thank you sisters for the opinions. my husband was not able to meet this parent pagkahatid sa school. but then i was sent sa guidance office nung sinundo ko son ko and talked to their class adviser and guidance counselor. the teacher aid told them what happened and they apologized naman, na dapat kasi talaga yung teacher aid lang kakausap saken and she never expected na magtatatalak yung parent. I said I never want to make an issue out of it naman kasi it's just a tumbler pero it was returned na, di na tinanggap nung dad and lola daw nung bata (guidance counselor said they're chinese, which explains the attitude). pinadala pa rin ng class adviser sa student baka daw magbago isip. ayaw na rin nila makarating ito sa principal's office, according to them (guidance and adviser) humihingi rin daw ng sorry yung mother sa inasta nya and nagulat daw sya na nagawa nya yun. if ever daw na pinabayaran yung tumbler it would be the guidance and teacher's expense na lang daw dahil nga sa nangyari at wag na palakihin. my husband, sabi nya gusto daw nyang bumawi by monday daw pagkahatid sa son ko kase napahiya kame, bigyan pa daw nya 500.