Get weekly updates via email!
tip of the day SUN 23 NOV 14
No boyfriend? No problem! Learn to be comfy in your own company--it will help boost your self-confidence too!
  • Good House Keeping
    The New Mrs. Pitt, Angelina Jolie, is on the cover of the November issue of Good Housekeeping!
    Good Housekeeping
GIRLTALK

Author Topic: Abused Women Support Group: Verbal, Physical, Emotional  (Read 103943 times)

kylakirst

  • Newbie
  • *
  • Posts: 14
Re: Abused Women Support Group: Verbal, Physical, Emotional
« Reply #320 on: January 05, 2012, 12:42:12 AM »
at this momment nakipaghwalay n hisband ko sakin,sobrang sakit mga sis diko kaya na makita sia family nmin na sira so that i decided to say goobye na too evrybody sguro hindi ako kasing tpang ng iba to face this kind of problem,weak ako,honestly khit gno pa nrnasan ko hrap sa asawa ko mnahal ko sya but still sguro [textspeak!] n sya pagmmhal skn na npksakit pakinggan,kiling my self is the only thing naiisp kong solusyon dhil hndi ko alam kung pano sisimulan ang lhat.thank u sister for listening my story tjis is the last time na mag share ako ng problema ko,im loser and i cant face the reality.thank you to all of u.

amberdeler

  • GirlTalker
  • **
  • Posts: 40
  • Ako si Darna!
    • Amanda's Purplebox
Re: Abused Women Support Group: Verbal, Physical, Emotional
« Reply #321 on: January 14, 2012, 02:59:03 PM »
mga sis.... ask for help sana...
i have a friend who's based in Korea with
tapos in relationship sya with a Sri Lankan..
she's also a victim of violence..
recently lang sya nag confide sa akin..
walang nakakaalam sa family nya dito sa Pinas na
ganun ang ginagawa sa kanya..
sobrang seloso daw nitong guy..
at nakakabuo ng story para ma i set ang idea na
may lalaki sya.. tingin ko mentally disturbed ang guy na to...
natatakot ako for my friend...
hindi nya alam kung san pwedeng humingi ng tulong..
The beauty of life does not depend on how happy you are, but on how happy others can be.. because of you..

siomai

  • GirlTalker
  • **
  • Posts: 83
Re: Abused Women Support Group: Verbal, Physical, Emotional
« Reply #322 on: January 31, 2012, 10:40:31 AM »
at this momment nakipaghwalay n hisband ko sakin,sobrang sakit mga sis diko kaya na makita sia family nmin na sira so that i decided to say goobye na too evrybody sguro hindi ako kasing tpang ng iba to face this kind of problem,weak ako,honestly khit gno pa nrnasan ko hrap sa asawa ko mnahal ko sya but still sguro [textspeak!] n sya pagmmhal skn na npksakit pakinggan,kiling my self is the only thing naiisp kong solusyon dhil hndi ko alam kung pano sisimulan ang lhat.thank u sister for listening my story tjis is the last time na mag share ako ng problema ko,im loser and i cant face the reality.thank you to all of u.
OMG kylakirst! how are you? I hope hindi ka nawalan ng pag-asa. talk to your family. they will understand you. talk to your friends. hindi ka nag-iisa. talk to people. talk to someone. talk to a priest. talk to a tita. a friend a family member basta talk to anyone. dont keep your emotions and thoughts all to yourself. dinaanan na rin ng maraming tao yan. i myself have been abused but i am in a much better place now because i chose to be. my prayers are with you. keep safe

xhyrel_01

  • Probationary
  • Posts: 1
Re: Abused Women Support Group: Verbal, Physical, Emotional
« Reply #323 on: May 26, 2012, 10:40:39 PM »
 :'( mga sis may live in partner ako for almost 6yrs.. until now binubugbug pa niya ako, sa madaming tao minumura niya ako, nag wawala siya kahit sa labas ng bahay. ako ang nahihiya sa mga tao.. nag babasag siya ng gamit, nag mumura as in mura hindi ko na makain.. mahilig siya manuntok,manapok manipa.manampal.. dumadating na sa time na nahihimatay n ako sa sakit.. anyway may unang asawa siya at 2 anak. mga help kasi napuno na ako. hindi ko alam kung kanino mag sasabi. hindi ko na din alam panu ikwneto ng buo. help mga sis

