^ well, you can never escape judgment. the idea is to go for what works for you and what you really want. if a person wants to get married before living with someone, by all means, do that. nakakainis ang judgment lalo na kasi, mas madaling ipreno ang bibig kesa takpan ang tenga. but what other people say should never be a factor in someone's decisions. the disapproval of society or other people should not stop you from doing what you want to do, if it's something that doesn't really hurt anyone, in the same way that their approval should not be a go signal to do something that doesn't really feel right.
in short, magkaroon ng sariling decision. know what you want, be matured enough to stand by that decision even if it's not all roses all the time and be brave enough to change it if there is absolutely no way in hell you'll still be able to stand it. ganyan lang ang life. joke joke joke lang lagi. harhar.