Author Topic: What if he tells you "i like you"? (Read 8544 times)

baby_pipes · « **on:** November 22, 2009, 12:26:41 pm »

Hi!

tingin nyo ba parang mahal nya narin yung girl or parang crush lang talaga and nothing more.

TIA

aquacharly · « **Reply #1 on:** November 22, 2009, 01:09:54 pm »

Take it at face value, go slowly, do not read more into it.
It can play out horizontally ... as in you become good friends, or spend time together as friends due to a common interest like a sport.... or it can play out into a love affair.

Importante -- do not rush it, hwag mong pangunahan or else.. you may just make a fool of yourself or end up heartbroken.

Just enjoy the friendship as it unfolds.

muahmuahmuah · « **Reply #2 on:** November 22, 2009, 01:33:29 pm »

like is just like. it's not love if it is why say like. interested maybe but he still needs to give out more for the liking to progress. no need to sugar coat words. it is what it is.

picked this up from a movie i just saw yesterday...its the same line guys would use to get into a girls pants.

baby_pipes · « **Reply #3 on:** November 23, 2009, 08:55:43 am »

I see.. Maybe he's still just confused about his feelings towards the person.

muahmuahmuah · « **Reply #4 on:** November 23, 2009, 10:52:47 am »

nah no need to deceive or pussyfoot around it with maybe's. if you want a little more explanation have him define what like means to him.

baby_pipes · « **Reply #5 on:** November 23, 2009, 11:23:38 am »

sabagay... ako kasi ganun din eh.. i go straight to the point para malinaw lahat....

kaso may mga magugulo rin kasing guy

juliefiona_22 · « **Reply #6 on:** November 23, 2009, 11:37:50 am »

Quote from: baby_pipes on November 23, 2009, 11:23:38 am

sabagay... ako kasi ganun din eh.. i go straight to the point para malinaw lahat....

kaso may mga magugulo rin kasing guy

korek ka dyan,sis. may mga guys kasi na mapalabok un pala hindi love yung like. toinks!!!

baby_pipes · « **Reply #7 on:** November 23, 2009, 11:55:48 am »

Quote from: juliefiona_22 on November 23, 2009, 11:37:50 am

korek ka dyan,sis. may mga guys kasi na mapalabok un pala hindi love yung like. toinks!!!

Korek! there are guys na yung like nila eh love pala... hmm magulo...

anyone here na may nagsabi sa kanila na guy ng ganito?

queenjadis · « **Reply #8 on:** November 23, 2009, 12:53:10 pm »

^er, they say that a lot & then start acting all weird. Sometimes it could be amusing to watch for after all, who wouldn't be flattered to hear endearment, eh especially from a dude one likes too?

But if it's a HE one does not like, doesn't that make one just bolt for the door? Hehe.

Daphna · « **Reply #9 on:** November 23, 2009, 11:09:51 pm »

Like is like unless he does an external act to show that that "like" is something else. I had a guy told me he like me but after he said that he didn't do anything. So don't go beyond or imagine beyond those words because you'll just disappoint yourself.

earl223 · « **Reply #10 on:** November 24, 2009, 06:47:33 pm »

If a guy says "I like you," from out-of-the-blue then he is actually waiting for a reaction... or more like "testing the waters" to see if kakagat ka. If you say you like him too, then your relationship (from his point of view) can go beyond friendship. Kung dedma ka, then you can expect him to keep his distance... mga guys na ganyan naninigurado.

But if a guy says "I like you," when somewhat pressured to share his feelings for a girl, or when a girl confesses na she feels something for the guy... then it means just that. He likes you... as a friend, and whether or not it will go beyond that, only time can tell.

kyuting13 · « **Reply #11 on:** November 24, 2009, 07:12:59 pm »

Naku... I sort off have this experience. The guy says to me na like nya ako. Ako, well I dont take it as anything more than it is. Kasi like is different from love for a relationship. So we dated for 2 years, kamusta naman, from college till we graduated. My friends said na nagsabi sa kanila yung guy na love nya ako. Haller, public declaration of affection, kasi never naman nya ito sinabi sa akin.