Princess_Chill

  • Super Agent; Part time Broker & a
  • Super GirlTalker
  • *****
  • Posts: 1668
Re: Abused Women Support Group: Verbal, Physical, Emotional
« Reply #324 on: June 17, 2012, 04:59:20 AM »
Hi mga sis

I admit before nakatikim ako ng sampal and sakal sa asawa ko ( live in partner) kasi dati pag umiinom siya parang nagiging ibang tao siya. lumalaban ako noon and noong hindi na siya lasing i talked to him heart to heart and told him na pag naulit niya akong pagbuhatan ng kamay na hindi rason na lasing kasi siya kaya nya nagawa iyon iiwan namin siya ng anak namin...at i consider niya na wala na siyang pamilya.

after that i thank God na smooth na relationship namin nagbago siya at hindi na kami masyado nag aaway as in seldom nalang...

@xhyrel

sis kung hindi mo na kaya tama na...ang mga babae kasi mapag matiiis pero you need to set a limit for yourself..makakahanap ka eventually ng taong magmamahal sa iyo ng may respeto. Mahirap talaga mahiwalay kaso you need to respect yourself para i respeto ka din ng partner mo...
To God be the Glory

rhapzdee

  • Probationary
  • Posts: 8
  • 09176957200
Re: Abused Women Support Group: Verbal, Physical, Emotional
« Reply #325 on: June 29, 2012, 12:19:02 AM »
i am currently being abused by my ex boyfriend.he just left my home.pina blotter ko na siya still he cam back and was able to get inside the house.again sinira niya mga gamit ko pati mga damit ko sandals lahat lahat. i dont know what to do umiiyak lang ako ngayon.nagsisigaw na ako pero walang tumulong. i live in a place na malayong malayo sa pamilya ko.wala akong relatives dito.just me. what should i do?go to the police again tomorrow?hindi ko na alam.gusto ko tumahimik na buhay ko.nahihirapan na ako.please advise me on what to do.natatakot na akong lumabas ng bahay
God is always on my side :)

momentum

  • Super GirlTalker
  • *****
  • Posts: 1298
  • ♠ Get What You Give ♠
Re: Abused Women Support Group: Verbal, Physical, Emotional
« Reply #326 on: June 29, 2012, 02:47:08 PM »
i am currently being abused by my ex boyfriend.he just left my home.pina blotter ko na siya still he cam back and was able to get inside the house.again sinira niya mga gamit ko pati mga damit ko sandals lahat lahat. i dont know what to do umiiyak lang ako ngayon.nagsisigaw na ako pero walang tumulong. i live in a place na malayong malayo sa pamilya ko.wala akong relatives dito.just me. what should i do?go to the police again tomorrow?hindi ko na alam.gusto ko tumahimik na buhay ko.nahihirapan na ako.please advise me on what to do.natatakot na akong lumabas ng bahay

girl I think the first thing to do is lumipat ka na, find a place where you can move or better yet go home to your parents. kung takot ka lumabas, tell your parents your problem tapos magpasundo ka sa lalakeng family member mo para may escort ka.you can't handle this alone anymore so you need help from your family
----♣ Get Busy Living, or Get Busy Dying ♣----

rhapzdee

  • Probationary
  • Posts: 8
  • 09176957200
Re: Abused Women Support Group: Verbal, Physical, Emotional
« Reply #327 on: July 01, 2012, 02:20:11 PM »
thanks po sa advice.i've already spoken to the representative from women's desk and i need to file a case against him.it's hard living in fear.my parents are also coming over from cagayan de oro to support me on this. thanks po  :)
God is always on my side :)

