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Re: How do you handle being Single?
« Reply #20 on: December 04, 2009, 10:13:48 PM »
1. lahat ng 13th month pay ko AKIN LANG!
2. Walang kunsumisyon sa buhay!
3. walang ibang girls na nag tetext sa akin claiming bf din nila bf ko.
4.I dont owe someone  permission if I want to go out. I dont need to report to someone.
5. nobody CHEATING on me.
6. nobody to fight with.
Dont even bother explaining! I cant believe you.

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Re: How do you handle being Single?
« Reply #21 on: December 05, 2009, 05:45:16 PM »
minsan nakakalungkot, nakaka-inggit pag may nakikita kang lovers na sweet.. nakaka-miss ma-inlove. so how do i handle it? i'd say, by staying positive that i am as entitled to happiness as those lovers are.
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Re: How do you handle being Single?
« Reply #22 on: December 05, 2009, 07:24:41 PM »
its gREAT!
Dont even bother explaining! I cant believe you.

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Re: How do you handle being Single?
« Reply #23 on: December 09, 2009, 08:16:54 AM »
nung single pa ako...work lang, ministry, hanging out with friends...and i travel often because of my job..so naenjoy ko naman..kaya nga nagsawa ako eh..hehe..

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Re: How do you handle being Single?
« Reply #24 on: December 09, 2009, 08:19:09 AM »
na recall ko yung sinabi ng friend ko back in college..when we were singles then and whenever we see couples happy..we will just tell ourselves..at least it work for others even if it didnt work for me..hehe ..senti.

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Re: How do you handle being Single?
« Reply #25 on: December 09, 2009, 08:28:29 AM »
i'm always too busy to even notice it now....hehe.

Being single is fun, up to a certain degree. I like the freedom. But somehow nakakasawa din.

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Re: How do you handle being Single?
« Reply #26 on: December 09, 2009, 08:37:15 AM »
na recall ko yung sinabi ng friend ko back in college..when we were singles then and whenever we see couples happy..we will just tell ourselves..at least it work for others even if it didnt work for me..hehe ..senti.

parang yung quote na "everytime i see happy couples i feel good knowing that love still works, if not for me, at least for others"
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Re: How do you handle being Single?
« Reply #27 on: December 09, 2009, 09:22:38 AM »
simply being pretty! naks...

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Re: How do you handle being Single?
« Reply #28 on: December 11, 2009, 11:49:59 AM »
^i agree!  :)
ako nga 25 na pero ngayon ko lang talaga na-appreciate singlehood... ineenjoy ko nalang talaga dahil i can feel na sooner or later magkakapartner rin ako so dapat magawa ko na yung gusto kong gawin solo.
i just prettify myself--- i love wearing skirts, dresses, makeup, accessories
go out with girl friends
mag OT sa work kung nasa mood
walang emotional issues
i can still keep in touch with my exes
i can feel independent and empowered
nirereward ko sarili ko minsan kahit solo lang ako sa starbucks or some resto
pag may problem naman, nahahandle ko naman alone, so wala namang partner na magwoworry pa about me
ok din na may mga nagkaka-crush pero di ko pa kasi nakikita yung mage-effort just to catch me eh ayoko namang ipagkatiwala heart ko ng basta-basta ;)
so there, masarap feeling!!  ;D

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Re: How do you handle being Single?
« Reply #29 on: December 21, 2009, 03:48:18 PM »
im 24...

okay sa akin ang maging single..naplaplano ko yun mga gusto ko gawin...

work and planning to study again..kasi guto ko maging superwoman hehe..

at for my family din nman etoh, n hahandle ko yun life issues ko..pera..

friends..career for being a registered nurse...

masaya namn sya...

yaw ko kasi minsan may inaasikasong guy na minsan ndi nman tumutulong syo imbes pabigat pa sya...
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Re: How do you handle being Single?
« Reply #30 on: December 22, 2009, 04:37:58 PM »
Being single is just a term, what's important is that you keep yourself happy.

Very few people realize that not all of us are destined to find THE ONE. We may have met that person in the course of our lives but circumstances might have led our paths in separate ways.

Am I happy being single? I try to be, at least most of the time. I must admit that there are times when I question myself, why I allowed myself to be this way. You see, it's a choice. There were guys that came into my life but in the end I decided that I'm better off as an individual, not the other half of someone who will just try to manipulate and control me.

If someone comes along, then good. If there's no one, it's fine still. I'm happy the way I am now.  ;)
Life matters. It does. Even if you're hurting; even if you feel like the world betrayed you; even if you've come to the point of breaking down. After all, tomorrow is another day. And there won't be tomorrow if you've given up today.