Then I had a guy friend who tested him. He sent an SMS asking kung ok lang liligawan nya ako, aba ang sagot well he can't do much about it. So yun na yun, it means naglolokohan lang kami kasi hindi kami magiging kami. After I sent the guy an sms and said we should stop seeing each other. Ang sagot sa akin he's not ready for a relationship.

Sobrang habang panahon pa na our friends would always tease us. I moved on and now I'm married. Last I spoke to him he said he has never had a long relationship with anyone since us (sige na nga, relationship na para sa kanya hehe).

Just don't give meaning to it. Like is like and if the guy is serious liligawan ka nya and will say na love ka nya.

mooncake and leaves · « **Reply #12 on:** November 25, 2009, 01:02:43 pm »

i could say, "hey, same here! i like myself too! apir!" harhar.

nah like is like. that's it. perhaps in time, it can grow into something deeper. then again, maybe not. but just because someone likes you doesn't mean you have to like him back. just be grateful and move on to the next topic: how do you like me? let us count the ways. (harhar self-involved masyado.)

di yun crush kasi kung crush yun sasabihin niya, "i crush you." yehey daganan.

onefineapril · « **Reply #13 on:** November 25, 2009, 01:58:45 pm »

like is not equal to love

if a guy likes you... then he likes you [period]

but that doesn't mean he loves you....

pwedeng like ka nyang maging friend, maging chatmate, maging barkada, maging ate....but don't conclude na he loves you.. those are two different things

baliwsayo · « **Reply #14 on:** November 26, 2009, 09:12:13 am »

Ang mas importanteng tanong yata for me eh do I like him? Hehe. Useless na like nya ako kung hindi ko naman siya like.

And I agree to aquacharly.. take it at face value. If you're confused with his actions.. di ask him straight to his face. Kung di mo gusto sagot niya, iwasan mo na kagad siya para di na masayang oras mo.

bella123 · « **Reply #15 on:** November 27, 2009, 10:09:23 am »

if a guy tells u "i like u ?" maybe long process pa un para malaman kung love ka na rin nya, sabi nga simple lang ang requirements ng mga guys "appearance" then, "personality" follows.

baby_pipes · « **Reply #16 on:** November 28, 2009, 09:27:08 am »

Sabagay mahirap ang mag-assume... pero ako nung sinabi kasi saken to nung guy sabi ko "i like you too" hehe... ewan ko ba.. matagal ko na rin naramdaman gusto nya ako pero indi pede... at di rin ako nagisip sa naging sagot ko....

luisacart · « **Reply #17 on:** November 28, 2009, 10:00:24 am »

i've been told by the guy i was dating that he "likes" me. he says it a lot actually and apparently it's true. like lang pala talaga nya ako. i mean sure para kaming may relationship kulang na lang i love you's but he can't love me pala. so, he probably mean it. he likes you but then he can also like other people too.

baby_pipes · « **Reply #18 on:** November 28, 2009, 10:34:32 am »

Quote from: luisacart on November 28, 2009, 10:00:24 am

i've been told by the guy i was dating that he "likes" me. he says it a lot actually and apparently it's true. like lang pala talaga nya ako. i mean sure para kaming may relationship kulang na lang i love you's but he can't love me pala. so, he probably mean it. he likes you but then he can also like other people too.

ay ganun... tsk...

saken naman nung sinabi ko we can't be together now ayun sai nya lang he is just waiting for the right time and chance na maging kame kahit alam nya na may ka on ako

babyjapnurse01 · « **Reply #19 on:** November 28, 2009, 05:20:37 pm »

when a guy tells you he likes you, take it as is, dont assume, or dont look further, baka madisappoint/masaktan ka lang, madami akong kilalang ganito, yun pala hanggang like lang, nothing more than that.

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Author Topic: What if he tells you "i like you"? (Read 8544 times)