Author Topic: paano mo iha handle ang friend mo na insecure sa'yo (Read 5615 times)

lovely_chic · « **Reply #40 on:** October 17, 2012, 01:20:19 pm »

Keep my distance. Yung mga taong insecure sayo eh nakikipagplastikan sayo eh ayaw ko sa mga ganun. Life is too short para makipag plastikan so iwasan na lang. Mas gugustohin ko pa na walang kaibigan kesa nakikipag plastikan lang sa akin.

megansmomma · « **Reply #41 on:** October 18, 2012, 01:18:14 pm »

ewan ko ba, dito lang sa pinas meron nian! i don't stressed myself too much there are more things to do than grudging over those people who do not have their own happiness..

snowflakes · « **Reply #42 on:** October 27, 2012, 12:08:19 pm »

^ sis dito din sa US meron nyan, yun nga lang pilipino pa rin. rephrase ka lang yung post mo, pilipino lang ang ganyan! hahaha sorry ha.. kase sa experience ko dito mga pinay insecure at inggitera. kaibigan mo man or hinde. minsan iisipin mo nasa kanila na lahat, work, power, pera pero inggit pa rin sila sa akin. samantalang stay at home mom nga ako meaning wala ako pera. hehe

dashgirl · « **Reply #43 on:** March 22, 2013, 01:41:37 am »

Ignore ko lang, as long as hindi nya ako pakialaman. Pwede nya akong sundin, wag lang nya akong galawin.

I dont post that often in fb kaya siguro napapansin nf mga tao pagnag post ako kasi nagllike sila. Onetime, sinabihan ako ng 'kaibigan' ko na sinasadya ko raw para may mag.llike na marami. I cant help it if walang nag llike sa mga pics and posts nya. Also, she never likes my posts and pictures. Pag may bago ako, bibili din sya at post galore kaagad. Lol

KVsWahmmy · « **Reply #44 on:** March 22, 2013, 02:48:38 am »

I'll do to that person what I do when it's me who feels envious or 'insecure' about something or someone - I'll keep my distance.

If that person I'm having that feeling towards is a friend or someone I like, then lilipas naman yon after some time.

Hindi naman maiiwasan ng tao makaramdam ng inggit, or ng insecurity at times. Even the seemingly happy and contented people feel that too. But what really matters is what people do about it. If si friend is insecure and I feel it lang, though she's not doing anything hurtful naman to me, I'd just put a little space between us. And then eventually, if she's a true friend, for sure, that feeling would be fleeting naman. And I as a friend din, will point out in the most subtle way (yung hindi halatang sinasadya.hehe) the great things about her life para maramdaman nya na what she has is just as wonderful.

If for example naman the friend does something hurtful and offensive as a result of these feelings, then ganon pa din, keep my distance. Pero siguro for a longer time - and literal na quiet lang talaga ko, no reaching out muna. Kasi if she acts like that because she was just insecure/envious means may deeper issues sya na kailangan isettle, maybe with herself, or perhaps between the two of us. But the space/distance will certainly help clear the air first for possible talks in the future about it. This is given that she's a true friend ha.

If we don't talk again ever, and she stays insecure for the longest time - well, alam na.

happie · « **Reply #45 on:** March 23, 2013, 10:53:44 pm »

Hindi talaga maiwasan yan so I normally avoid those people and restricted sila sa Facebook para hnd Rin nila alam what I'm doing.

bluegintonic · « **Reply #46 on:** April 28, 2013, 05:02:22 pm »

tama, stay away. Yan ang mali ko in-add ko pa rin sila sa FB ko for memory's sake. Ang mga taong hindi ka kayang i-accept at your best,not worth your time and attention talaga.Minsan din i-a-add ka lang kasi nacu-curious at manguusisa lang sa buhay mo.