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Re: How do you handle being Single?
« Reply #31 on: December 22, 2009, 06:22:13 PM »
I'd choose to be single and happy rather than being into a  relationship that only gives emotional stress.

I am focusing to become finacially stable, besides i am more than happy being single compared when i have a bf.

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Re: How do you handle being Single?
« Reply #32 on: December 23, 2009, 12:05:09 AM »
my bf for 11 months and i just broke up 4 months ago. and siguro for now, masasabi kong mas maganda yung single though minsan nakaka miss rin yung may bf who will always be there for me.

ito kasi yung time ng life ko na gusto ko lang talagang mapag isa. actually, one of the reasons why i broke up with him is that i think i NEED to know myself more. feel ko kasi hindi pa talaga ako ready for a REAL relationship, i'll still be turning 18 pa nga din :(

yun nga, happy din naman maging single. I could pamper myself na talaga ang stuffs ng walang commitment na dapat mag text, makipag kita o ano ano. :D Tapos I can meet up with friends na parang naiwanan ko nung nagka bf ako. Kasi I think parang ganyan talaga kung meron ka ng bf, ma le lessen na yung time mo for your friends. :(

Ini-enjoy ko lang yung life ko ngayon... it's more of a "ME" time. Ika nga "before you can be happy with someone, you should own your happiness first. Nothing is more attractive than a person who radiates contentment from within". Oh diba?  ;)

Kaya sa mga nag wo-worry, wag kayong mag worry na single kayo. This is the time for your family and friends and to God. Dadating din si "the one" in the right time. :)

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Re: How do you handle being Single?
« Reply #33 on: December 23, 2009, 07:22:09 AM »
I have been single for almost two years now and some people find it awful. It's not that no one has shown some efforts to win my heart but I decided to just wait for the right person. There are some girls who'll jump into a relationship kasi, just because they couldn't bear the loneliness anymore. But now that I'm unattached, I am proud to say that I get to do all the things that I want without asking for someone else's approval. I noticed kasi na when I was in a relationship, I don't get to do certain things. Like, I don't get to see my friends that often and I don't grow as a person. Parang you tend to rely on your partner kahit it's for your own sake.

Siguro at first, I wanted to mingle with every guy that I meet pero eventually, I decided to spend more time with my friends nalang.  And since I am employed, I get to treat myself every now and then. I don't have to think for a budget for a date. I get to travel anywhere. Treat my friends and family. try new things and meet all kinds of people. I am in my mid-20s now pero napag-isip isip ko na mas mabuting, unahin ko muna sarili ko bago ang ibang tao. Kahit wala man akong love life ngayon, makakapag-hintay naman ako. In the meantime, I try to focus on my career and financial stability.
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Re: How do you handle being Single?
« Reply #34 on: December 24, 2009, 09:34:26 AM »
masakit.. kasi bago palang.. i dont have friends to be comfort wala pang trabaho..
nagiging rebelde na ako..
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Re: How do you handle being Single?
« Reply #35 on: December 24, 2009, 04:20:43 PM »
masakit.. kasi bago palang.. i dont have friends to be comfort wala pang trabaho..
nagiging rebelde na ako..

--ay wag ganyna sis..

nandito kami oh...

lht kami nag daan sa ganyan..minsan worst pa..
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Re: How do you handle being Single?
« Reply #36 on: December 24, 2009, 10:28:38 PM »
^^ sis, ok lang malungkot pero wag ka magrebelde dahil sayo rin naman babalik yung negative side ng pagrerebelde mo.. try mo icherish ang pagiging single ngayon. masakit sa simula kasi you'll feel lonely pero in time, maeenjoy mo rin just like us.
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Re: How do you handle being Single?
« Reply #37 on: December 26, 2009, 01:41:26 PM »
just enjoy life as it is and be happy.. :)
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Re: How do you handle being Single?
« Reply #38 on: December 26, 2009, 10:21:06 PM »
Ako naman I enjoy the freedom. Nobody to make paalam with or to consider about my decisions. The only thing I miss is whenever I wanna go out and nobody's available to be with me. Companionship lang siguro for me huh. I'm not malambing kase so I don't long yung mga hugs and kisses eh hehe! And also, if you're single you can't just argue with somebody not because he did something wrong, but because you just wanna argue. Mga simpleng topak that is, walang shock absorber. And also during holidays.. walang ka-hug kapag malamig ang panahon.. hehe! lol
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Re: How do you handle being Single?
« Reply #39 on: December 28, 2009, 02:37:02 PM »
enjoying it :) never mind what people say. it's my life anyway, not theirs.

 

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