Author Topic: Mga magandang gawin after ng Breakup (Read 15136 times)

wookies · « **Reply #20 on:** December 05, 2009, 07:11:49 am »

- go shopping
- pamper yourself
- go out with your friends
- date again

galadriel · « **Reply #21 on:** December 05, 2009, 07:18:05 pm »

i've realized it's a process pala talaga. una.. crayola ever! hindi naman kase talaga mapipigilan dahil Lord! ang sakeeet! buti na lang i have very good friends around me. hinayaan lang nila kong umiyak. tapos napagod na ko... in my case mga 2 days yun na namamaga ang mata ko at mukmok lang ako. nung ayoko nang umiyak, bukod sa wala nang lumabas na luha eh nagsawa na rin ata ako, that's when i started to realize i have to move on at mas magadang pag-aralan na hindi ko na pag bumalik sya eh di ko na sya babalikan kahit manigas sya sa harapan ko. Dito na pumasok ang self pampering, shopping, etc. may lonely moments pa rin pero dahil nga i was determined to move on, i'm still able to bounce back. it took a while before i went back to dating again, but at least i am much wiser this time.

muahmuahmuah · « **Reply #22 on:** December 06, 2009, 02:00:22 am »

plan your life. slowly. nows a good time to rearrange plans and goals. minsan even in a slump lumalakas loob mo and you become impulsive after a breakup. you get this 'i can conquer the world feeling' and do anything. just dont do anything that can be destructive or that will destroy you especially if you still have abandonment issues going on in your head. may iba kasi they become evil flirts or vicious bitches. just dont be the girl who'll behave badly and cause mischief. keep taking care of yourself in mind body and soul.

madam cruella · « **Reply #23 on:** December 06, 2009, 02:33:33 am »

shop
travel
be with friends
pray
study whatever interests you (photography, painting, MBA, law..)
exercise

yaskulet · « **Reply #24 on:** December 08, 2009, 12:16:48 pm »

make over!

explore things about you
travel alone

potchi · « **Reply #25 on:** December 08, 2009, 05:38:22 pm »

eto mga unang ginawa ko..

1. had a haircut.

everybody loves it! haha
2. i lose weight talaga, due to depression.. hindi ako nkakain for almost two weeks, pero maganda naman naging resulta, naging sexy daw ako lalo! haha!
3. i go out with my friends every week
4. shopping galore!
5. movie marathon (yung mga comedy dapat ha! hehe)
6. inalis ko na lahat ng mkakapagconnect samin. para wala na ko balita sakanya totally
7. sabi ng friend ko habang andyan yung pain, feel it. wag mong i-suppress, kasi mas mahirap yun, sasabog ka. :p
8. pray a LOT. it really works.

potchi · « **Reply #26 on:** December 08, 2009, 05:42:43 pm »

PAHABOL:

9. manicure/pedicure ever
10. massage, massage
11. have new friends
12. read a lot of books.

13. ulitin ko lang at emphasize: PRAY A LOT.

choleb · « **Reply #27 on:** December 11, 2009, 10:19:34 am »

Pamper yourself

Do the things you want to do

Travel alone

carmilina · « **Reply #28 on:** December 24, 2009, 05:15:55 pm »

pray it works..

daan ka church always..it really helps...

beautiful lady · « **Reply #29 on:** January 01, 2010, 03:19:01 am »

gym so you can feel better about yourself...
pamper yourself
self improvement by reading books and activities that interest you

lilstar · « **Reply #30 on:** January 01, 2010, 06:25:16 am »

cry
pamper yourself
meet new friends
keep yourself busy lang
change your phone number
if possible lipat ka ng apartment para di ka nya mapuntahan.
pray hard..

mooncake and leaves · « **Reply #31 on:** January 04, 2010, 12:52:34 pm »

Quote from: alexandrea on December 04, 2009, 08:30:54 am

Magpa-sexy ka, mare. Be devastatingly sexy. Kung sexy ka na, get sexier.

puwede ko ba itong gawing signature? haha. panalo eh. laveet!

forumera · « **Reply #32 on:** January 04, 2010, 01:12:10 pm »

After a break-up sa ayaw at sa gusto mo sigurado iiyak ka, wag mo pigilan, ito ang unang dapat gawin. Kapag pagod ka na sa kakaiyak, mag pray, magpasalamat at humingi ng lakas para sa panibagong chapter ng life mo. I agree sa karamihan, HAIR CUT it is.

luvluv · « **Reply #33 on:** January 04, 2010, 02:08:56 pm »

r e t a i l therapy hehe

shop shop shop! and get a haircut, change your haircolor, go out with your friends, rekindle friendships, think of past mistakes, work on your self and start anew! and pray that the next boyfriend will be better than the one you just had.

boracay2862 · « **Reply #34 on:** January 13, 2010, 11:22:43 am »

Concentrate with my work, and make myself busy!

gneybee · « **Reply #35 on:** January 16, 2010, 07:23:48 pm »

1. cry if you must....that will help you a lot..
2. go out with true friends
3. stop listening to your fave songs, it will just add up to your sadness
4. stop communicating , no texts, no calls better yet delete his contact numbers and delete him from your friends' list
5. mag maganda....wagmagmukmok
6. make yourself busy...

kachingkaching · « **Reply #36 on:** January 17, 2010, 10:49:20 pm »

ako, go out with my girl friends tapos sa kanila ako nag vent out. drink beers. party. cry. had a new haircut.

basta make yourself busy.

justbeingme · « **Reply #37 on:** January 18, 2010, 04:23:02 pm »

- Read. Read. Read. Self-help books. Inspiring books.
- Stay away from lovestories be it on tv or movies. Malulungkot ka lang. Mag-eemote ka lang. Be kind to yourself.
- Stop browsing through the pictures of friends/relatives who are in a relationship be it in FS, FB, Multiply. Even if you tell yourself you are happy for them, there is a big chance madedepress ka habang minumura ka ng pictures nila showing namamayagpag ang kanilang lovelife while you are in a "temporary setback" mode.
- Surround yourself with good people, nice people. Stay away from people who are sources of negativism.
- Help people even if you need help too. It is very therapeutic.
- Watch the news. It will constantly remind you that there are problems in the world far bigger than a broken heart.
- To date or not is your choice. For me lang, as long as you have not regained back your normal self yet better not to date muna. Kasi wala ka pa sa tamang pag-iisip. You are lonely so even if the person is not a good choice you will settle just to alleviate the loneliness. You might end up doing something you will regret later on.
- Sleep. Good for the tired mind and body.
- Pray. Only God can give you the peace you long for. Kahit hindi ka magsalita. Just be in His presence.

mimilovespurple · « **Reply #38 on:** January 24, 2010, 10:27:56 am »

-cry
-shop
-eat
-do things that interest you/will take your mind off of him. (read/exercise/draw etc.)

give yourself some time to heal. it took me almost two years before i finally moved on and to realize that he's not going to be mine anymore. now we're friends, and i'm happily attached to my new bf of 8 months.

justbeingme · « **Reply #39 on:** January 28, 2010, 03:20:44 am »

Visit friends and relatives whom you haven't seen in a long time. Relatives sa province or abroad na matagal ng nag-iinvite for you to come over. Yung mga lolo/lola, tito/tita na gusto kayong makita na matagal na kayong hindi nakikita ever. Maybe this time you can give in to these invitations kasi kapag pumunta ka sa kanila they will really give you a warm welcome and will really treat you well. Kahit 1 long weekend lang pwede na. Pero kung sa states ang punta nyo e habaan nyo ng konti sayang airfare e. LOL.

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