi thanks to this thread

Same Here!!! hahah well atleast alam kong hindi ako nag iisa.. Wish ko this xmas "Sana lahat ng nag post sa thread na to magka ovelife na!!" Im soooo looking forward na mangyare yun..  SANA! 

[emiii]

Just turned 25 last week. Still NBSB, never even dated. LOL
I need to do a lot of things to improve myself. Yung five years after I graduated has been the worst. 
I badly need to relocate for a new start. Hopefully matuloy na talaga next year.

[EmC_87]

finally, NBSB girls like me! been the president of the club for the past 25 years, going on 26 in a few weeks.

i see most people get comments such as people think they are intimidating or mataray but in my case, i'm actually a bubbly and outgoing person. I think I'm NBSB because I choose the wrong guys. May mga nanliligaw or nagpaparamdam but most of the time, ayaw ko sa kanila and the ones i like are not good guys i always seem to end up falling for guys na player pala or jerk (yung tipong ide-date ka ng months tapos bigla nalang mawawala or magsasawa). mas malaki ata ang problema ko, haha.

but given that i know my pattern, i've decided after the last guy I dated that i'll focus on getting to know and loving myself first. i feel the pressure from family, friends and society but i decided to let it go. i think falling for jerks is a sign of low self esteem. on the outside i'm a confident girl but i guess insecurities come out when i'm with someone already. the last time i "dated" someone, i became such a pushover which turned him off. hopefully, in fixing myself, i'll attract and fall for the right person 

thoughts?