Author Topic: GirlFriend VS GIRL Best Friend (love or friendship) (Read 5304 times)

FOURever · « **on:** October 24, 2009, 06:53:44 am »

sino ba talaga pipiliin niyo at bakit? sino mas mahal niyo? hay. post up.

milkeeway · « **Reply #1 on:** October 24, 2009, 07:09:39 am »

bakit kelangan mamili? hehe

FOURever · « **Reply #2 on:** October 24, 2009, 07:17:46 am »

^minsan kelangan talaga mamili. like, long time wala na communication yung bf at bestfriend tapos hahanapin pa through internet para lang mag usap ng sikreto. ang dahilan, nag away daw kasi yung bf at gf. >.<

milkeeway · « **Reply #3 on:** October 24, 2009, 07:29:27 am »

ah.. eh di gf pa din, hehe

eh di sana kung si bestf lang din pipiliin nya dapat yun na lang ang ginirlfriend nya.

FOURever · « **Reply #4 on:** October 24, 2009, 07:36:00 am »

^pero nalilito talaga ako bakit ganun ang mga lalake. >.< before, i had my bestfriend din na guy.. nung nililigawan niya gf niya, lagi siya nakakabit sa akin. pag may prob, ganun din. hay. nung ako naman may bf, ganun din yata siya. hehe! may halong malisya ba pag ganun? i need help. >.<

trig · « **Reply #5 on:** October 24, 2009, 07:46:49 am »

had some girl friend which are not my girlfriend. Usually pag girl friend you only want to talk with them and go out with them kase pareho kayo ng vibes at hobby but labas dito ang sex, financial commitment, at marriage.

Pag girlfriend naman siguro you plan on marrying this girl. Pero tama ka dapat may weight ang girl best friend or girl friend kesa sa girlfriend. Minsan kase mababaw lang yung girlfriend.

FOURever · « **Reply #6 on:** October 24, 2009, 07:52:49 am »

^bakit minsan mababaw lang yung sa girlfriend?

feeling ko unfair bf ko (he's still my bf, medyo nasa rollercoaster ang relationship namin ngayon). tinatago niya. sabi niya magagalit daw kasi ako. >.< i know mali ako na magagalit ako kasi bez niya yun. pero unfair kasi pinili niyang magtago kesa makipag ayos.

i think it's unfair because nung nangyari ito with me and my GUY best friend, lumayo ako kasi masasaktan gf niya (nagkusa ako kasi wala talagang something sa amin nung bestfriend ko). pero si bf at si bez niya hindi yata inisip yun. i even caught him na susunduin bez niya while me mag isang umuwi. grr! >.<

milkeeway · « **Reply #7 on:** October 24, 2009, 08:02:21 am »

ay wawa ka naman.. hehe

bakit mas matimbang si bestfriend? pag ganun ang lagay, malabo yan.. hehe, ano ba kasi pinaguusapan natin? seryosong relasyon ba to sa gf o saktuhan lang?

trig · « **Reply #8 on:** October 24, 2009, 08:34:23 am »

Quote from: FOURever on October 24, 2009, 07:52:49 am

^bakit minsan mababaw lang yung sa girlfriend?

feeling ko unfair bf ko (he's still my bf, medyo nasa rollercoaster ang relationship namin ngayon). tinatago niya. sabi niya magagalit daw kasi ako. >.< i know mali ako na magagalit ako kasi bez niya yun. pero unfair kasi pinili niyang magtago kesa makipag ayos.

i think it's unfair because nung nangyari ito with me and my GUY best friend, lumayo ako kasi masasaktan gf niya (nagkusa ako kasi wala talagang something sa amin nung bestfriend ko). pero si bf at si bez niya hindi yata inisip yun. i even caught him na susunduin bez niya while me mag isang umuwi. grr! >.<

its the madonna-prostitute syndrome.

Men see two different types of women, the madonna who he does not want to have sex with, but wants her company, and respects her and treats her like his other male friends,

and the prostitute, one where he enjoys and wants to have sex with but does not want to marry her or be with her for a much longer period of time.

The girl best friend falls in the madonna category, the girlfriend falls in the prostitute category.

FOURever · « **Reply #9 on:** October 24, 2009, 10:02:59 am »

^parang mali. hehe! wala naman nangyayaring kababalaghan. haha!

FOURever · « **Reply #10 on:** October 24, 2009, 05:17:40 pm »

he chose me over his girl best friend.

but im still confused. matagal na sila no communication, tapos ngayong super duper di kami ok, he looked for that girl and that girl feel na feel naman na she understands daw kasi may bf. >.< kainis! nag gamitan daw ba sila.

luisacart · « **Reply #11 on:** October 24, 2009, 10:48:52 pm »

kung ako sau, sis. if he's really "best friend" with that girl, i would befriend her. specially if she's almost like a sister to him so i wouldn't make him "choose" between us because it wouldn't be fair. i'm friends with my ex but not close but if my bf forbids me to see my ex aba mabwibwisit ako. i don't really like being told what to do specially kung wala naman sense and ipinaguutos. my ex is already happily married and with kids pa! but we were friends before we got together and we're friends again after we broke up. so really there's no malisya there.

