hi sis baby_addict, sis redrose, i empathize with you. i know how it feels having lost babies thrice already. 1st one was ectopic, 2nd one was no fetal heartbeat, 3rd one was blighted ovum. and they were all in a span of 8+ years of TTC journey. the gaps of my pregnancies were 2-3 years apart due to my infertility issues such as PCOS, only 1 fallopian tube left from the ectopic pregnancy. mga sisses, allow yourself to grieve. ok lang yan. ako even if the last lost pregnancy was 2007, until now masakit pa din pag iniisip ko pero hindi na ganun kasakit unlike the previous year. in time you will be healed.
sis baby_addict, about the experience, yung ectopic masakit talaga and i had to undergo surgery. then yung 2nd masakit din at dun ako naraspa at para akong naglelabor. but the 3rd one, it just passed out as mens na hindi naman ganun kasakit as compared with the 2nd one. for my 3rd i didn't undergo D&C. as to recovery, sis take time ka lang...kase recovery yan not just physically and emotionally. physically, after my D&C i was ok na after a few weeks. siguro mga 3weeks++. which means i can go around na. pero yung ambulation o pagtayo tayo, mga 2 days or so lang ako after the D&C. but i guess recovery depends on your physical ability. meron kaseng iba na mabilis pero merong iba naman na mabagal.
good luck mga sisses sa journey. BFP to all of us TTC!