design21

  • Senior GirlTalker
  • ****
  • Posts: 818
Re: Abused Women Support Group: Verbal, Physical, Emotional
« Reply #328 on: August 16, 2012, 01:32:57 PM »
my cousin opened up for the first time she said and to me pa. she almost died the last time she was beaten up kaya hiniwalayan na niya. no one in her family knew kasi nasa states na sila. i felt helpless not knowing she have been suffering for the past 3 years. what do i do. I am currently on bedrest i couldnt even go out of the house because im pregnant and i do have a very complicated pregnancy. i dont know what to say. because i am one spoiled wife:( i was never hit by anyone  ni hindi ako napalo ng parents ko before. my husband treats me like a queen so hindi ko,alam but of all people sa akin siya nagsabi now i feel helpless.

how can i advice if hindi ko naman naranasan ni minsan ang masaktan?
Pray, Hope and Dont Worry

Dacian

  • Don't hope for a miracle. Make one.
  • Senior GirlTalker
  • ****
  • Posts: 732
  • Death is fleeting... Love lasts forever.
Re: Abused Women Support Group: Verbal, Physical, Emotional
« Reply #329 on: September 15, 2012, 01:17:23 AM »
ganito rin prob ng sister ko and nephew ko.
Do some time with the one you love.

Dacian

  • Don't hope for a miracle. Make one.
  • Senior GirlTalker
  • ****
  • Posts: 732
  • Death is fleeting... Love lasts forever.
Re: Abused Women Support Group: Verbal, Physical, Emotional
« Reply #330 on: September 20, 2012, 04:32:22 AM »
just last week, i found out that my nephew was molested by his own father.  and the problem is ayaw ng wife (my sis) isumbong sa police.  instead, pinaalis na lang ng bahay.  ayaw nya daw ng iskandalo.  pano naman ang justice for my nephew?
Do some time with the one you love.

momentum

  • Super GirlTalker
  • *****
  • Posts: 1298
  • ♠ Get What You Give ♠
Re: Abused Women Support Group: Verbal, Physical, Emotional
« Reply #331 on: September 26, 2012, 12:37:46 PM »
^ holy cr@p!  >:( makakarma din father ng nephew mo..kawawa naman siya :(
----♣ Get Busy Living, or Get Busy Dying ♣----

Dacian

  • Don't hope for a miracle. Make one.
  • Senior GirlTalker
  • ****
  • Posts: 732
  • Death is fleeting... Love lasts forever.
Re: Abused Women Support Group: Verbal, Physical, Emotional
« Reply #332 on: September 26, 2012, 07:03:59 PM »
@momentum
sana nga makarma talaga!  ginagawa daw yun kapag nasa banyo kapag pinapaliguan nephew ko.
Do some time with the one you love.

latte

  • GirlTalker
  • **
  • Posts: 108
  • Always in the vortex
Re: Abused Women Support Group: Verbal, Physical, Emotional
« Reply #333 on: September 26, 2012, 07:45:45 PM »
:'( mga sis may live in partner ako for almost 6yrs.. until now binubugbug pa niya ako, sa madaming tao minumura niya ako, nag wawala siya kahit sa labas ng bahay. ako ang nahihiya sa mga tao.. nag babasag siya ng gamit, nag mumura as in mura hindi ko na makain.. mahilig siya manuntok,manapok manipa.manampal.. dumadating na sa time na nahihimatay n ako sa sakit.. anyway may unang asawa siya at 2 anak. mga help kasi napuno na ako. hindi ko alam kung kanino mag sasabi. hindi ko na din alam panu ikwneto ng buo. help mga sis

Love yourself and MOVE OUT FROM HIM. Mahirap sa umpisa pero sigurado ako kakayanin mo.

flatfooted

  • Newbie
  • *
  • Posts: 19
Re: Abused Women Support Group: Verbal, Physical, Emotional
« Reply #334 on: January 04, 2013, 01:31:42 PM »
hi, is this topic still active?

latte

  • GirlTalker
  • **
  • Posts: 108
  • Always in the vortex
Re: Abused Women Support Group: Verbal, Physical, Emotional
« Reply #335 on: January 05, 2013, 02:06:57 AM »
As long as di pa yata locked meaning active pa.