FOURever · « **Reply #12 on:** October 25, 2009, 06:09:09 am »

^thanks. but she's flirting. he admitted it to me last night but then denied it again. gulo. i dont know what to do, i think before i break up with him, im gonna do a sweet revenge *devil.smile* but the problem is, di ko kaya.

anna_uk · « **Reply #13 on:** October 25, 2009, 08:21:24 am »

Hi sis. I would like to think na minsan, our instincts are correct. So if you feel na your bf has feelings with his supposed "girl best friend" - tingnan mo kung dahil lang ba to sa nagkakalabuan kayo or baka naman suppressed [textspeak!] ang feelings ni bf sa knya.
I also have a guy best friend, and we do consult each other pag may love problems - and we can count on each other for comfort. Para kaming guy/girl version of each other to a certain extent - pero purely platonic lang [textspeak!] kasi nga the friendship is more important than taking it to the nxt level - parang ganon. Clear sa inyo mismong magbestfriend ang papel nyo sa isa't isa. Kasi pag yun, malabo, labo labo na [textspeak!]. Agree ako wth what another sis said - befriend the best friend sana - para maski sha nalalapitan mo pag may problema kayo. Haha, that's the role I've played for two of my guy bestfriend's girlfriends in the past. Yung ex ko naman, haha selos ever [textspeak!] kay best friend - pero nung time na yun, asakin un to prove na di sha dapat mathreaten. Ngayon na wala akong bf, minsan I hang out with guy bestfriend - pero alam ko kung san ako lulugar. Minsan, di matatanggal sa isip mo ang "what if" with your guy bestfriend - and I'm sure ganun din sa kanya (actually napag-usapan na den namen to dati hehe).basta - kung di pa kayo ganon katagal - wag na wag mo siyang papapiliin. Baka di ikaw ang piliin nya...

FOURever · « **Reply #14 on:** October 25, 2009, 09:41:19 am »

^salamat sis. we've been two years and i guess that's not enough pa. i am asking him why. sabi niya nung una, sasabihan lang ng problema. tapos hanggang sa sinasabi na niya na ako daw kasi nagkulang at nawalan ng time (before he said, naintindihan daw niya yun kasi nag aaral ako. sabi ko wait niya ako na magkaroon ng sobra sobrang time para sa kanya, sabi niya wait daw niya yun). at sinabi na nga na yun. may something. i asked him ganun ba talaga yun. iba naman sinasagot niya, na ako daw kasi nagkulang. i said to him, ngayong may time na ako sa kanya saka siya nagloko. tapos after a while, after ng ilang usapan, sinabi nung nalaman niya yung sinabi ng bestfriend niya na dineny na may something, dineny na rin niya. sabi ko bahala na sila at magsama sila dahil ayoko ng flirt at sinungaling. ayaw naman niya. i even told him na she's somewhat like a user kasi nung nag aaral pa si bf, andyan yung best friend niya. nung nag stop siya dahil sa problema, nawala na rin. 3-4 years na yatang wala. tapos ngayon, susulpot at para bang nanggulo. babalik kung kelan naayos ko na si bf. di ba unfair? i talked to the girl sabi ko kung bestfriend talaga siya, hayaan niya munang ayusin namin ni bf ang problema at wag muna siya mang udyok at makisawsaw. ang sabi ba naman sa akin, kilala daw niya bf ko way before i did kaya siya daw ang nakakaunawa kay bf. so sinagot ko na siya, past lang ang alam niya kay bf pero after niya iwanan yun, wala na hanggang dun na lang alam niya. she even said i was pathetic so i told her stop acting like a heroine and innocent. hay. sa sobrang inis ko, i asked him sino ba pipiliin niya (alam ko mali yun). he said ako daw. at yun, nung nabasa niya conversation namin ng (ex) best friend niya, sinabi na niya dun na wag na kaming guluhin kasi kung makakasira daw siya (yung best friend) sa amin, wag na lang daw. medyo natuwa ako sa ginawa niya, pero im bothered. kasi twice na nangyari to (una sa ex niya, yung point ko, tinatago niya). instinct ko lang din yung una kong basis tapos nakakuha ako ng evidence. >.< now, di ko alam kung kanino ako magtitiwala, sa instinct ko, sa puso ko o kay bf. kahit wag na si bf, hehe

mag uusap kami mamaya ng mas ok, sana maayos lahat.

thanks

sxymnky · « **Reply #15 on:** October 25, 2009, 10:41:10 am »

hey sis hahaha listen girl there's is no such thing as "just friends"or "Girl bestfriend" sa mga guys cos to them a"girl bestfriend" is just considered a girl they have not **** yet.Gets mo?

(jowk)

FOURever · « **Reply #16 on:** October 25, 2009, 05:15:20 pm »

^sis, di ko maintindihan yung **** hahaha! kauuwi ko lang. pinaliwanag niya lahat. tinanong ko siya kung sino ba talaga nag sisinungaling sa kanila. i demanded him to say the name of the liar.

di daw niya nabasa yung mga hurtful words na sinabi nung bestfriend niya. ang nabasa lang niya yung message ng bestfriend niya sa account niya na wala naman daw sa kanyang malisya yung ginagawa at walang something (i used also his account to reach her kasi). nung nalaman niya na kung ano anong hurtful words sinabi ng bestfriend niya, siya na rin nagalit (but not oa). at nagsorry siya. dahil hindi daw dapat ako sinabihan ng ganun nung girl. pagsabihan daw niya yun at sabihan na lumayo na. tignan ko na lang kung totoo nga.

sxymnky · « **Reply #17 on:** October 25, 2009, 05:27:07 pm »

sis it's the famous "F" 4 letter word

anna_uk · « **Reply #18 on:** October 25, 2009, 11:26:56 pm »

^hindi naman sa lahat sis hehe... may mga guys naman na matino at hindi lang puro s*x ang nasa isip... or so i would very much like to believe

sxymnky · « **Reply #19 on:** October 26, 2009, 10:55:21 am »

hehe sis pananaw ko lang po yun gusto ko rin sana isipin na sana nga....hindi lahat

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Author Topic: GirlFriend VS GIRL Best Friend (love or friendship) (Read 5304 times)