Amina777

  • GirlTalker
  • **
  • Posts: 84
  • lover of all cute gadgets
    • priceprice.com
Re: Abused Women Support Group: Verbal, Physical, Emotional
« Reply #336 on: January 21, 2013, 05:04:05 PM »
Yah, I think you decided the right way because you have your sweat kid, and you just said that you want to grow him/ her in more peaceful circumstance. I'm sure that your kid was so scared as well.
I always feel that why these kinds of sadness wouldn't disappear.
As I studied psychology, people who abuse someone had experienced of been abused.
I dunno but maybe he also is a victim..well, this is my personal guess but these cycle is just generating a tragedy.
I just pray that you and the people who all experienced abusing will spend a life very peacefully. Not just for human but all living things.
♥ღ♡~♥ღ♡~♥ღ♡~♥ღ♡~♥ღ♡~♥ღ♡~

sexycovergirl

  • Please dont touch my property.
  • Probationary
  • Posts: 2
  • Sexy b****
Re: Abused Women Support Group: Verbal, Physical, Emotional
« Reply #337 on: January 26, 2013, 10:58:26 PM »
I am not a battered wife. But I am emotionally stressed dahil sa husband ko (live in partner)

We are just about to be married this year. Planning still going on.

I dont know if you would think my situation as petty. Ako kasi, I think medyo malaking problema na siya.

We both know that my daughter is not his child. But his family doesnt know it. So they are treating my daughter like their own blood. Their family is bonded pero secluded. I mean, hindi ako welcome sa family nila and kahit sino pang maging asawa ng mga kapatid or pinsan nila, hindi pa rin yun part ng family nila. Marami sila laging sinasabi sakin. Pero, ayun they are treating my daighter nicely.

Batugan yung partner ko. Something na lumalala as time goes on. Since August last year, wala na siyang work. Ayaw niya magsrtive na maghanap ng work. pag hinanapan ko siya, siya pang galit. PEro wala siyang ginagawa sa bahay kundi maglaro sa mga gadgets niya.

Naisip ko na siyang iwan. Sabi ng friends ko, wala na daw akong makikitang kagaya niya na sobrang mahal yung anak ko. Kaso, yun nga, batugan.

Triny ko na siyang iwan, pero ang gusto niyang mangyari, hahatian ko siya sa mga upcoming loan payment sakin (nagpapaloan kasi ako). Which i dont think is fair kasi hindi naman siya tumulong dun. Plus, all I wanted to bring with me (aside from my daughter) is my laptop and our TV. Pero sabi niya, I need to pay him 10k para makuha ko yung laptop kasi iniinsist niya na nagbigay siya for it.

Hindi rin ako makakuha ng suporta sa pamily niya para mapagsabihan yung partner ko kasi tingin nila kasalanan ko kasi daw masyado daw akong selosa. THe hell, e gusto ko nga siyang umalis ng bahay araw araw e.

Im sorry. Possibleng wrong thread tong pinasukan ko. Nonetheless, I still feel emotionally abused dahil sa baggage na lagi kong iniisip.

Can you suggest po of any steps na pwede kong gawin para makuha ko yung mga assets ko fairly?

TIA
I maybe a b**** but Im the definitely not your ordinary b****. Still a b**** though. Urgh

prettyjlo

  • GirlTalker
  • **
  • Posts: 99
Abused Women: Verbal, Physical, Emotional
« Reply #338 on: May 15, 2013, 11:13:45 AM »
Maconsider bang verbal abuser mr ko kasi kapag nagagalit sya sinasabihan nya ko bobo t**** ga** at mababaw?
Lagi nya rin ako sinasabihan na lumayas na ko. Stay in housewife ako at seaman sya.
Magkaiba kami ng spiritual beliefs, at sinasabihan nyang hindi totoo sa akin at demonyo ako. Verbal abusing din ba yun?
9 years na kami married this end of May with 3 children ages 8,6 and 3. sabi ko sa sarili ko after 10 years pag ganito pa rin sya baka hiwalayan ko na.
Very good provider at responsible naman sya. Okay din naman trato nya sa mga anak namin. Hindi rin sya babaero ever since dahil takot sya sakit at may pagkaconservative talaga sya.
The only problem is impatient sya lalo na sa kin at lagi sya nagsasalita ng harsh words towards me. 
Ako ba may problem? nagbabasa ako ng mga article about verbal abuser at nababasa ko minsan iniisip ng victim its her fault. Sa kin lang naman kasi sya ganun at pag nakita nio pa itsura ng mr ko, parang di nya kaya gawin yun mga ginagawa at sinasabi sa kin. Maamo talaga ang face nya.

sundaysat

  • Probationary
  • Posts: 1
Re: Abused Women Support Group: Verbal, Physical, Emotional
« Reply #339 on: June 08, 2013, 04:38:49 PM »


Hi to all...masasabi na na verbally, emotional and financially iaabuso ako ng asawa ko...for 22 years naming mag-asawa 2 taon lang nya kami nabigyan ng matinong buhay.  Drug dependent sya, at lulong pa sa sugal. Pareho kaming may-trabaho pero ang pera nya ay kanya lang at nakukuha pa nyang humingi sa kakarampot na kinikita ko at tuwing tumatanggi ako ay kung [textspeak!]-anong masasakit na salita at pananakot ang sinasabi nito.  Sobrang takot na takot na ako sa ngayon, may mga gabing hindi na ako makatulog kaya gusto ko ng hiwalayan, pero binabantaan nya ako na pag umalis ako ng bahay ay papatayin nya mga kapatid at pamangkin ko...at isa pang inaalala ko graduating na ang bunso ko ngayong taon sa college pag nagtago ako sa kanya ay paano ko mapapatapos ito sa pag-aaral kung mawawalan ako ng trabaho...tulungan nyo po ako, good advice at sobrang kailangan ko ngayon, at kung paano ko tuluyang iiwanan ang asawa kong sobra na ang ginagawa sa amin.  Ano po ang dpat kong gawin at sino ang pwede kong lapitan upang matapos na ang pang-aabuso ng asawa ko....

pwde po ninyong akong i-email:  [email protected], [email protected]
umaasa po ako na kung sino mang ang makabasa ng liham ko matulungan ako sa aking problema.

Belle
« Last Edit: June 08, 2013, 04:46:41 PM by mama squeak! »

 

ADVERTISEMENT
follow us
ADVERTISEMENT
ADVERTISEMENT
ADVERTISEMENT
Featured Articles
5 Steps to Financial Fitness in Tough Times
Instead of grumbling about the plight of the peso and dwelling on the negative, try these helpful tips to stay afloat. Remember--a little discipline goes a long way!
You're the breadwinner: Now what?
You want the freedom to spend your money as you wish but you know that if you don’t bring home the bacon, no one else will.
Getting money-wise: Why women are naturally capable of managing cash
She works hard for the money but she doesn’t know how to invest it. Here, Pearlsha Abubakar tells us why women are capable of managing their money well, but don’t. Read and get smart with your money.
Never go broke again! The FN guide to financial freedom-forever!
Fear not bankruptcy or eternal dependence on your parents (or a man!). There's a financial strategy for everybody. Read and get money-wise.
Wise up: Start your own business!
Tired of living from paycheck to paycheck? Why not go into business? Read on and find out how just a little cash can become a lot.